I have a huge problem. . .

[Spoiled3289]

Alright there's this guy who's locker is right next to mine. We've gotten close throughout the year. Anyways I know this guy likes me because he's always talking to my friends about how he wants to get with me and all this stuff like that. Well this kid is super sweet but I'm not sure if I like him like that, I might, but I might not (unsure about my feelings right now.) Anyways school ends next Friday and the last time I'll see him until middle August is this Thursday or Friday. So I'm wondering if I should kiss him goodbye or soemthing like that (to find out my TRUE feelings AND to make him happy) or if I shouldn't. Keep in mind that this guy for sure likes me so I highly doubt he'll like push me away or anything like that. What should I do.
Signed,
Confused

 

[NRM]

Alright, since you're 15, you probably believe in the bullshit propaganda of sparks flying and crap when you kiss a person. You will feel good kissing a person you are attracted to, but only because there is enough pressure to get up to the first kiss and it is just like a release. But you would know that you like them.

You do not find out your true feelings about someone by kissing that person. Guys don't kiss girls they aren't interested in, unless it is for the hell of kissing. If you like him, then kiss him, but by kissing him you are acknowledging that you like him and letting him know that.

If the situation turns out differently, such as you kiss him, make his day, but then tell him that you were just seeing if you like him by kissing him, and you don't, you could be putting him worse off than you left him. If you want to date him and find out how it goes and how he is, then do it. You won't find anything out any other way.

 

[mb121]

Two key points here. First, the title:

"I have a huge problem..."

then:

"Signed,
Confused"

Yes, you DO have a huge problem, but it isn't the guy you are trying to put in harms way (you're confused), it's that big pile of dishes you need to attend to ON THE DOUBLE. Quick, before it's too late!

1.) Turn off computer (the big shiny red button).

2.) Go to kitchen (You're favorite room in the house)

3.) Turn on Channel 69 (E! Channel, the one about relationships)

4.) Put on dish gloves (The most handy female tool ever invented)

5.) Put dishes in Dish Washer (More trusted by females than nail polish)

6.) Continue to watch E! Channel (Get all worked up about some relationship gone wrong)

7.) Cry about something or be emotional (Prefferably in private, but if needed, to your emotional tampon boy AFC that sits behind you in science)

8.) Go to bed (Don't forget to sleep tite with fluffy the dog).

Now the last thing I want to be is inconsiderate, so I'll try to put this in kind words: Stop posting on this forum you estrogen-waterfall of misery.

 

[Mystic]

the huge problem is that youre not in the kitchen making me a sandwich

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by Spoiled3289
Alright there's this guy who's locker is right next to mine. We've gotten close throughout the year. Anyways I know this guy likes me because he's always talking to my friends about how he wants to get with me and all this stuff like that. Well this kid is super sweet but I'm not sure if I like him like that, I might, but I might not (unsure about my feelings right now.) Anyways school ends next Friday and the last time I'll see him until middle August is this Thursday or Friday. So I'm wondering if I should kiss him goodbye or soemthing like that (to find out my TRUE feelings AND to make him happy) or if I shouldn't. Keep in mind that this guy for sure likes me so I highly doubt he'll like push me away or anything like that. What should I do.
Signed,
Confused

AH HA HA HA HA YOU DUMBA$$ THAT WAS THE FUNNIEST THING I EVER READ. I STARTED CRYING.

Woo.. your too much

Oh wait your serious. The guys an AFC and is to much of a p*ssy to show his care, your to much of a loser to accept this.

Do what mb121 suggested. Cause you have no life and your just gonna end up as some white trash guys "B*tch"

again lots of love Get the hell out

 

[AFK Protector]

Man when I read the title I thought this was another post about boners popping up in class.

Err.....no don't kiss him. Cuz then people will think you're a slut. Now I'm not saying you aren't already one...but I'm also not saying you are.

Why do you think you have so much power over guys? Do you seriously think a kiss will make him like you? I mean....seriously, get a life and stop smooching every guy you meet. If this is the same guy you were talking about, then you are insecure and manipulative cuz now you're acting like you have the power. If this isn't, then why the hell did you say you were in "love" with the other guy? Your love lasted like 2 weeks at most. It's not worth anything here. And once they figure it out, it wont be worth anything anywhere.

Think before you act. By yourself. Not through some FORUM FOR GUYS. <<< BIG ASS EMPHASIS ON GUYS.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Yeah... kiss him.

 

[The Irish Corleone]

I really think that this girl is a mod trying to teach us something.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by The Irish Corleone
I really think that this girl is a mod trying to teach us something.

Mods don't do that kinda thing, they got better stuff to do than teach us a lesson by pretending to be a chick. Don't be so paranoid.

 

[oElS]

is this post gay?!?!?!

 

[JSH]

oEIS - shes a girl, thats why everyone is coming down so hard on her.

Why the hell are the rest of you being so bloody rude, i mean one comment about the kitchen is comical and topical but really.

Are you all so jaded by your lack of success that you forget she has feelings too (jesus - never thought i would argue on behalf of someone else). I mean wtf, do you have to be rude, you could just have ignored it. And you have the chance to help another guy who does not have the benefit of this site.

Spoiled, this probably is not the best place for you to get advice, thats why girls have circles of friends (who manage to muck things up) and magazines (which spout bull****). If you like him, go up to him and ask him out, if you dont, dont lead him on by being sweet and kissing him (that gives the wrong impression and might break his heart and then you are just being a manipulative b*tch). Anyway tell him that it woould make him a lot more attractive if he just asked you out/ expressed interest in you if he really does.

