sAxyguy83
Senior Don Juan
A lot of ppl on the forum are talking about not becoming emotionally attached to women. To me, this seems silly. You can lecture me about our "desires" and our "needs", but people don't just have physical needs.
Now, some people go through life solo, no involvement wanted, none found. In my experience, people like this may seem very strong and happy, but are emotionally falling apart on the inside. Many of them, especially the older ones, feel a sad hollowness that they can't identify, and know something is missing in their life, though they don't know what.
I tend to be a long-term thinker and planner, and I look at the approach advocated by a lot of ppl here (get as much sex as possible, don't get emotionally involved) and the rarer approach I take (find someone you can trust, develop an emotional connection, then proceed to sex), and I get these results:
Short term, the common approach kicks ass, no contest. You get tons of *****, tons of fun, and just generally are happy. The rare approach frequently leaves you longing and looking for someone, or in a relationship where you get much less *****, if any.
Long term, on the other hand, the common approach doesn't look as good. You start to get old and ugly (and probly bald and fat), and the quality of the chicks you can get w/o paying for them drops dramatically (and I include the billionare marriages in the "chicks you have to pay for" category...). You get little, if any, sex, and you're alone without kids to teach all your DJ tricks to. The rare approach on the other hand, starts to look pretty nice. If you're really in love with the woman you're with, it doesn't much matter how ugly and old she is, she still looks like a 10 to you. Plus, if you played your cards right, you've got one or more kids, to whom you can teach all your DJ tricks (yes, teach the daughters, too. Better than letting your flesh and blood get banged by some ******* cuz she didn't know how to play the field properly).
Really long-term, the rare approach stands alone. Your equipment doesn't even work anymore, and even when you do take your Viagra, women your age are past menopause and don't have as much sex drive. If you're in love, however, you haven't lost nearly as much. Believe me on this one, real love is beyond anything else you will ever experience (with the possible exception of wild hot monkey love with someone you really love). You feel like you're some f**king superman, and even better, you feel complete in a way that nothing else can make you feel.
I don't pay much attention to the now, so I go w/ the rare approach, but there are times I definitely wish it was me banging two HB's at the same time while only barely sober enough to remember it all. To those of you who pull that off, I tip my hat, as you are having tons of fun right now, and eventually most people do find that special someone and settle down. In fact, I am really impressed by and jealous of you guys that pull of the common strategy early on, then switch over to the rare strategy at just the right time. You are truly living the f**king dream.
Now, some people go through life solo, no involvement wanted, none found. In my experience, people like this may seem very strong and happy, but are emotionally falling apart on the inside. Many of them, especially the older ones, feel a sad hollowness that they can't identify, and know something is missing in their life, though they don't know what.
I tend to be a long-term thinker and planner, and I look at the approach advocated by a lot of ppl here (get as much sex as possible, don't get emotionally involved) and the rarer approach I take (find someone you can trust, develop an emotional connection, then proceed to sex), and I get these results:
Short term, the common approach kicks ass, no contest. You get tons of *****, tons of fun, and just generally are happy. The rare approach frequently leaves you longing and looking for someone, or in a relationship where you get much less *****, if any.
Long term, on the other hand, the common approach doesn't look as good. You start to get old and ugly (and probly bald and fat), and the quality of the chicks you can get w/o paying for them drops dramatically (and I include the billionare marriages in the "chicks you have to pay for" category...). You get little, if any, sex, and you're alone without kids to teach all your DJ tricks to. The rare approach on the other hand, starts to look pretty nice. If you're really in love with the woman you're with, it doesn't much matter how ugly and old she is, she still looks like a 10 to you. Plus, if you played your cards right, you've got one or more kids, to whom you can teach all your DJ tricks (yes, teach the daughters, too. Better than letting your flesh and blood get banged by some ******* cuz she didn't know how to play the field properly).
Really long-term, the rare approach stands alone. Your equipment doesn't even work anymore, and even when you do take your Viagra, women your age are past menopause and don't have as much sex drive. If you're in love, however, you haven't lost nearly as much. Believe me on this one, real love is beyond anything else you will ever experience (with the possible exception of wild hot monkey love with someone you really love). You feel like you're some f**king superman, and even better, you feel complete in a way that nothing else can make you feel.
I don't pay much attention to the now, so I go w/ the rare approach, but there are times I definitely wish it was me banging two HB's at the same time while only barely sober enough to remember it all. To those of you who pull that off, I tip my hat, as you are having tons of fun right now, and eventually most people do find that special someone and settle down. In fact, I am really impressed by and jealous of you guys that pull of the common strategy early on, then switch over to the rare strategy at just the right time. You are truly living the f**king dream.