all of this is the scary reality of the world we live in. Where we have to live in fear that everything works out for us. Because the second we hit deep ****, we're ****ed. This guy has a perfect example of such and I don't doubt for a second that this guy has been scarred for life as a part of it.
I mean really, the guy gets arrested and has all this stuff done to him and accused of something he clearly felt he didn't do. It just goes to show you that you are safe when no one knows you, but the second something like this happens it messed you up for life. It's like you can be charged and sentenced to death, when you've been telling the truth the whole time, ONLY for them to come back down the road and say "sorry, we had the wrong guy" or "sorry, he actually was telling the truth and didn't do it" but at that point its a case of oh well.
Here, it doesn't take much for a girl to make an accusation of rape and for it to haunt you for life. It's so easy to and the fact that men are the most likely to be NOT listened to now adays makes everything that much worse.
We're treated as scum and are accused of being guilty of everything we do. There's almost no chance that we DO have, of being proven innocent, unless you get off lucky and have the odds with you, instead of against.
It's stories like this, that make me uncomfortable about approaching women and doing things like keno and things of that nature. Because I figure they will do what they gotta do to help themselves, even if it means destroying your reputation and future.
The wrong thing would be to sit here and think I hate women. Not true, I just get turned off by these things and find it that much harder to trust them off the bat. Because they could easily lie to you and manipulate you and f_ck u over in the end.
And please don't take this the wrong way, because not every girl is like this. Some are, and that's what I'm pointing out. And it's hard to know who these people are until it's too late, even if we think they're being honest and true. They could just be that good at hiding it or at using you, that you wouldn't know it until after it's game over.
Another note is that it's scary to think what our freedoms in this world really are, because it's getting harder and harder to remain safe. Even though this is off topic, I am sometimes am scared to travel for fear that I'll be arrested for something I didn't know about and be f_cked for the rest of my life and living in a prison in another country or something.
It doesn't take much and when it happens, you're lucky if you get out of it without any problems. That's the scary world we live in.
