krasnyiLion
Don Juan
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- Jun 6, 2006
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like you all know i am trying the cold approaching, that is my goal.
i can pretty much flirt around with an attractive girl if i am in her environment if we are both at a place. if she sits next to me. People tell me i am a flirty guy.
but i somehow have trouble with cold approaching. i can do it, i can talk to a girl, i don't give a crap what she thinks.
but how to make a Succesful Cold approach is what i am looking for here. I know is a numbers game and the more i do it the more i will learn.
so far i open girls with.
"hi" but i get a "hi" back with a stalemate
or i tease her in some way. like her shoes, or something. i get a more friendly convo and stuff or a WTF look.
in my mind though i want to try the honest direct approach of
" i was checking you out and i tought you were cute so i decided to come up to you and say hi" (but the whole DJ site theory is against this one, for challenge, power in her part, and what every guy would say (i doubt guys would be so direct))
i guess i would try it next time, but before i keep ranting
i need advice from COLD APPROACHERS on how to
"open" some one
i know there is no magic pill,
i know it takes practice
i know everyone has their style
but i want to here HOW YOU ALL DO IT, SO i get an idea or i can try it and post my results.
in other words i need a map, so i dont go all over the place. like i have been doing. i feel like i am sticking my hand in a basket full of marbels trying to find the red one (the interested one)
INPUT is really apreciated, i am eager to start trying new ideas ASAP
i can pretty much flirt around with an attractive girl if i am in her environment if we are both at a place. if she sits next to me. People tell me i am a flirty guy.
but i somehow have trouble with cold approaching. i can do it, i can talk to a girl, i don't give a crap what she thinks.
but how to make a Succesful Cold approach is what i am looking for here. I know is a numbers game and the more i do it the more i will learn.
so far i open girls with.
"hi" but i get a "hi" back with a stalemate
or i tease her in some way. like her shoes, or something. i get a more friendly convo and stuff or a WTF look.
in my mind though i want to try the honest direct approach of
" i was checking you out and i tought you were cute so i decided to come up to you and say hi" (but the whole DJ site theory is against this one, for challenge, power in her part, and what every guy would say (i doubt guys would be so direct))
i guess i would try it next time, but before i keep ranting
i need advice from COLD APPROACHERS on how to
"open" some one
i know there is no magic pill,
i know it takes practice
i know everyone has their style
but i want to here HOW YOU ALL DO IT, SO i get an idea or i can try it and post my results.
in other words i need a map, so i dont go all over the place. like i have been doing. i feel like i am sticking my hand in a basket full of marbels trying to find the red one (the interested one)
INPUT is really apreciated, i am eager to start trying new ideas ASAP