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New chick checking in!

So I've decided to introduce myself! I think it's gonna be fun being one of the few ladies on a male forum. You gentlemen have given me hours of entertainment in reading these forums, your issues and your ways of getting over them. It has really been an eye opener indeed. Someone sent me the link to this site just to look at one thread and I was hooked. I was a little wary of signing up at first, but once I realised that you're a nice, fun bunch of guys I decided to sign up!

This is a really good forum, my only thing is that there isn't a section for sexual issues. Some men could use a few tips in that department!:D

Anyhoo...nice to meet y'all....:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

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dalynxx said:
New chick checking in!

So I've decided to introduce myself! I think it's gonna be fun being one of the few ladies on a male forum. You gentlemen have given me hours of entertainment in reading these forums, your issues and your ways of getting over them. It has really been an eye opener indeed. Someone sent me the link to this site just to look at one thread and I was hooked. I was a little wary of signing up at first, but once I realised that you're a nice, fun bunch of guys I decided to sign up!

This is a really good forum, my only thing is that there isn't a section for sexual issues. Some men could use a few tips in that department!:D

Anyhoo...nice to meet y'all....:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
Uhh hey, welcome. :cool:

How exactly are you entertained by this place other than there being some many cool DJ's here?

Sex issues...that would be an interesting section indeed but I think the attitude here is learn to bait & hook and then you're on your own.
 

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This is a really good forum, my only thing is that there isn't a section for sexual issues. Some men could use a few tips in that department!
Feel free to post your personal input on the subject.
 
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Hello and Welcome to the site, I have a list of 10 Questions that I want you to answer about DJism.

(1) Do girls care about what a guy looks like, many say looks don't matter at all, I think they do, but if you are a girl you'll know the answer.

(2) Many say girls don't care about money, again I think they do, you should know the answer to this.

(3) Tiger Woods - why are all of these hot babes attracted to him - is it to do with his (a) status (b) money (c) looks (d) his game and PUA skills are far better than everyone elses.

(4) Should guys smile at a girl.

(5) Eye Contact - how important is it to look a girl straight in the eye.

(6) If a girl is beautiful should a guy compliment her on her physical beauty.

(7) Is it good to shake a girls hand when you introduce yourself.

(8) How important is the pitch of a guys voice to a girl, I think deeper voice is better, you should know.

(9) Hot babes rarely date guys who are slow or slightly retarded, yet they are very friendly to them, more so than they are the hunk type of dude whom they want to date, WHY, guys are not like this in reverse.

(10) The Friends Zone - why do girls veiw some guys as freinds only, they obviously enjoy their company, your answer to this is of great interest to me.

I'd love you to give me your feedback on all 10 questions, thankyou. :up:
 

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old married dude said:
Uhh hey, welcome. :cool:

How exactly are you entertained by this place other than there being some many cool DJ's here?
Sex issues...that would be an interesting section indeed but I think the attitude here is learn to bait & hook and then you're on your own.

Well to answer the bolded, it's amazing how much work actually goes in to a guy approaching a girl, what goes thru their minds, how a man thinks and the whole AFC phenomenon. It's all very interesting and entertaining to see inside the mind of a man. Also I've realised what you guys can't stand that girls do - so I've learned from that and will try to avoid doing them (example, crying to get my way:p ).

Nice to meet you....
 

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old married dude said:
Uhh hey, welcome. :cool:

How exactly are you entertained by this place other than there being some many cool DJ's here?
Sex issues...that would be an interesting section indeed but I think the attitude here is learn to bait & hook and then you're on your own.

Well to answer the bolded, it's amazing how much work actually goes in to a guy approaching a girl, what goes thru their minds, how a man thinks and the whole AFC phenomenon. It's all very interesting and entertaining to see inside the mind of a man. Also I've realised what you guys can't stand that girls do - so I've learned from that and will try to avoid doing them (example, crying to get my way:p ).

Nice to meet you....
 

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horaholic said:
Feel free to post your personal input on the subject.
I will...don't you worry!
 

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Well? What are you waiting for. Post your gripes. BTW, there is a 10 post limit per day.
 

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dalynxx said:
Well to answer the bolded, it's amazing how much work actually goes in to a guy approaching a girl, what goes thru their minds, how a man thinks and the whole AFC phenomenon. It's all very interesting and entertaining to see inside the mind of a man. Also I've realised what you guys can't stand that girls do - so I've learned from that and will try to avoid doing them (example, crying to get my way:p ).

Nice to meet you....
Good to meet you too & nice answer.

Do you know much about, or experience the AFC phenomenon quite often by any chance? Interestingly enough, it was actually a girl who helped make me into a DJ and say goodbye to the AFC way of life.

As far as the last part goes, the whole thing is akin to a game of chess, the one with the patience, planning, skill, and execution comes out on top. This place is here to help make sure it's us & not you. :p
 

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Wow- how did you type all those so fast! You must have it saved somewhere!

Anyhoo, my answers are below in bold...enjoy!

HaremMasterThomas said:
Hello and Welcome to the site, I have a list of 10 Questions that I want you to answer about DJism.

