I want to tempt my girl to see if she would cheat.. longg story.. !!!

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Wow dude seriously are u a troll and like the attention the others are giving you or just plain stupid? If you were secure her cheating on you would be the last thing on your mind. Obivously your mad cuz YOU KNOW she cheated on you so you just want to get back at her. Seriously GROW UP you already GOT PROOF she DELETED IT THE MESSAGERS FROM HER OTHER LOVERS and you want more proof? Best way to get back is to move on and start seeing other women. This will show her that you moved on and your perfectly fine without her which will driver her NUTS.

So basically stop being a B*TCH and dump her cuz her attraction for you is below 50% which means anything you do will just annoy her.

 

[ScrewIt]

I dont think its worth debating over wehther or not she'll be honest and make an attempt to 'clean her slate' by speaking the truth.

I'm going to give you an alternatve perspective on this. She's sparing you the truth because she doesnt want to spiral the situation worse than it already has...such as more arguments.

If she came clean and said it to your face, it would be a form of sh!t test to see your reaction. Could you really handle a girl that did this every week and expect not to get pissed over it? i know i couldnt handle that sh!t, it's disrespectful.

You may be after the truth, but it may not be what you want to hear if and when it finally does come out.

JMO, but i dont think she'll ever come clean because she doesnt want the relationship to end. Whether or not you can put this behind you is your decision. If you cant, then i'll have to side with the majority and dump her and move on.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Okay, she's cheating on you and I can't blame you for being curious. I think you're being a d.ick about it though. Sometimes you just need to have the self control of somebody over the age of 6 and just wait for the solid proof to fall into your lap instead of snooping around in her business. Did you really need to do all that ****? ummm hello? its called friends. It will get back around to you eventually if she is cheating or not and you don't have to be the f.ucking KGB spying on her, yelling at her, and making her cry and all this ****.

 

[StrangeButTrue]

OK, she's CLEARLY cheating on you dude, she's playin' you like a fiddle. And not with just one guy, either.

Dump her. You know she's lying because none of her stories jive with eachother, and she conveniently deleted all the evidence. How much more proof do you need?

 

[JonJack]

jcdjgd,
Where you're going is a very dangerous place to be. You say you want to know whether she'll cheat on you. Truthfully, if you're good at it, you can get anyone to cheat. Plan it right so that the person she is supposed to cheat with is like a dream guy and super hot and he knows what she's interested in and what her sense of humour and before that you get into a huge argument with her and piss her off. Don't you think she'll cheat? Or wait. Don't tell me you want to know whether she'll cheat on you on less than ideal circumstances.

Realize this. The answer you are looking for is obvious. Yes, she will cheat on you depending on the situation, person, circumstances, etc.... Now, is finding out whether she'll cheat on you your real objective? Or are you actually trying to comfort yourself and reassure yourself that she's not going to leave your worthless arse? If that's your reason, I think you better figure out some other way of making her not leave your sorry a$$ besides 'tricking' her into cheating.

 

[dot]

by the way you're acting i'm not surprised

 

[DasaniWater]

LOL we got a new Dasani in the sosuave forums!!! HEY BROTHER!!!

I hope you make me proud. i hope you constantly bish about your gf for months to come, and you never take anyones advice.


Make me proud, my little apprentice. It's time for me to retire.

 

[00Kevin]

don't be afraid to put any woman to the test!

do it.

 

[[S]alvatore]

You're asking for trouble, and I hope you get it. What a ridiculous idea.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Turn her into an FB already!

 

[jcdjgd]

I dont think its worth debating over wehther or not she'll be honest and make an attempt to 'clean her slate' by speaking the truth.

I'm going to give you an alternatve perspective on this. She's sparing you the truth because she doesnt want to spiral the situation worse than it already has...such as more arguments.

If she came clean and said it to your face, it would be a form of sh!t test to see your reaction. Could you really handle a girl that did this every week and expect not to get pissed over it? i know i couldnt handle that sh!t, it's disrespectful.

