I Will Not Trust Women For Now On

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Part of being a DJ is to allow ourseleves to live the honest stright life. If we live a life that we can be proud off, there is no reason for us to keep big secrets away from our loved ones and others and there won't be a reason for us to get in trouble either.

If we fvck up, which can happen, lets face the consequences like men, instead of hidding, decieving and manipulating in order to hide the truth. That is what women do. Lets not become them.


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Part of being a DJ is to allow ourseleves to live the honest stright life. If we live a life that we can be proud off, there is no reason for us to keep big secrets away from our loved ones and others and there won't be a reason for us to get in trouble either.
If we fvck up, which can happen, lets face the consequences like men, instead of hidding, decieving and manipulating in order to hide the truth. That is what women do. Lets not become them.
A****INGMEN!

Ha ha, good post. Yeah, I definitely agree. Part of me knew this all along, I have used women to "unintentionaly" leak information all the time. They're great haha. Pretty much, if something is a hot topic, and is kind of a "Wow, are you serious?" thing that you tell a women, all her friends will know about it.
I have come to terms with the fact that women will never admit that they're wrong, (99% of time). It used to piss the shvt outta me when I couldn't make her understand how she is wrong but every women out there will decieve and manipulate and hide the truth.

Originally posted by blueangel83
I'm a woman and this is my comment to you...

why don't you just turn gay if you hate women that much

Women CAN be trusted! STOP GENERALIZING!

I could say the same thing about men, but I am fully aware that there are men out there who are trustworthy.


Ok blueangel, can you ADMIT to us that women in general are LESS likely to be able to keep a secret than a guy is? In general, I think we all know this is true. In general, there is MORE of a chance that a girl will give up a secret then a guy. Can you ADMIT this blueangel? Please resond.
 

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Trust is something that has to be earned. The truth is neither men nor women are trustworthy. I ,just like probably everyone else here, have been backstabbed by both. Look at history, Shakespeare, the bible. All loaded with stories of betrayal. Human nature does not change. And transcends gender.

What you have to keep in mind is an ex breaching your trust will hurt ALOT more than a buddy. Why? No matter how close you are with your friend, you did not share the intimacy with him you did with her. This isn't even including sex. Your friend doesn't kiss you goodnite, fall asleep on your shoulder ,whisper affectionate statements in your ear. Who's betrayal will hurt and seem worse?

I trust my dog more than any person.
 

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Hey, time to get some reality checks dude...

PEOPLE can't be trusted. Wtf are you on about with women?!

I have 2 very close friends in my life. 1 is a guy and the other a woman. Although they are very close runner ups, i trust the woman more even though i've known the guy the longest.

Why? Simple, because of their differences in character.

Now do i trust them completely and utterly? Nope, i trust them, to the core but there are always things a person must keep to himself, things noone really wants to know about.

You want to know where the difference really lies? It's in the way men and women make decision. Guys you don't really know so well and don't have much rapport with will usually be more trsutworthy than women you know equally well and have an equal small amount of rapport with.

The reason for this is that men are more prone to being true to their word. A guy can stay true to his word, eventhough he sees the error in something. If you got his word of honer, he's prone to keep it. Women on the other hand are true to their emotions. If you do something that doesn't sit well with her she will make you pay for it because she doesn't feel good about it and this is more important than her word.

That's the difference and imho it doesn't make women less worthy than men. Just different.

Lieing, cheating, manipulating and backstabbing are things that LOTS and LOTS (really LOOOAAAAADDDS) of people do. Not just women!
 

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thus why do you think there hasnt been an american female president to this date?
 

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Originally posted by solo1
thus why do you think there hasnt been an american female president to this date?
Because, people know (women included) that a women would fuuck things up even worse than what they are now.


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How is it that India, a world nuke power with some hefty economic might had a woman president and didn't self destruct?

Pakistan?

England?


Women don't use their emotions when balancing a check book. They don't use their emotions when teaching children.

They use their emotions to make decisions on selecting a mate. To say otherwise is to reduce them to a womb on legs. And men, we do the same damn thing! Do you use your powers of logic and deduction to find your best qualified mate? I hardly think so. Otherwise, this board would not be filled with stories of HB 8.5's and snoggings.

It's self glorification of the male if we simply assume that they are drooling morons who are only programed to look after themselves. If that is how you view women, do NOT complain if that is all you run into in life.
 

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I will never trust a woman again. I believe they can’t be trusted.

I will probably eventually when and if I want to get married but until then NO.

Now I’ve put up a lot of crap over my lifetime but something came up and that was the last straw.


Now just recently some shyt went down and I almost got screwed. We didn’t kill or rob anyone people however I still almost got seriously screwed.

All thanks to a woman.