(1) Do girls care about what a guy looks like, many say looks don't matter at all, I think they do, but if you are a girl you'll know the answer.
If you have enough charisma (what people often call "swagg" these days) then looks will not matter. I for one can appreciate a pretty boy, but a guy with some attitude will get my pulse racing faster. A good character and good sense of humour are better than looks to girls. If you can make me laugh, then I might just give you my number (in RL of course!)

(2) Many say girls don't care about money, again I think they do, you should know the answer to this.

To alot of women money just = security. I for one only care that the man of my dreams make a decent salary (i.e. can provide for me and our babies when I take maternity leave etc) and is willing to actually work! No one likes a lazy man, in fact I find it to be a turn off. I would also want to date someone that earns simliar wage or more than me, cos I think a man should be able to pay for dates etc, and of course I will offer to pay sometimes, but most men worth their salt won't accept of if they do it is rare.

(3) Tiger Woods - why are all of these hot babes attracted to him - is it to do with his (a) status (b) money (c) looks (d) his game and PUA skills are far better than everyone elses.

Tiger is just a rich magnet for low standard women that would cheat with a married man. Look at all his jumpoffs, none of them can even stand next to his wife in looks so that should say something. I don't think Tiger even needs game, women probably throw themselves at him. He is a celeb - nuff said.

(4) Should guys smile at a girl. Yes - nice teeth also score points!

(5) Eye Contact - how important is it to look a girl straight in the eye.

Very, It shows confidence which as you all know is very attractive. On the flip side wheneever I hold eye contact with a guy the assume that "it's on" and I was just being friendly!

(6) If a girl is beautiful should a guy compliment her on her physical beauty. Yes, yes and yes! You can never go wrong if you respectfully compliment a lady (no using t**s and a*s please!) You know, you'd think that pretty girls hear it all the time, but I can assure you that they don't. People have told me that I look like Naomi Campbell (these are like random strangers too!) but I still don't have tons of guys complimenting me on my looks. I guess they might be intimidated, but it really makes my day when a guy actually has the guts to say it!

(7) Is it good to shake a girls hand when you introduce yourself.

Yes that is polite, but go one further and kiss her hand while keeping your eyes on her (look at her like you want her). You might think this is cheesy, but most guys don't do this and the ones that do will get noticed. Make sure you save it for the girl you really like. It will make her feel special especially in a crowd of people or her peers. You have to be confident and really go for it. Go hard or go home! It is really romantic and cute when done well and will get most girls wet even though they will no admit to it! It makes me go all tingly inside (and this is how my ex LTR got me. The fool kissed my hand and it was all over!) :p

(8) How important is the pitch of a guys voice to a girl, I think deeper voice is better, you should know.

Low is best, phone sex anyone? Even I smoothen out my voice over the phone cos men love chicks with husky voices (like Demi Moore):rockon:

(9) Hot babes rarely date guys who are slow or slightly retarded, yet they are very friendly to them, more so than they are the hunk type of dude whom they want to date, WHY, guys are not like this in reverse.

Girls love nice guys, but are just not sexually attracted to them. Who knows? Will come back to this later cos I'm about to get on the bus home....

(10) The Friends Zone - why do girls veiw some guys as freinds only, they obviously enjoy their company, your answer to this is of great interest to me.

Either, they are in a relationship with a guy they love (usually my excuse) or they just don't find the said guy attractive. If a girl is hot for you, you will never be just her friend. Also she could be saving you for a rainy day when she is horny and needs a convenient penis. Yes there are girls like this!Hope this answers for you!

Be back on later guys....

I'd love you to give me your feedback on all 10 questions, thankyou. :up:
 

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Thanks - I Agree With You

Thankyou for answering my 10 questions, I greatly appreciate your feedback.

I guess everyone loves to be complimented be it Kings - Celebs - Beautiful Woman.

Attitude is an interesting one, as Attitude and Confidence are similar but different in many ways.

Not every Confident guy has Attitude in his personality, this is an interesting thing.

All the best and thankyou again. :up:
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Omg I am not a troll! I am really a female guys don't be so dammned sceptical! Girls use RL all the time! We know acronymns too you know...its not only men that have forums! Anyway, at least there are some gentlemen on here, but some of you are a bit harsh.

To those that are interested, I am actually a self-published author and I post on a number of other sites (writing blogs mostly) and I also started a website to showcase some of my work. It's in my profile. Anyway, I am happy to talk to those who don't think I'm a troll. Geesh....
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
I'm affraid you are the TROLL, the questions were definately answered by a female and the feedback was right. :nono:

Thanks HaremMaster! Love the screen name by the way!:yes:
 

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(6) If a girl is beautiful should a guy compliment her on her physical beauty. Yes, yes and yes! You can never go wrong if you respectfully compliment a lady
See, I'm not so sure about this one. I haven't quite made up my mind about compliments yet. I know that girls ENJOY getting compliments, but the question is do they spark ATTRACTION? If I guy gives you a compliment, does it just make you feel good about yourself or does it make you want to go out with him? I'm not so sure about the latter.
 
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