You may be after the truth, but it may not be what you want to hear if and when it finally does come out.

JMO, but i dont think she'll ever come clean because she doesnt want the relationship to end. Whether or not you can put this behind you is your decision. If you cant, then i'll have to side with the majority and dump her and move on.

I know I think that's why she won't come out either, but I really won't break up with her over it. I know she didn't cheat, well I am almost positive she didn't, but I know she flirted with him and I need for her to admit that she was lieing about everything. It just makes me mad she tries to cover it up like she's scared of me or soemthing. I tell her every time I'm not goign to break up with her and all I want is the truth.

 

[ScrewIt]

I tell her every time I'm not goign to break up with her and all I want is the truth.

Admitting the truth means admitting wrong, it's all about ego. Happens often in movies, but rarely if ever in reality. Would you DO the same if it were you?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... but I know she flirted with him and I need for her to admit that she was lieing about everything...

And exactly how is this going to help the relationship? How is this going to benifit you? Is being right more important than doing what works?

 

[wayword]

1) she was using that guy as an ego booster, for attention
2) the possiblity of thinking of cheating will always be in any person's mind if they are in a relationship

I guess it all depends what's your definition of cheating...
Did she think about doing it? probably
would she have gone through with it that night if he showed up? you dont know

Well, to top those off she lied to cover them all up. So, she obviously has a HIGHLY deceitful nature, even if she hasn't physically fvcked those guys yet (which you don't know). That alone is enough grounds for dismissal for me - FIRE DAT BYCH!

I really don't know what more this guy needs to see? He's already busted her several times now.

Like has been said many times in this forum before:

- "Girl's night out" at da club/bar = Wh0re's night out
- If she's contacting a lot of guys via text or Myspace - they ain't "just friends" talkin' about the weather...
- Girls cry at least once a month and very easily (unlike guys), so don't get swayed by that cuz it's really no big deal to them. In fact, many can turn it on like a faucet.
- Don't listen to what a girl tells you, watch what she does when she don't think you can see.

 

[00Kevin]

There is nothing wrong with puting a girl to the test. The problem here is that I don't think he will just end it with her if she fails. He will most likely try to find a way to rationalize what she is doing.

 

[Latinoman]

Homeland INSecurity threat level: RED (for extreme paranoia and urine soaked insecurities)

LOL. So true.

 

[jcdjgd]

Admitting the truth means admitting wrong, it's all about ego. Happens often in movies, but rarely if ever in reality. Would you DO the same if it were you?

I would because I trust her more then anyone in my life. If she told me she wouldn't break up with me, I would tell her.

 

[jcdjgd]

And exactly how is this going to help the relationship? How is this going to benifit you? Is being right more important than doing what works?

It is going to benefit me because I am about 90 % positive she is full of ****, but I just need her to tell me to get this over my head and to just finish it. I would forgive her if she told me. I know I think about other girls sometimes. Everybody does. I just don't take action on it. I jsut need her to confess and admit to the lies and to the pre-mature cheating and get this by me.

 

[jcdjgd]

There is nothing wrong with puting a girl to the test. The problem here is that I don't think he will just end it with her if she fails. He will most likely try to find a way to rationalize what she is doing.

I wouldn't break up with her if she told me. I would be pissed as hell though. I know she didn't cheat, but I jsut want her to tell me what she was thinking about and why she did it. I just need the truth and why she did it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It is going to benefit me because I am about 90 % positive she is full of ****, but I just need her to tell me to get this over my head and to just finish it. I would forgive her if she told me. I know I think about other girls sometimes. Everybody does. I just don't take action on it. I jsut need her to confess and admit to the lies and to the pre-mature cheating and get this by me.

So why not just forgive her no matter if she admits to it or not? It seems that you need to forgive her not for her sake but for yours so that you can move on without having to keep spinning your wheels.