And thanks to her I now know that they can’t be trusted, they do not make good friends, nor can they be fit to be ahead of anything. I now personally do not feel comfortable knowing a woman is in charge with serious decision-making.

The reason stuff went down is because

A woman couldn’t keep her mouth shut and when stuff went down and push came to shove she let my buddy and I out to dry.

She didn’t let us know what was going on. She acted on emotion and she just went to save herself.

Now lucky for us I have one and only one true good lady friend that came through and let us know what happen. And we eventually took care of everything and now things are somewhat all right again.

Again we didn’t kill or rob anybody people. Police isn’t or going to be after us. Just thought I throw that out there. Anyways..

After all this I thought to myself, what have I learned from this?

I learned that,

A MALE guy friend would not of done that to me. A true buddy wouldn’t let you hang out to dry. A MALE buddy always or 95% of the time got your back.

It was a perfect example of why NOT to keep in contact with an EX and talk about things that you do or say like you were together. People get jealous. They don’t keep the same honor system or your secret like they did when you were together.

You DO NOT talk or tell people secrets or things you did where others might hear or see.

That means you DO NOT Write that person a letter, Text Message, IM message, Email, Voice Mail, Note, or anything like that. And even on the phone be careful.

A Woman can’t keep her mouth shut or a secret when she is in love or still in love with someone. You can forget it.

When danger is abound woman think irrationally and act on that and on emotions. Not seeing it through and the whole picture.

Now on that side not when I found out I didn’t freak. I kept my cool EVEN though I was pissed off I immediately thought of how to solve the problem. I didn’t think just for myself but of others.

The end results were that every thing is cool and nothing end up really bad happening.

But really,

Have you ever notice that when you get in trouble or hurt, there is always a women involved.

Think about it.

I can,

Just to list a couple that happens to me,

Lost a close friend cause of a girl,

Lost a girlfriend,

A family member,

A Broken Heart,

Got in to trouble countless of times cause of a girl,

Clouded my judgment and caused me to do something stupid.

That just a few I can think of.



Again the outcome of all of this and of later events have made me realize that

1. Women do not make good friends, (there are at least 1 exception to every rule)

2. Save personal feelings, thoughts, and experiences of alike for your wife.

3. Cannot be fully trusted (unless married),

4. I will not keep in contact with EX and if so never ever tell them anything like I use to,

And

5. They CAN NOT make rational decisions when faced with danger or a serious problem.
I have respect for you man so thats why I wont give it to ya that bad...You wont trust women anymore? listening to yourself man-I know you're a rational man-If you dont trust women then dont trust men then-because we all are the same-we lie-we cheat...What?SO? thats how it is man-unless you planning on becoming a monk I suggest you Tighten the F8ck up and live man! Dont let nothing stop you from p*ssy! They love Dic* as we love puss*-they cant help it-we cant help it...SO DEAL!
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
The reality is that women are inferior, and that they don't have the physical, emotional, or intellectual strength that we do. It's frustrating then, if you come to depend on them.
Oh holy hell... now that sir is a bold statement... some times I wonder if you sexists are also racists... club her and then drag her by her hair cause she deserves it? Caveman tactics?

Yeah chicks can be overly emotional cause they bleed at least once a month but damn... any chick in a relationship with a guy she knows has the perspective of sexual superiority and not sexual balance... is one dumb ass chick...
 

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So basically:

1) You got burned by ONE woman
2) Now you hate all women


Wow, maybe I should hate all blacks, Americans, and Europeans cuz I've been burnt by those people too!
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
So basically:

1) You got burned by ONE woman
2) Now you hate all women


Wow, maybe I should hate all blacks, Americans, and Europeans cuz I've been burnt by those people too!
If you take the time to actually read the whole post just maybe just maybe you would actually know whets being said instead of being ignorant and posting blindly.

That was just one EXAMPLE.

There have been plenty of others and not all from me but from tons of other guys even including you.

I was just pointing out that if you ever notice when shyt goes wrong or have relationship problems or other things a woman is involved.

And I was posting of what I learned from all these experiences.

So do your self a favor and stop being ignorant and sounding stupid and actually READ someone’s post before posting.
 
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go to any womens site and there are like a million threads called 'revenge' or 'I'm gonna piss in his cornflakes cos of what he did' or some shyt. dont see any threads like that here
 
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i reckon you can trust a lesbian more than a gay. not being homophobic they are jus gossipy like women and selfish like men. id trust a bigbulldyke first
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Thats a Wyldfire tactic, he said trust not hate.

A huge difference. Please dont stoop to feminist extremes to make a non point.


Exactly! :up:




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The common mantra of society is that GUYS are the ones who use, cheat, hit-it-and-forget-it; impregnate a girl and leave her to take care of the baby. I'm not saying that this doesn't happen. But I've seen more GUYS being used than GIRLS being used. WAY more often.

