I got pump n dumped

[Barrister]

It was an actual complaint made at the time while drunk. Now I realise it was for the best. I forgot how psycho this b*tch was.

Case in point - message sent yesterday;

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I was just taken aback because it wasn't planned. She was meant to stay over and leave in the morning. I have issues with things falling outside of my plans. The fact she wanted a V day message is actually sickening to me.

This was kind of a brutal (and by that I mean "blunt") exchange with her after the fact. I think you could have been much more playful.

Regarding the OP - did she tell you she planned to stay and then didn't? If she didn't say one way or another, then I think you shouldn't have been shocked by her going home.

 

[Murk]

How can you miss that opportunity to tease her, make fun her, make feel emotions, make her feel special after knowing that you won by fvcking her, instead of sending of "I don't believe in Valentine's day, I hope you had a good day" Come on man!!!!

This was kind of a brutal (and by that I mean "blunt") exchange with her after the fact. I think you could have been much more playful.

Regarding the OP - did she tell you she planned to stay and then didn't? If she didn't say one way or another, then I think you shouldn't have been shocked by her going home.

I just don't have the energy to engage in that sort of thing anymore, it doesn't serve any purpose for me as sex isn't an issue to get from her. I've always had feelings of disgust/anger at female manipulation unless it's from a 9+.

Regarding th OP yes she said she was staying and would "wake you up at 5am as I have to be in central London for 7am".

Anyway, I made my peace with the whole thing, the day after I made this thread.

 

[manfrombelow]

I too was pumped and dumped, which was to me such a huge catastrophic that eventually led me to this website after nearly losing my mind.

There are Don Juans and Don Juanitas too. She only wanted good sex, while I wanted a relationship. I was young, naive, and stupid. Never again.