If a Woman Delays Sex, You're Not Her Top Priority. (Video)

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I actually acted slow with a woman once and she asked, "Why are we not having sex?" Another time after a first date from OLD, a woman told me on the phone that she wondered why I did not kiss her.
Their brains cannot process this property because they are not used to this kind of a situation. They just assume you have low interest.

The exception to the rule is women form traditional/non-western cultures.
 

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That actually can happen. And that's why I don't advise it. But I could sense that she would not lose interest.

I actually acted slow with a woman once and she asked, "Why are we not having sex?" Another time after a first date from OLD, a woman told me on the phone that she wondered why I did not kiss her.
I would have responded with, "you never asked to take a shower". :)
 

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Their brains cannot process this property because they are not used to this kind of a situation. They just assume you have low interest.

The exception to the rule is women form traditional/non-western cultures.
I've heard from 2 different women that they had friends that had married secretly homo men, and these both these guys never consummated the marriage. :eek: :eek:
 
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If a man delays sex, is the woman not a top priority? I delayed sex with my wife after first meeting for three and a half months, even though I could have had it a lot sooner. My friend stalled it with his second wife for three months, purposefully.
Nothing is black and white. Every case contains individual differences.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Why would you expect or even want to be the top priority of a woman you've never slept with? Priority isn't just granted, it's earned progressively over time. Unless you are 15 years old, anyone you meet should have other more important priorities then you, a relative stranger.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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