It's much easier for a woman to string guys along and use them than for a guy to string girls along and use them. Let's face it - even the fattest, ugliest, most obnoxious women, or the most stuck-up, b!tchy, and slutty women can get boyfriends.

It doesn't work this way for us.

There are no such thing as "guy problems", any woman can get any guy she wants if she really wants him with little or no effort.

This is the reason why it's seen as cool when a GUY can string girls along, but it's seen as wrong when girls do the same thing: It's simply because it's so EASY for them to do they're just taking advantage of a situation and that it is NOT AS IMPRESSIVE. They're just taking advantage of the fact that it's easier for them to do it.


These are harsh facts because these are the end times. The quality of what is said to be God's greatest gift to a man starts to deteriorate.

Here's the deal...

Most women do not love any other people (parents included) but themselves.

Most women don't care about anybody but themselves.

Most women don't really see any kind of value in anything or anybody unless it can benefit....THEMSELVES.




This is exactly why I say to guys all the time that a good woman is very rare. And this is exactly why I tell so many guys to quit judging quality solely off of LOOKS alone.

If she doesn't seem like a caring person, DON'T DATE HER.

This is exactly why I tell guys to STOP PUTTING WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL, either. Most women are NOT relationship material. I hate to break it to you, but they're not! Of course we're better people than them, we're going to be.

Most women live much easier lives than most men. They don't have to work for what they get nearly as much as we do. They don't have to be as good of a person as we do to make it in life, so they don't ever work to develop their humility. It's the bottom line. ESPECIALLY with attractive women.
 

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do not trust anybody. A male friend will do the same thing.
 

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Originally posted by Craig Reeves
The common mantra of society is that GUYS are the ones who use, cheat, hit-it-and-forget-it; impregnate a girl and leave her to take care of the baby. I'm not saying that this doesn't happen. But I've seen more GUYS being used than GIRLS being used. WAY more often.

It's much easier for a woman to string guys along and use them than for a guy to string girls along and use them. Let's face it - even the fattest, ugliest, most obnoxious women, or the most stuck-up, b!tchy, and slutty women can get boyfriends.

It doesn't work this way for us.

There are no such thing as "guy problems", any woman can get any guy she wants if she really wants him with little or no effort.

This is the reason why it's seen as cool when a GUY can string girls along, but it's seen as wrong when girls do the same thing: It's simply because it's so EASY for them to do they're just taking advantage of a situation and that it is NOT AS IMPRESSIVE. They're just taking advantage of the fact that it's easier for them to do it.


These are harsh facts because these are the end times. The quality of what is said to be God's greatest gift to a man starts to deteriorate.

Here's the deal...

Most women do not love any other people (parents included) but themselves.

Most women don't care about anybody but themselves.

Most women don't really see any kind of value in anything or anybody unless it can benefit....THEMSELVES.




This is exactly why I say to guys all the time that a good woman is very rare. And this is exactly why I tell so many guys to quit judging quality solely off of LOOKS alone.

If she doesn't seem like a caring person, DON'T DATE HER.

This is exactly why I tell guys to STOP PUTTING WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL, either. Most women are NOT relationship material. I hate to break it to you, but they're not! Of course we're better people than them, we're going to be.

Most women live much easier lives than most men. They don't have to work for what they get nearly as much as we do. They don't have to be as good of a person as we do to make it in life, so they don't ever work to develop their humility. It's the bottom line. ESPECIALLY with attractive women.

Damn, so far this is probably (pound for pound) the best post i've ever read here.

This should be in the bible!




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Originally posted by SAYNO
Damn, so far this is probably (pound for pound) the best post i've ever read here.

This should be in the bible!




Sayno'
I agree.

Very nice post Craig Reeves. Very Nice
 

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Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
Im at a loss for words now. Womens rights movement and all other progress has just taken a dive and been set back 50 years with that statement. While we're at it lets add blacks, latinos, arabs and monkeys to the list.

What do blacks, latinos, arabs and monkeys have to do with this thread? Maybe you need to be able to think this one through with out a pc knee jerk reaction.....?
 

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Originally posted by TheDarkSaint
How is it that India, a world nuke power with some hefty economic might had a woman president and didn't self destruct?

Pakistan?

England?

B]



When Thatcher was prime minister of the U.K. she manipulated the media big time in order to create the Falklands was, she sent a nuclear capable submarine and sunk an Argentine ship killing hundreds maybe thousands and got re elected because of it. Hundreds of Englishmen got killed to.... note thats English and Argentine MEN not women.... Also when the leader of pakistan and India was a women they went to war if I remember rightly.... women and men all do it, (lie and cheat)but they do it differently and if you cant see the differences then your probably someone who can easily be manipulated by chicks...
 
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