.illadelph
Don Juan
I'd like to let u all know how it went...please take the time to read and give me insight on my situation...
I finally went out with the girl that I met through a girl that i work with.
on wednesday, i told her that we should do something friday...
so friday comes along and i finally decided to call her up around 6:00 pm....she lives about 15-20 minutes from me, so i tell her that i'll pick her up and we'l go bowling...
she told her parents that i was one of her girl friends, so that she could go out...so i waited outside in the car for her to come...idiot me makes the first mistake of the night, by not getting out of the car to greet her..give her a hug...ect...so she gets in the car...idiot me took a long time to get the door unlocked...lol..she laughed and called me retarded..(something she said all night..in a playful way)..anyway, we get to the bowling alley, and find out that the lanes are all full and we'd have to wait an hour...we didn't have the time, so we end up playing laser tag..i paid for her...but she payed for arcades..so we broke even...
we had a good time....so after that we went to starbucks for some frapps...we bought seperately...i didn't consider this a date so i decided not to pay for her drink...*i'm an idiot for not opening doors for her though...i kept forgetting, and when i tried getting in front of her to do it, finlaly..it felt akward..* anyway, we had a good chat for almost an hour..just talking about our current situations in our lives..got to know her a little better...after that, around 11:00, i took her home.
once i reached her house, i wanted to make a move, but i was so shy at that point, i didn't even give her a hug...man was that stupid...anyway, she says"i had a lot of fun"...and then she left...
when i got home, i instant messaged her...let me post some ofthe convo...
[11:57] me: lauren is so borin'...can't even score in a kiddie basketball net...she's askin' for sex, but doesn't have to yet...in the back of the vette, she's sportin' a vest..with a chill arm around her supporting the rest...
[11:57] me: wow that was gay..
[11:57] her: HAHAHA
[11:57] me: i felt like rhyming
[11:57] her: biotch i'll own you
[11:57] me: you'll pwn me in what way?
[11:58] her: this kid named khoi thinks he's got some game. but he's just a boy, boys are all the same. he lies too much & tells me he lost his keys but all he really wants to do is use the bathroom-ie.
[11:59] me: ohhhh snapp..that was good
[11:59] me: , but i'll merk you
[11:59] her: haha go ahead
[12:02] me: this 'lil girl laur thinks she's so hard, gangster?? what, u can run in new york? i'll screw your kiddie rhymes up, little dime, what? you got nothing, giddie up..ya times up...
[12:02] her: so you think ur all cool, go back to school FOOL. your rhme game is wack, and you're gay cuz you're a mack. pimpin' all these girls, i dont know if u got room for me in yo world. but WAIT - maybe you can't handle me, i know i'm your asian girl fantasy.
[12:03] her: hahahaha
[12:03] her: ur good
[12:04] me: maybe, but hate me or love me...i'm still one above ya, i'll hug ya and say, that was just play....we should get together somewhere and take it to second base....lololol
[12:04] her: oh boy. oh khoi. you're kinda sick wit it. but when push comes to shove, are you willing to get wit it. by "it" i mean me, do you like what you see? cuz if that's the case, then start pressin the pedal on yo pace.
[12:06] me: i see...i'm a slow starter, but once i set the pace, you'll be on the tracks beggin' me to slow it down, but hey...if u want it u can have it, open invitation...i''m makin' this clear...if u want it then take it....
[12:06] her: hahahaha
[12:06] me: haha
[12:06] me: niiiiice
[12:06] me: you're pretty sick with it
[12:07] her: i've never been the girl who initiates. i've never asked a guy out on a date. but then again, i never hesitate...if the guy is the one to the first move make.
