sangheilios
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 25, 2018
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I've been totally out of the game for well over 2 years now, as from around 2016/17 through 2019 I was experiencing nothing but rejection, flakiness, etc. and eventually gave up for the sake of my mental health. I've posted about this on here before and I was having a ton of issues with anger, body image issues, constantly questioning myself, etc.
@SW15 Mentioned to me on another post about running into low quality women and not being able to filter them out, as it just seemed to have been literally one after the other. I was having women approach me, flirt and all that, agree to dates and then flake on our scheduled dates and then ghost me. I've had women reject me and when I go to walk away and move on they would literally go out of their way to interact with me, flirt, etc. in order to gain my attention.
Based upon my observations and personal experiences, I genuinely am starting to believe that there is something wrong with the women in my area. There seems to be a total lack of respect for men, I've seen many cases of them belittling men and trying to make them feel lesser. They also seem to have very poor social skills. For instance, earlier this past week I was out and about and I saw this woman that I thought looked really familiar but I couldn't place it. There were a bunch of other people around and I said something like "This might sound like an odd question but where have I seen you before?". She got super awkward and started acting like it was the most terrifying thing in her life and then I said "You realize I'm not even hitting on you, right?". I didn't want to make an even greater scene than she was already creating so I just laughed at her and went back to my business. Another time I was with a friend and some girl he was dating and I asked her where she was from and she had this long and awkward drawn out "Whhhhyyyy?" and then I said "I'm trying to start a conversation with you.".
I've been in contact with an escort that I saw a couple years back and I had a really good experience with her back then that I found was a good confidence booster. It was crazy that I was able to have a better conversation with someone like this compared to just these regular women that I'd cross paths with. However, a part of me feels a bit uneasy about following through with something like this, the money is not an issue nor is the morality of it. The issue that I have is I'm experiencing thoughts like "I'm 6'4", ripped and got a lot going for me......I shouldn't have to be doing something like this.". I've just had so many poor dating/social experiences with women in my area and I just can't motivate myself to put any effort in. I feel that it might break some mental patterns that I've developed over the past few years but I'm also concerned about creating a different wiring where I'll be totally incapable of having any success with more normal women, regardless of how insufferable many of them are. I've essentially been full MGTOW the last 2 years but I of course have physical/sexual needs. However, I honeslty have little need for emotional validation because I already get that from my own life purpose, goals, etc. and don't need a woman to be "happy".
@SW15 Mentioned to me on another post about running into low quality women and not being able to filter them out, as it just seemed to have been literally one after the other. I was having women approach me, flirt and all that, agree to dates and then flake on our scheduled dates and then ghost me. I've had women reject me and when I go to walk away and move on they would literally go out of their way to interact with me, flirt, etc. in order to gain my attention.
Based upon my observations and personal experiences, I genuinely am starting to believe that there is something wrong with the women in my area. There seems to be a total lack of respect for men, I've seen many cases of them belittling men and trying to make them feel lesser. They also seem to have very poor social skills. For instance, earlier this past week I was out and about and I saw this woman that I thought looked really familiar but I couldn't place it. There were a bunch of other people around and I said something like "This might sound like an odd question but where have I seen you before?". She got super awkward and started acting like it was the most terrifying thing in her life and then I said "You realize I'm not even hitting on you, right?". I didn't want to make an even greater scene than she was already creating so I just laughed at her and went back to my business. Another time I was with a friend and some girl he was dating and I asked her where she was from and she had this long and awkward drawn out "Whhhhyyyy?" and then I said "I'm trying to start a conversation with you.".
I've been in contact with an escort that I saw a couple years back and I had a really good experience with her back then that I found was a good confidence booster. It was crazy that I was able to have a better conversation with someone like this compared to just these regular women that I'd cross paths with. However, a part of me feels a bit uneasy about following through with something like this, the money is not an issue nor is the morality of it. The issue that I have is I'm experiencing thoughts like "I'm 6'4", ripped and got a lot going for me......I shouldn't have to be doing something like this.". I've just had so many poor dating/social experiences with women in my area and I just can't motivate myself to put any effort in. I feel that it might break some mental patterns that I've developed over the past few years but I'm also concerned about creating a different wiring where I'll be totally incapable of having any success with more normal women, regardless of how insufferable many of them are. I've essentially been full MGTOW the last 2 years but I of course have physical/sexual needs. However, I honeslty have little need for emotional validation because I already get that from my own life purpose, goals, etc. and don't need a woman to be "happy".
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