I suggest you avoid strippers as well. If you don't already know or meet them from a mutual friend and you expect to meet them on the job, you have to bend the rules of being a DJ for just a second. It's still possible, but requires open-mindedness. I know I might catch some flack for this, but I have picked up strippers many times from their job.
---The reason that you have to bend the rules is because you are at their place of business and they HAVE to make money.
The first tip is to go EARLY. If you go to school or work, go afterwards. I don't like going
without my friends but it shouldn't ever matter if your game is tight.
The reason you go early is because the stripper to guy ratio is alot less. They don't have to run all around the floor trying to find saps to juice. They will sit down and have a conversation with you longer when they have less clientel. To get their attention is easy. Just say "Hey! Come here!" and direct them to you with your finger and introduce yourself. Simple and she can't deny you when she is at work. Remember, her job is to get money from the men.
The next step is simple... Engage in those DJ skills you know to get to know her better. If she has problems she will probably tell you (girls can't shut up, especially strippers) and you can decide wheter her lifestyle or background is good enough or not healthy.
The rule bending comes in here... You can either: A) get a dance. or b) Or if she has to dance on stage, follow her and give her a few dollars (one's ONLY!)
...This will setup the closer....
Hopefully, there won't be enough men trying to get her attention and she can sit down with you again.
Closer: Most strip clubs have a rotation when they are open lots of hours. Some smaller strip clubs have to stay open late so they have a changeover at around 8 or 9. Now that you caught her around 6 or 7, got to know her, maybe gave her a dollar or two, NOW find out if she is getting off at that changeover point. Don't ask right away (initial convo) because you don't want to seem like you just want to F. If she is hungry or wanting to party, girls that get off at 8 or 9 would rather leave with you vice a girl that gets off tired at 3 or 4 in the morning.
If not... Play it cool and don't even ask for a #.
Next time you come back early again, (of course she has to be there) avoid her but remain visable. Give a few dollars to other girls instead of her. She will come over and re-introduce herself or just come up and wonder why you are tipping other girls and ignoring her this time. Works like a charm.
Just reset and apply DJ skills again and work into a fine lather until your game gets so silky smooth that she can't resist. Good luck bro!
