I think I might have to get me one of these stripper chicks

[STR8UP]

Sounds good. If she were to try to flake again I think you need to be convincing that she should get her butt to the meeting place. Sometimes flakes are just token flakes, basically sh!t tests.

My problem is that with my schedule and trying to work with hers it's nearly impossible to say "OK WE ARE GOING TO MEET AT x TIME AT x PLACE ON x DAY". Basically, if I can't commit I can't expect her to do the same. So it's almost like 1 flake only counts as 1/2 of a flake...

I agree about the TOKEN flake thing.

The chick who brought me to this site pulled that sh!t on me. I was a regular at a bar where she bartended, and after months of drooling over her from afar, one night we were talking about live reggae and she whips out a ****tail napkin and hands me her number. Call her up a couple days later and guess what happens? Yup, she flakes. Now why would a chick be throwing out IOI's (body language, phone number unsolicited, etc. ) and then up and flake on me before the first date?

She was watching my reaction and I failed miserably. Her- "Yea I would like to go, but call me that day and confirm" Me- "Sure, no problem"

Test failed.

 

[STR8UP]

I never understood the fixation with strippers.

A stripper is a stripper no matter what day of the week, how "classy" the establishment is crackup: ), how hot she is, or what specifically she does for money.

I dont need "real experience" to tell you to avoid a stripper. Come on guys. Do we need to call in LMS here?? She takes her clothes off for money.

Go for it if you want...not my thing.

Just for the record......I'm not wife shopping.

And I don't have a fixation for strippers. I just see an opportunity that I wouldn't mind exploring

 

[ThunderMaverick]

The last time I went to a strip club was 3 years ago. They had reverse lap dance time where all the guys would give the strippers a lap dance. I gave a stripper a minute lap dance and she was all giggles and thought it was great.

She starts getting touchy feely afterwards and saying "Oh my God you are so adorable! What's your name?" I her my name and she gets really close to my ear, with her lips practically on them and says "Do you want to go to the back for a private dance?"


NOOOOPE!


Their jobs are based on charm. A stripper will make you feel like the sexiest man in the world. Just remember...they're faking it. You're not the sexiest man in the world. You're a chump who they exploit for money. That's their job.

 

[STR8UP]

Their jobs are based on charm. A stripper will make you feel like the sexiest man in the world. Just remember...they're faking it. You're not the sexiest man in the world. You're a chump who they exploit for money. That's their job.

That's why you gotta go in through the social network route. I would never try to pick up a stripper in her environment. When they party with you OUTSIDE the club it's a different story.

The owner of the strip club that I do cross promotions with was in my store a couple of hours ago. If I stopped in there once a week no doubt I could pull some ass from there as well. When I do go in he will sit with me, buy me a beer and chat for an hour....all the while I get shielded from the sales pitch and I'm automatically on a different level than the average joe that pays the cover charge, buys overpriced beer, and tips the girls a day's wages just to get a glimpse of a chick in a thong with pasties over her nips.

I just don't have the time or the energy to get myself really "in"

 

[Nightwing]

Come on dude, don't even entertain the idea of messing with a stripper!!!

 

[grinder]

I know the goal with all this advice you are getting here is to give you enough info to make an informed decision. That’s the case with so much here, is it not?

A whole book of well-meaning advice doesn’t amount to a drop in the bucket of real-life experience.

C’mon, where’s your sense of adventure? Go for it!

 

[Nightwing]

That's why you gotta go in through the social network route. I would never try to pick up a stripper in her environment. When they party with you OUTSIDE the club it's a different story.

Sure it's a different story outside the club, because when you add up all them $1 bills at the end of the night, it doesn't really add up to much. Part of the money they make onstage is divided up and goes the DJ and the manager. If she gets you out the club and gets you to trickin' she not only can make some money but she keep it all. That's where the real money is made for a stripper and believe me she's not just gonna "date" you.

Be careful about dem strippers dude!

 

[eyedogg]

Go get em Str8!

You've gotten enough good advice and you appear to have your shiz under control to be able to get some hopefully hot action from one or more of them.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

That's why you gotta go in through the social network route. I would never try to pick up a stripper in her environment. When they party with you OUTSIDE the club it's a different story.

