I will be officially ending my “model phase”

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Yes - I think I will also be hanging it up with the models. It just got too easy and boring to get these women. Going to start giving myself a real challenge with some single moms.
 

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I’ve learned that texting models in different countries on IG simply isn’t a sustainable option long term and that there are plenty of beautiful girls in my city. I don’t need a model, I just want someone who is attractive. So I’ll go after normal cute girls instead.
Another way is grow some kind of business or get good at crypto and then fly out.
Might take a while but I think it would be worth it . Just don't catch no feelings for the models.
 

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man , I told you in a previous post

based on your instagram , you are a solid 5

if you would max your fundamentals ( clothing style , haircut , etc etc ) you can easily become a 7-8

At the moment , more than some hippie / artistic girls you will not have success with , mainly because you look too much yourself like a hippie / artistic

if you are serious about this , yoh hsvr to improve your fundamentals otherwise you will end also the “ meeting cuties in my city “ phase
 

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Instagram models don’t count. I don’t consider a girl to be a model unless she’s signed to an agency.
Agency modeling is way more legit than Instagram.

You are a manlet to an agency level model. Most agency level models are 5'10" - 6'2", much like female volleyball players. Even the 5'9" models would consider you a manlet because while you are the same height as them, they prefer a man taller than they are, not same height.

5'9" is an overall shiitty height to be for a man. 5'10" is no picnic either.

based on your instagram , you are a solid 5

if you would max your fundamentals ( clothing style , haircut , etc etc ) you can easily become a 7-8

At the moment , more than some hippie / artistic girls you will not have success with , mainly because you look too much yourself like a hippie / artistic
I think 5 is a fair assessment based on his Instagram. He's only 21 though, so he has time to up his income. Height will always work against him, especially with agency models. Getting a 5'0"-5'5" woman is realistic at 5'9".
 
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You can still find some 5.7-5.9 models, but they usually want to date 6'+ men. 5'10"+ models, forget about it, it's not gonna happen.
I think that it is doable if she really likes you

models are used to being taller than most people around them

my friend is the same height as me ( 6’ - a bit over 1.80 m ) and is dating a model that is like 1.80m without heels

he usually buys sneakers that have a thicker base , to get a bit more height when she is wearing heels . And the difference is not that noticeable

but … he is a good looking fella and quite successful in what he does

I also have a friend that is like 1.70 m and is dating a girl that is like 1.85 m ( former volleyball player ) . He is using Al the time sneakers with higher base , but it is a very noticeable height difference between the 2

again this guy is also good looking ( if you exclude his height ) and very good socially

the height difference is not necessarily a problem … but for sure you have to have everything else in place

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Women find it quite difficult to date men taller than them

one thing is to be 1.70 m as a woman , and a totally different thing is to be 1.80 m or above . Basically only guys over 1.90 m would do

And to be at least 1.90 m and good looking and cool . That is almost impossible , so that is why they would be more flexible in terms of something that it is not as important for them ( the man being taller ) as long as he is really interesting

sure , the preference would still remain there … but it is something that women would be ok with if it is not there

short women are actually the ones who will never ignore the height factor , mainly because they think long term “ I do not want my children to be midgets “
 
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Instagram models don’t count. I don’t consider a girl to be a model unless she’s signed to an agency.
The Instagram models that be shakin' they azz and doing slutty TikTok trends and being reposted by Dimezofthegram and whatever are agency signed. I mean, a good number of them are.
 
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man , I told you in a previous post

based on your instagram , you are a solid 5

if you would max your fundamentals ( clothing style , haircut , etc etc ) you can easily become a 7-8

At the moment , more than some hippie / artistic girls you will not have success with , mainly because you look too much yourself like a hippie / artistic

if you are serious about this , yoh hsvr to improve your fundamentals otherwise you will end also the “ meeting cuties in my city “ phase
Instagram doesn’t represent how I look IRL.
IRL I’d say I’m a 6 or 7. Plus women seem to be more attracted to my character and personality more so than my looks.
 

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Instagram doesn’t represent how I look IRL.
IRL I’d say I’m a 6 or 7. Plus women seem to be more attracted to my character and personality more so than my looks.
bro , you are a solid 5 . You are not a 6 and definitely not a 7

you have to improve your fundamentals a lot in order to have access to the really cute girls , otherwise you would just stay with the mediocre ones ( that you attract with your character and personality now )
 
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bro , you are a solid 5 . You are not a 6 and definitely not a 7

you have to improve your fundamentals a lot in order to have access to the really cute girls , otherwise you would just stay with the mediocre ones ( that you attract with your character and personality now )
I said IRL. Not on IG. Two different things.
 

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I have my suspicions about how feasible it is to actually have sex with Instathots. Talk on the Internet? Sure. But as far as being a part of their in-person lives? Women who might live hundreds of miles away from you? They already have an in-person social circle. Husbands and/or boyfriends and/or other people. They don't really need anyone else. Anyone they're gonna meet, they're gonna meet as part of the lifestyle and career obligation of being an Instathot.

That's why I ask questions like "What sort of career field would I have to be in where I would be meeting such Instathots?" To that point, I feel like most of the reason why @thegodofEDM2001 is even on the radar of models is because he's a DJ. He's in the wheelhouse that Instathots deal in career-wise. It's a "clouty" thing to be a DJ.
 

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Why would you ever waste your time messaging women in other countries unless you are there?
I actually disagree with this because there's two possible benefits.

1. You can absolutely talk girls into sending you nudes.

2. You can get a girl DTF, or as close to DTF as she can be over text and then you have a place you can visit and get laid guaranteed.

I don't know if either of those would be possible with really hot girls who have plenty of options though.
 

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I actually disagree with this because there's two possible benefits.

1. You can absolutely talk girls into sending you nudes.

2. You can get a girl DTF, or as close to DTF as she can be over text and then you have a place you can visit and get laid guaranteed.

I don't know if either of those would be possible with really hot girls who have plenty of options though.
No one needs nudes that don't eventually lead to sex. That's just pictures, and there's a wealth of free pictures on the Internet.

But again, if anyone who's ever ****ed an Instathot would like to show their work, or even just a woman hundreds of miles away from them, I'd be interested in seeing it.
 

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bro , you are a solid 5 . You are not a 6 and definitely not a 7

you have to improve your fundamentals a lot in order to have access to the really cute girls , otherwise you would just stay with the mediocre ones ( that you attract with your character and personality now )
No need to be a jerk, man.

What does it matter what the OPs SMV is?

What's actionable for OP is whatever level he is currently at, he can work on improving it. Not solely for the sake of attracting better quality women, but so that you improve in general.

Honestly, if you want to know your SMV, just look at the SMV of the women you tend to get. They are usually -1 or -2 of your own SMV.
 
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