[12:07] her: ur sicker wit it :]
[12:07] her: i rearranged the last line wrong
[12:08] her: so it would rhyme haha
[12:08] me: lol
[12:08] me: what can i say? i'm gifted
[12:08] me: flow forever
[12:08] her: HAHAHAHA
[12:09] her: im pretty gifted for an asian girl too
[12:09] her: most asian girls dont rap
[12:09] her: HAHAHAHA
[12:09] me: i didn't know u could throw those together in such a short time tho
[12:09] her: hahaha
[12:09] me: i'm diggin' it
[12:10] her: :] thaaaaanks
[12:10] me: in you ropinion...do i come off as shy
[12:10] her: uhmmm
[12:10] her: kinda
[12:12] her: its cute :]
[12:12] her: at least ur not obnoxious like me
[12:12] me: that's b/c i am kinda..but i'm trying to break out of it
[12:12] me: lol, cute huh
[12:12] me: you're not obnoxious
[12:12] her: yepp
[12:13] her: haha oh
[12:13] her: i am
[12:13] her: i laugh too much
[12:13] her: haha
[12:13] me: okay, then yea
[12:13] her: ahaha thanks
[12:16] her: so what was ur first impression of me
[12:17] me: a chill, nice, refreshing girl
[12:17] me: knows how to dress, and look pretty
[12:17] her: hahahaha
[12:17] me: how 'bout me?
[12:18] her: A HOT HOLLISTER ASIAN
[12:18] her: hahaha
[12:18] her: and u seem really nice
[12:18] her: like, NOT a ****
[12:18] her:]
[12:18] me: that's goood
[12:18] her: yeahh i knooow
it was fun...she wants me to just go for it...and i need to do it...
i need the confidence to stop worrying about it being my first time, but actually doing it...hooking up isn't that hard, is it?
the next time we hang out...she's gonna wannna be more sexual with me....
i mean, i barely kino'ed her tonight....but that has to change soon...she wants me and i want her....i guess it's time to make it happpen...
she called me after that chat. and we talked for an hour or so....i guess she's really starting to feel me on a deeper level...
***thing is...she told me her last boyfriend was sort of a prude..and she didn't want to be the first to be with him....well i'm prude and i didn't have th eguts to tell her that...i felt really bad...man this is tougher than i thought***
please give your insight on my position....thanks for taking the time to read..
I finally went out with the girl that I met through a girl that i work with.
on wednesday, i told her that we should do something friday...
so friday comes along and i finally decided to call her up around 6:00 pm....she lives about 15-20 minutes from me, so i tell her that i'll pick her up and we'l go bowling...
she told her parents that i was one of her girl friends, so that she could go out...so i waited outside in the car for her to come...idiot me makes the first mistake of the night, by not getting out of the car to greet her..give her a hug...ect...so she gets in the car...idiot me took a long time to get the door unlocked...lol..she laughed and called me retarded..(something she said all night..in a playful way)..anyway, we get to the bowling alley, and find out that the lanes are all full and we'd have to wait an hour...we didn't have the time, so we end up playing laser tag..i paid for her...but she payed for arcades..so we broke even...
we had a good time....so after that we went to starbucks for some frapps...we bought seperately...i didn't consider this a date so i decided not to pay for her drink...*i'm an idiot for not opening doors for her though...i kept forgetting, and when i tried getting in front of her to do it, finlaly..it felt akward..* anyway, we had a good chat for almost an hour..just talking about our current situations in our lives..got to know her a little better...after that, around 11:00, i took her home.
once i reached her house, i wanted to make a move, but i was so shy at that point, i didn't even give her a hug...man was that stupid...anyway, she says"i had a lot of fun"...and then she left...
when i got home, i instant messaged her...let me post some ofthe convo...
[11:57] me: lauren is so borin'...can't even score in a kiddie basketball net...she's askin' for sex, but doesn't have to yet...in the back of the vette, she's sportin' a vest..with a chill arm around her supporting the rest...
[11:57] me: wow that was gay..
[11:57] her: HAHAHA
[11:57] me: i felt like rhyming
[11:57] her: biotch i'll own you
[11:57] me: you'll pwn me in what way?
[11:58] her: this kid named khoi thinks he's got some game. but he's just a boy, boys are all the same. he lies too much & tells me he lost his keys but all he really wants to do is use the bathroom-ie.
