I got pump n dumped

[Murk]

Girl came over, at 6pm, I cooked, we drank wine (she brought a bottle and I had some here). We watch a movie and smash mid movie. I nut and literally 5 minutes later shes asking me to uber her home. I usually have no problem with that, I encourage it, but she told me she had work at 7am so would stay over and get up at 5am.

I understand it makes sense to just go home tonight, but I was looking forward to smashing again later tonight and more in the morning.

I'm going to have to wank like a nerd tonight reminiscing tonight's pvssy, she's very tight. 1 nut instead of 3. FWIW we have smashed many times it's not a first or second date or anything.

 

[Mertz09]

And your complaint is??????

 

[soulforge]

Sounds like a terrible night you had.. just awful

 

[Dr.Suave]

She was such a selfish jerk. Zero affective responsability from her. She is such a toxic misandrist.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

Girl came over, at 6pm, I cooked, we drank wine (she brought a bottle and I had some here). We watch a movie and smash mid movie. I nut and literally 5 minutes later shes asking me to uber her home. I usually have no problem with that, I encourage it, but she told me she had work at 7am so would stay over and get up at 5am.

I understand it makes sense to just go home tonight, but I was looking forward to smashing again later tonight and more in the morning.

I'm going to have to wank like a nerd tonight reminiscing tonight's pvssy, she's very tight. 1 nut instead of 3. FWIW we have smashed many times it's not a first or second date or anything.

MY MANS IS INSATIABLE
VORACIOUS
GOOD WORK KING

 

[Black Widow Void]

I get it. About ten years ago, I had a woman abruptly leave. She was pleasant about it -which was confusing at the time.

It really puzzled me at the time. However, after I thought about it for a while, I looked at it from another perspective.

Just like my gal from years past, your girl also has an upcoming busy schedule. Even so... she carved time out to drop by and satisfy your needs.

Although it may not have played out exactly how you thought, she (despite other responsibilities) made the time to drop by and please you. --- Approach it from this perspective and don't let her know that it crossed your mind.

 

[self_is_an_illusion]

Girl came over, at 6pm, I cooked, we drank wine (she brought a bottle and I had some here). We watch a movie and smash mid movie. I nut and literally 5 minutes later shes asking me to uber her home. I usually have no problem with that, I encourage it, but she told me she had work at 7am so would stay over and get up at 5am.

I understand it makes sense to just go home tonight, but I was looking forward to smashing again later tonight and more in the morning.

I'm going to have to wank like a nerd tonight reminiscing tonight's pvssy, she's very tight. 1 nut instead of 3. FWIW we have smashed many times it's not a first or second date or anything.

Take the W dont be a psycho hahahaha

 

[Desdinova]

Could have given her a nice pearl necklace to wear at work the next day

 

[BPH]

Can't tell if OP is humble bragging, trolling, or has an actual complaint about this.

 

[Murk]

Can't tell if OP is humble bragging, trolling, or has an actual complaint about this.

It was an actual complaint made at the time while drunk. Now I realise it was for the best. I forgot how psycho this b*tch was.

Case in point - message sent yesterday;



I was just taken aback because it wasn't planned. She was meant to stay over and leave in the morning. I have issues with things falling outside of my plans. The fact she wanted a V day message is actually sickening to me.

 

[RickTheToad]

Girl came over, at 6pm, I cooked, we drank wine (she brought a bottle and I had some here). We watch a movie and smash mid movie. I nut and literally 5 minutes later shes asking me to uber her home. I usually have no problem with that, I encourage it, but she told me she had work at 7am so would stay over and get up at 5am.

I understand it makes sense to just go home tonight, but I was looking forward to smashing again later tonight and more in the morning.

I'm going to have to wank like a nerd tonight reminiscing tonight's pvssy, she's very tight. 1 nut instead of 3. FWIW we have smashed many times it's not a first or second date or anything.

It's fine. You got your turn. Now, it's someone else's. Sharing is caring.

 

[Murk]

That sounds a bit oversensitive.

It just gave me the ick. I reach out to her last week for a meet as my plates ran dry not like things were ongoing recently

 

[Murk]

I got that, Murk, but the way I'm reading this is a more emotional response than warranted. I'm sure you're not always oversensitive, but the whole issue comes across a bit butt-hurt. A response I would've expected more of a plate than from a Don Juan.

K

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It was an actual complaint made at the time while drunk. Now I realise it was for the best. I forgot how psycho this b*tch was.

Case in point - message sent yesterday;

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I was just taken aback because it wasn't planned. She was meant to stay over and leave in the morning. I have issues with things falling outside of my plans. The fact she wanted a V day message is actually sickening to me.

My God man, lighten up. You seem wound so tight if you shoved a lump of coal up your ass it would turn into a diamond by the end of the month.

Breathe...meditate...relax. It just isn't that serious. This chick is obviously being used for recreation purposes only.

 

[Pandora]

Sometimes they abruptly leave so they don't catch feelings. It is a defense mechanism.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

It's just sex. Sometimes a woman is gonna want a quickie.

 

[Barrister]

It was an actual complaint made at the time while drunk. Now I realise it was for the best. I forgot how psycho this b*tch was.

Case in point - message sent yesterday;

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I was just taken aback because it wasn't planned. She was meant to stay over and leave in the morning. I have issues with things falling outside of my plans. The fact she wanted a V day message is actually sickening to me.

This was kind of a brutal (and by that I mean "blunt") exchange with her after the fact. I think you could have been much more playful.

Regarding the OP - did she tell you she planned to stay and then didn't? If she didn't say one way or another, then I think you shouldn't have been shocked by her going home.

 

[Murk]

How can you miss that opportunity to tease her, make fun her, make feel emotions, make her feel special after knowing that you won by fvcking her, instead of sending of "I don't believe in Valentine's day, I hope you had a good day" Come on man!!!!

This was kind of a brutal (and by that I mean "blunt") exchange with her after the fact. I think you could have been much more playful.

Regarding the OP - did she tell you she planned to stay and then didn't? If she didn't say one way or another, then I think you shouldn't have been shocked by her going home.

I just don't have the energy to engage in that sort of thing anymore, it doesn't serve any purpose for me as sex isn't an issue to get from her. I've always had feelings of disgust/anger at female manipulation unless it's from a 9+.

Regarding th OP yes she said she was staying and would "wake you up at 5am as I have to be in central London for 7am".

Anyway, I made my peace with the whole thing, the day after I made this thread.

 

[manfrombelow]

I too was pumped and dumped, which was to me such a huge catastrophic that eventually led me to this website after nearly losing my mind.

There are Don Juans and Don Juanitas too. She only wanted good sex, while I wanted a relationship. I was young, naive, and stupid. Never again.