lol. I knew I'd get some response with that.
Look, the lesson here is that you have to manage a woman, almost like you'd manage an employee. We live in a society that doesn't hold them culpable for their misdeeds and the result is chaos. It may not be that those cultures that have arranged marriage hate women as feminists tend to say, but they simply found something that worked for them.
There are smart women, and there are good ones out there, but often there's a tradeoffs, like looks or some glooming problem. So pick your battles. Put energy into getting with higher caliber people. Otherwise, despite your feelings today, you'll make the same mistake again.