[11:59] me: ohhhh snapp..that was good
[11:59] me: , but i'll merk you
[11:59] her: haha go ahead
[12:02] me: this 'lil girl laur thinks she's so hard, gangster?? what, u can run in new york? i'll screw your kiddie rhymes up, little dime, what? you got nothing, giddie up..ya times up...
[12:02] her: so you think ur all cool, go back to school FOOL. your rhme game is wack, and you're gay cuz you're a mack. pimpin' all these girls, i dont know if u got room for me in yo world. but WAIT - maybe you can't handle me, i know i'm your asian girl fantasy.
[12:03] her: hahahaha
[12:03] her: ur good
[12:04] me: maybe, but hate me or love me...i'm still one above ya, i'll hug ya and say, that was just play....we should get together somewhere and take it to second base....lololol
[12:04] her: oh boy. oh khoi. you're kinda sick wit it. but when push comes to shove, are you willing to get wit it. by "it" i mean me, do you like what you see? cuz if that's the case, then start pressin the pedal on yo pace.
[12:06] me: i see...i'm a slow starter, but once i set the pace, you'll be on the tracks beggin' me to slow it down, but hey...if u want it u can have it, open invitation...i''m makin' this clear...if u want it then take it....
[12:06] her: hahahaha
[12:06] me: haha
[12:06] me: niiiiice
[12:06] me: you're pretty sick with it
[12:07] her: i've never been the girl who initiates. i've never asked a guy out on a date. but then again, i never hesitate...if the guy is the one to the first move make.
[12:07] her: ur sicker wit it :]
[12:07] her: i rearranged the last line wrong
[12:08] her: so it would rhyme haha
[12:08] me: lol
[12:08] me: what can i say? i'm gifted
[12:08] me: flow forever
[12:08] her: HAHAHAHA
[12:09] her: im pretty gifted for an asian girl too
[12:09] her: most asian girls dont rap
[12:09] her: HAHAHAHA
[12:09] me: i didn't know u could throw those together in such a short time tho
[12:09] her: hahaha
[12:09] me: i'm diggin' it
[12:10] her: :] thaaaaanks
[12:10] me: in you ropinion...do i come off as shy
[12:10] her: uhmmm
[12:10] her: kinda
[12:12] her: its cute :]
[12:12] her: at least ur not obnoxious like me
[12:12] me: that's b/c i am kinda..but i'm trying to break out of it
[12:12] me: lol, cute huh
[12:12] me: you're not obnoxious
[12:12] her: yepp
[12:13] her: haha oh
[12:13] her: i am
[12:13] her: i laugh too much
[12:13] her: haha
[12:13] me: okay, then yea
[12:13] her: ahaha thanks
[12:16] her: so what was ur first impression of me
[12:17] me: a chill, nice, refreshing girl
[12:17] me: knows how to dress, and look pretty
[12:17] her: hahahaha
[12:17] me: how 'bout me?
[12:18] her: A HOT HOLLISTER ASIAN
[12:18] her: hahaha
[12:18] her: and u seem really nice
[12:18] her: like, NOT a ****
[12:18] her:]
[12:18] me: that's goood
[12:18] her: yeahh i knooow
it was fun...she wants me to just go for it...and i need to do it...
i need the confidence to stop worrying about it being my first time, but actually doing it...hooking up isn't that hard, is it?
the next time we hang out...she's gonna wannna be more sexual with me....
i mean, i barely kino'ed her tonight....but that has to change soon...she wants me and i want her....i guess it's time to make it happpen...
she called me after that chat. and we talked for an hour or so....i guess she's really starting to feel me on a deeper level...
***thing is...she told me her last boyfriend was sort of a prude..and she didn't want to be the first to be with him....well i'm prude and i didn't have th eguts to tell her that...i felt really bad...man this is tougher than i thought***
please give your insight on my position....thanks for taking the time to read..