Ha before i read the poster name i thought this was a thread about someone needing advice on how to get rid of a gay guy who he was friends with. lol
I dunno if your still looking for advice or if it was totally covered for you, but i would suggest just doing this guy a favor and telling him you just want to be friends and that you want a guy with confidence (yes you do). Hell, you could even be a good friend and refer him to this site if you wanted and tell him it will help him out with the next chick this guy becomes infatuated with. Kissing him will only have the kid bashing his head in at night when he starts recieving mixed signals from you later after you realise your not attracted to him.
Well anyway i noticed your from IL, what part? I live fairly close to IL myself. If you need any other advice or would like a stimulating conversation with someone near your age, my email is
dope105@hotmail.com