If A Girl Lets You Go Condomless

[guitaronfire411]

Should you be scared or enjoy the trust?

I know she hasn't been with a lot of guys and I was careful not to *** inside of her. My ex let me do the same but she had a IUD. Without an IUD or birth control or anything, it seems like an extreme sign of trust and love from a girl but I could be wrong. Previously this girl refused me sex on the grounds that too much would make it less special and she didn't want to risk pregnancy (with me, it seemed at the time). Now it seems like she trusts me more, no?

Any help is appreciated. Tied in with my other thread but thought I wouldn't clog it up AND it might help other people here who are wondering the same.

 

[sosousage]

90% - naive
9% - in love
1% - wants child with you hoping you she gets pregnant this way

 

[guitaronfire411]

She had actually got pregnant with her last ex so I am surprised as heck she is letting me go raw. Last time I went for sex she pulled up her pants and said it was late and she didn't want to get pregnant.

 

[Billtx49]

I wouldn’t regard it as trust, and I would be very wary when a women not on birth control drastically changes her sexual preferences about her fear of a possible pregnancy, and another man being involved.
Google ‘bait and switch’

 

[Alvafe]

She had actually got pregnant with her last ex so I am surprised as heck she is letting me go raw. Last time I went for sex she pulled up her pants and said it was late and she didn't want to get pregnant.

funny I don't, that just mean she is a idiot, or the very least see a nice paycheck from you,

its like my social circle, most of then think i'm rich or something, jsut because I never let money be a issue when we go out or do something, maybe she see that in you too and... well you know

in another note I would more then likely use condom the same, first I don't trust her, second if she goes raw with me she does with others and i'm really not willing to risk my health or even make a parasite with her

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Should you be scared or enjoy the trust?

I know she hasn't been with a lot of guys and I was careful not to *** inside of her. My ex let me do the same but she had a IUD. Without an IUD or birth control or anything, it seems like an extreme sign of trust and love from a girl but I could be wrong. Previously this girl refused me sex on the grounds that too much would make it less special and she didn't want to risk pregnancy (with me, it seemed at the time). Now it seems like she trusts me more, no?

IMO it's reckless behaviour and it's a big red flag. I can't say jack shït tho because I'm guilty of playing pull out roulette myself. I don't think it's worth the anxiety to be honest. You should talk her into getting on birth control, I've done it plenty of times.

Woman are submissive and she should follow your lead and get on it. If she doesn't, DROP HER. Red flag she's not on it to begin with AND another flag that her ex got prego!

"too much would make it less special"

You've lost some frame as well with her comment. Anytime I've heard this, in my mind that means our libidos don't match up. Out of all my "best" RL's they NEVER made a comment like this or tried controlling sex frequency.

A lot of red flags man, good luck.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Only time I'd go rubberless (for full sexual intercourse anyway) is if I was in a secure LTR with someone. Oral sex is a bit different, but still wise to use a condom or dental dam in the early days, as un-trendy as that is.

It's not just pregnancy (which, when unplanned, is a f*cking atom bomb on your life make no mistake).

It's STIs too. Tons of people (hell, I'd even say most) just assume they'll get "harmless" gonorrhea at worst and then it'll just be a routine course of antibiotics and job done. And that's exactly why we're starting to get antibiotic resistant STI superbugs, and it's exactly why at this rate people will be dying of syphillis again in a 10-20 year's time. The sheer f*cking dumb-animal stupidity of humanity at it's finest.

I just have to do a face palm when people say "BUT IT FEELS BETTA."

Would you rather put some rubber on your kn*b, or shove your d*ck in something that feels marginally nicer for 5 minutes and get HIV/herpes/med-resistant chlamydia/PREGNANT?

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My ex was always saying how she preferred sex without condoms and she seemed like a pretty decent girl all round. But then I started thinking "Hang on, how many guys have you seen since you broke up with your ex?" "3." "And you had sex without condoms with them?" "Yes." "How long did you know them?" "2-4 weeks ish."

Yeah, she had herpes - no f*cking surprise with that level of sexual ignorance. Whole relationship went to s**t, because I was offering her my virginity and she was offering me herpes.

Beautiful girl, great sense of humour, I still miss her a year on sometimes. Breaking with her sucked and I'm yet to connect with someone like that again. And yet her proclivity for risky sex ruined the best relationship she'd had before we could even sleep together. The guy she got it off of looked like a drug addict, I couldn't believe she even slept with this d*ckhead.

Wrap it before you tap it, the alternative f*cking sucks.

 

[Masculinity]

Should you be scared or enjoy the trust?

I know she hasn't been with a lot of guys and I was careful not to *** inside of her. My ex let me do the same but she had a IUD. Without an IUD or birth control or anything, it seems like an extreme sign of trust and love from a girl but I could be wrong. Previously this girl refused me sex on the grounds that too much would make it less special and she didn't want to risk pregnancy (with me, it seemed at the time). Now it seems like she trusts me more, no?

Any help is appreciated. Tied in with my other thread but thought I wouldn't clog it up AND it might help other people here who are wondering the same.

Get out of the mentality that she "lets you" do things. You're the leader in the relationship. You hold the frame. And a smart man who is in control of his impulses doesn't trade 45min of action for the possibility of 18yrs of child support. Be better than that.

 

[Murk]

Some great advice in this thread, I've used a condom probably 7-8 times and my lay count of new girls, this year alone, is 8.

I usually pursue bareback then frog march them to get the morning after/plan b.

I'm possibly infertile, sh!t, the amount of drugs and smoking I've done it's a real possibility.

Stop being a nerd and start leaving it in, welcome to the inner circle of wreckless act first ask questions later gang.