Anyway good luck, whatever happens

 

[Spoiled3289]

Thank you so much JSH

 

[Balanced]

Don't listen to them. Don't kiss him either. Guys should make the first move because that acctually saves you time. If he has a spine he will make a move eventually but otherwise you will just be dissapointed later because hes such a *****.

Everyone else listen up. I don't know if you think puting others down or "tooling" makes you alpha. A true alpha helps others around him out and is not an *******. Look at Gandalf in LOTR if you need an example.

 

[Spoiled3289]

Thanks balanced

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Can't be sure, but I think I'm the only guy legally able to drink that's responded so far.

I wouldn't advise kissing him while you're unsure about how you feel. If you do and aren't exactly swept away you'll find out you're not interested with a very strong sign of interest.

Whoever said, don't kiss him because then you'll be a slut is a moron of the first order.

I also think that if you're undecided on him, then its because you think he's cute and sweet and all, but he hasn't done anything so remarkably hot as to make you remarkably hot about him. Right now this is a puppy crush. This probably has a lot to do with the fact that his nuts haven't seemed to have dropped far enough for him to approach you about hooking up instead of wagging his jaw to your friends. Ten bucks says if he made a strong play, and thus showed his strength, you'd be all over him like white on rice. Normally this type of guy isn't worth pursuing, but you being a high school that standard might be a bit too high for most of the guys your peer group. (I'm not ragging on all high schoolers, but most of them are shy acne ridden flesh poscicles and not anything remotely mature enough to be called a man. Present company excluded of course)

I say test him, but do it without declaring your amorous intentions.

Granted he is only a high schooler, and probably an awkward columniation of nerves and insecurities, so get him alone. Arrange for a few moments alone in a comfortable environment with him. This isn't hard. Once I just stole a girl I was interested in away for a walk around the theatre before her parents drove her home. All you need is a few moments alone. The most I would do is some light Kino.

If he bites, maybe there's a possibility of a thing. If he doesn't, you'll meet better guys over the summer and ten bucks says (usually I'd bet a bottle of Cuervo and a Corona, but bearing in mind who I'm talking to) he'll be beating himself up over the summer and will resolve not ot be so pusstastic. You'll both be better off. He might even make a move on his own next year after he's cooled out a bit.

Good luck with the balless wonder.

-Cyrano

 

[Jester]

Spoiled, i sincerely apologize for the unpleasant replies you have received. What you must understand is that these people have been rejected time and time again by girls and are looking for a "safe" way to get back. So huddled behind their computer screens like cowards(they would never say that to you if you were standing face to face, they probably are even too afraid to look in a girls eyes without shaking) they attack any girl who appears weak and unable to hurt them emotionally or physically.

Then theres the guys who just say it because one of the aforementioned people did it first and they want to be accepted by them.


Anyway, i would say this is about the best place for ANYONE to get advice, guy or girl. You jsut have to sift through the crap(posts by the ignorant), to get to the gold(posts by the informed).

This might be a little advanced for your current level of education(no offense really i wasnt close when i was 15), but what you state as "feelings" is a bit inaccurate. If you think the guy would be fun, go out with him. You dont have to marry him, you dont have to be "exclusive" with him. Just go, have fun. Hey maybe he'll even buy you sh1t, lots of stupid guys do that.

So just go and have fun, its no big deal.

 

[LikRetsam]

Kissing him will not make anything clearer. It will only shatter him because he'll think there's more behind it. A kiss is nothing special, trust me.

If you want some fun, go for it. If you're looking for an ultra exclusive relationship than don't!

The choice is yours.

 

[AFK Protector]

.................GANDALF ISN'T REAL.

 

[AFK Protector]

Oh yeah, stop standing up for her. Who do you think you are? Calling other people pussies, eh? I mean c'mon...she's been flamed plenty on other threads and where were you? NO WHERE.

What did you do? You sat there reading scared or just too d@mn lazy to respond and "stick up for her" so you waited until JSH came out of the pack and said something completely construction. Then she said the wonderful words that melt your souls, "Thanks so much JSH."

....only you wish it wasn't "JSH" and your screenname there instead. So don't give me any BS post about sticking up for others. I know about sticking up. I've been put down all my life. I know the hurt the oppressed outsider feels. Now I'm making a comeback but I'm not going to let some fake act like he's the sh1t calling other people pussies when he doesn't even have balls himself.

The "you" means "you in general," so this isn't to flame anyone. Just kinda pissing me off with the hero wanna be crap.

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
Oh yeah, stop standing up for her. Who do you think you are? Calling other people pussies, eh? I mean c'mon...she's been flamed plenty on other threads and where were you? NO WHERE.

What did you do? You sat there reading scared or just too d@mn lazy to respond and "stick up for her" so you waited until JSH came out of the pack and said something completely construction. Then she said the wonderful words that melt your souls, "Thanks so much JSH."

....only you wish it wasn't "JSH" and your screenname there instead. So don't give me any BS post about sticking up for others. I know about sticking up. I've been put down all my life. I know the hurt the oppressed outsider feels. Now I'm making a comeback but I'm not going to let some fake act like he's the sh1t calling other people pussies when he doesn't even have balls himself.

The "you" means "you in general," so this isn't to flame anyone. Just kinda pissing me off with the hero wanna be crap.

first time ive read this post bro was about an hour ago and thats when i posted.

your bitterness reflects and now youre angry i pointed it out.