moneybanks24
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 4, 2008
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Okay, so I've been hooking up with this girl for quite a while now. She's very attractive, I'd say an HB8. On Valentines Day, I took her out to dinner (we're seniors in high school) with the intention of asking her out. I did ask her out, and she said she'd get back to me. So this Monday she shows up at my house with two of her friends, both of whom I'm close with. I ask her why shes here and she acts like she is going to say yes by hugging me and kissing me and whatnot. LAter when we go back to ehr friends house she sends me a text saying no. NOw, this greatly surprised me, because I had this girl eating out of the palm of my hand (or so I thought), all her friends said she liked me blah blah blah. She gives me the explanation that she just doesn't do relationships anymore (she's only been in one), and that it's too much effort but shes still not opposed to hooking up. Initially, I was hurt but then I realized this was probably a good thing. Until later....I'm at a party and get a text saying actually maybe I should just get over you now and we should stop hooking up. So I give her a call and she says that she knows we're leaving in 6 months and it wouldnt be worth it to get more attached. I don't argue because I'm not one to beg, I respected her decision but I said we shoudl be coo, and by cool i meant civil, not friends. TOday she ims me just wanting to "talk".
Me: is there anything in particular that you want?
Her: NO just to talk. Why cant I talk to you anymore or do i need a reason.
Me: WEll you said that you didnt want to be in a relationship with me, and then you didnt want to hook up with me...which are both insulting
Me: I dont want to be friends with you I have enough friends
(She proceeds to freak out about how I'm being unreasonable)
Me: So you don't want to ever be in a relationship?
Her: No, I dont want kiids and I dont want to get married. It's too much work.
Me: Good luck being alone for the rest of your life.
(I tell her my philosophy on relationships and how the pleasure involved outweighs the pain)
(It goes in one ear out the other)
Me: good luck and i sign off
I dont have any intention of keeping up a friendship, quite frankly I dpn't like her that much as a friend. Feedback on how I handled this or the situation in general?
Me: is there anything in particular that you want?
Her: NO just to talk. Why cant I talk to you anymore or do i need a reason.
Me: WEll you said that you didnt want to be in a relationship with me, and then you didnt want to hook up with me...which are both insulting
Me: I dont want to be friends with you I have enough friends
(She proceeds to freak out about how I'm being unreasonable)
Me: So you don't want to ever be in a relationship?
Her: No, I dont want kiids and I dont want to get married. It's too much work.
Me: Good luck being alone for the rest of your life.
(I tell her my philosophy on relationships and how the pleasure involved outweighs the pain)
(It goes in one ear out the other)
Me: good luck and i sign off
I dont have any intention of keeping up a friendship, quite frankly I dpn't like her that much as a friend. Feedback on how I handled this or the situation in general?