 

[Solomon]

Be careful to many STD's to go raw in rando's like that in 2018

dodged a bullet a few times myself

 

[greatsnake]

no thanks.
No condom, no sex.

I remember meeting a chick at the bar, got super drunk and we ended up at the beach. We started having s3x with a condom, 10 minutes later she told me told me to take it off and give it to her without it. The adventure ended there and she started crying because I didn't want to give it to her raw.

LMAO

 

[Alvafe]

You can lose a girl for being a condom nazi but it doesn't matter(women HATE condoms and love reckless sexuality). If she's not on the pill, don't go there without a condom.

better lose a woman then risk to get something or even worse get her prego from you

 

[skinnyguy]

better lose a woman then risk to get something or even worse get her prego from you

Don’t you know how to pull out?

I always do raw dog and pull out.

 

[Alvafe]

Don’t you know how to pull out?

I always do raw dog and pull out.

yeah because pulling out is a 100% chance to prevent pregnancy even a condom is not 100%, and there is the other issues

 

[stovepipe]

The last girl I dated said "stop asking me a million times if I'm clean", "I've been tested, don't worry I'm clean, just pull out". Ended up giving me HPV and pregnant twice. The kicker, I later found out she did in fact know she had HPV and got pregnant on purpose both times. She never got pregnant when I made her take the plan b pill in front me, but got pregnant when she "apparently" took it took on her lunch break.

While I have to live with this HPV crap forever, I'm thankful that I aborted twice. The thought of having a child with that sloot would have been a death sentence. Never trust any girls word, wrap it up! Women who go raw tend to be low value and also impulsive risk takers.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Don’t you know how to pull out?

I always do raw dog and pull out.

skinny ****s can't pull anything byt hogs and trolls. the only thing skinny ****s pickup are the pink dumbbells.

raw dog is retardo. begging for stds

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The last girl I dated said "stop asking me a million times if I'm clean", "I've been tested, don't worry I'm clean, just pull out". Ended up giving me HPV and pregnant twice. The kicker, I later found out she did in fact know she had HPV and got pregnant on purpose both times. She never got pregnant when I made her take the plan b pill in front me, but got pregnant when she "apparently" took it took on her lunch break.

While I have to live with this HPV crap forever, I'm thankful that I aborted twice. The thought of having a child with that sloot would have been a death sentence. Never trust any girls word, wrap it up! Women who go raw tend to be low value and also impulsive risk takers.

mate how did you obtain crotch rot? women are getting railed by scum bags and cucks are marrying them after they mutated in bulking season.

 

[speed dawg]

I've slept with over 60 the past 12 years and very rarely has one ever demanded that I wear a condom.

Quick question because I know you're in your forties.....are you snipped?

 

[speed dawg]

skinny ****s can't pull anything byt hogs and trolls. the only thing skinny ****s pickup are the pink dumbbells.

raw dog is retardo. begging for stds

While I'm not going to advocate going raw dawg all the time, STDs are way overstated and pulling out is 99% effective.

 

[Von]

- Fmylife best story since 2009

Personally, all the girls I've been with, asked me to wear a condom.

Anyway... I freak out about STD even if I have a condom.

Now, you hear about some STD (herp, pap virus) that the condom only "increase your chances of protection". Cause they skin to skin.

Also, now in Canada... Herpes STD test are being " privatize" and we are told they usually aren't effective (blood or physical evaluation by MD) or they don't work unless you have outbreaks. (And sometimes they give false results)

So basically you could have caught it without ever knowing and than infect the "dream girl aka wife aka LTR aka mother of your child" without knowing.

Every time I have a ONS or a plate.. I think about these STD. That kills me and my stress explode/anxiety.. And I get sick.

So I guess, I'll limit to the LTR sex lol. Also that's the only time I went RAW. LTR the only place for that in my opinion. My exs had no issue and wear all on birthcontrol since they were in no hurries to lockdown (booming career, doing Masters at Uni)

I know so many "professionnals" who after a ONS became parents lol.

According to studies: Semen/sperm has healthy effects on Female.. It act has a High..

Sperm for female is
1) a natural anti-depressant,
2) it improve sleeps
3) gives you anti-oxydant, vitamins C, anything that beneficial to the body and increase your "feel good"
4) lower blood pressure and stress
Etc.

It actually been proven that Cosmetic companies and Spa use sperm/semen in their products and treatment to increase relaxation and efficiency.

So I guess the girls who want it RAW have issues and are in need of a "fix" ... like getting HIGH on SEMEN (it can last 1 week) instead of "weed/coke"

My ex was allergic to my semen. I got lucky on that lol

So semen is the new drug... and you wonder why White Male sperm has been reduced by 75% from historic findings.

Unprotected sex is sooo irresponsible, even if STD might be more rare than we think.. They are still around and you sleep with someone past that you don't even know.

I wonder sometimes if Escort are cleaner than your average bar hoe/plate.

I've know a ex-GF of a friend (already 10 years ago)... they were 8 years together. She got pregnant 3 times and got 3 abortions.. He eventually dumbed her and the girl became crazy.
He told me she was always telling him that she took the "pill" but guess she was lying.

I am sure the guy asked for it, so he ain't 100% clean either but thats weird behaviour of the girl (lying about being on the pill). They were 21 back than.

I know a teenager (17) who got pregnant 2 times from 2 different guys both times she was forced to abort. She dreamed of having the kids... yet we told her about how kids force you to be "adult" and do a "pause" on your "fun".. she wouldn't believe us (like she could still live like she's alone, have fun, do what she wants when she wants.. With a kid..). Major lack of somethink.

People forget responsabilities and I heard it too that STD are becoming more and more MD resistant.

Always wear a condom.. Tell her you'll last longer and be able to climax her more.

Use your brain