The owner of the strip club that I do cross promotions with was in my store a couple of hours ago. If I stopped in there once a week no doubt I could pull some ass from there as well. When I do go in he will sit with me, buy me a beer and chat for an hour....all the while I get shielded from the sales pitch and I'm automatically on a different level than the average joe that pays the cover charge, buys overpriced beer, and tips the girls a day's wages just to get a glimpse of a chick in a thong with pasties over her nips.

I just don't have the time or the energy to get myself really "in"

Goddamn your observations are meticulous. Genius. Hahaha.

Just be careful of their "stripper moments". All of them have it. That sense of entitlement and whatnot. *shudders* Get on their bad side and they won't hesitate to freeze you out. Your only worth how much they want you to be worth. It's hard re-framing a stripper.

 

[STR8UP]

It's funny, but one thing I have noticed being around these girls is that they have a damn cell phone glued to their hand about 90% of the time. I hate that sh!t.

 

[eyedogg]

Yeah - what's up with that. I've noticed a huge difference in women that "think they are all that" always using their phones - texts, calls, etc. versus more "down to earth" women who have it put away - wierd observation.

 

[Charm]

Here is all you need to really know about strippers: They don't really want you for your money, for your looks, for your security, for your nice car, for your big dong, for your cool words...

They want you for.......


Your soul!!!!!!

 

[eyedogg]

Ive never thought of strippers as "soul robbers", however, I have seen it happen. Those are the nasty ones to watch out for as I do not believe all strippers are "soul robbers".

 

[Charm]

It can happen.

 

[Mr.Positive]

I say life's short. Life's too short to pass up on some things, and each to his own.

If str8up wants to go for a stripper, more power to him. From his posts here, he knows what he's doing.

While it may not be my 'cup of tea', we're only here for a short time anyhow, so make the most out of it.

And...protect your boys, say no to std's.

 

[STR8UP]

Yeah - what's up with that. I've noticed a huge difference in women that "think they are all that" always using their phones - texts, calls, etc. versus more "down to earth" women who have it put away - wierd observation.

That's one of my peeves about women in general...I can't STAND a chick who is constantly on the damn phone. Get on, get your info, and GET THE HELL OFF, especially if you are in public or with another person. And this isn't just about strippers, it goes for ANY woman.

 

[STR8UP]

Ive never thought of strippers as "soul robbers", however, I have seen it happen. Those are the nasty ones to watch out for as I do not believe all strippers are "soul robbers".

The thing I have noticed is that there is a HUUUUUUGE difference between the girls that work at the club where my friend hangs out and the ones at the club where I do some cross promotion with.

In the higher class club the girls are definitely classier. I wouldn't hesitate to hang out with them amongst my other friends.

The other club however, I wouldn't be caught dead with most of these chicks around my "normal" friends.

I realize that these women earn their living by selling a fantasy, no doubt. I think that being in their social circle and not treating them like goddesses like all of the guys throwing money at them all night long goes a long way. I find out they work for a strip club and I'm like "Oh, cool. So what were you saying about your new car?"

 

[Nightwing]

Strippers should be treated as objects.

Not people.

AMEN.

 

[Micheal Moon]

I say go for it man.

I've hooked up w/ one stripper before but she had to move to the U.S. She was saving up for a condo and decided to move. But she was a real nice person.

Then I've met another stripper that I'm talking to right now. Nothing happened yet, but from what I've talked know so far she's really cool. But I can tell she has a wild side.

Thing is, the advice on here is that she's only exploiting you and using her charm for dough. But the thing is, if your'e not spending money in the club or getting dances from them, then do it. Because you know they are not out with you and complliementing you just because of $.

The strippers I've hooked up with, I haven't spent money on them. Once you spend money on them your'e just a customer or a source of income. But you have the right idea. Hook up w/ them through your social network or any other way and you don't have to worry about those issues.

Strippers tend to be free spirits. Which I agree that if your'e looking for a LTR they aren't good. But if your'e looking for a good time, who cares man go for it.

 

[edger]

and I know that part of the reason he invites me around is to impress his friends with knowing an older guy with higher status

Str8up, get over all this brainless nonsense "status" crap of yours. Ready for a reality check? You, are no different from the average minimum wage guy. Quite frankly, your friend is a complete moron to pedastalize you because of what he perceives as your stupid little "status" thing. Their is no such thing as status my friend, where people are above others in this world..if you believe that, then you've got the wrong idea guy. If you gotta rely on "status" to make you feel secure in life, then you've got some real problems..not to mention that it's also highly AFCish.