Ok Reed, you made me laugh again and I was gigglling like a biatch throughout your entire post – I think it is cracking me up because it is the way I envision you and your scenario as you succinctly describe it! As you know I have a very active imagination!!
I'll try to be serious in this post since I know you feel like a love sick puppy. I’m going to give you the solution to your woes…
Do not buy her anything!!!! Why? Because you want to know if this chick really likes you for who you are as a man and not love you for what you give her!! Dig?? If she is a virgin, errrr, was a virgin and a decent girl then she wouldn’t have the mindset of the average hor in NYC and expect expensive gift giving.
Do not call her – let her pursue you at this stage!!! Why? Because she knows exactly how you feel about her – you did your job and do not express your love to her anymore, I said anymore!!! UNLESS, she sincerely does so FIRST!!!
She knows you have fallen hard for her because you said “I love you” first and then since then the power has been in her hands!!!
The power is now in YOUR hands – you must realize that you have just taken it back IF you play your cards right!!!! Don’t be a supplicant fool nor be harsh BUT you must LEAD and if she doesn’t follow then don’t ask her why not? I
f she doesn’t want you to be the man and take the reigns in the relationship then she doesn’t want you!!! Have the same resolve as you had Saturday night!!! Obviously call her when she calls you but do not think you have to please her for her to stay with you!! You just have to respect her as a woman!
Got that?
The key thing is “Does she WANT to be with you” – DON”T ask her directly “Do you want to be with me?” – that sounds chumpish!!! You’ll know if she wants to be with you if she follows your lead and is concern about your existence!!!
There must be VOLUNTARY DESIRE FOR YOU on her part - this is crucial!!! Do not try try to convince her to have feelings for you!!!
Like I said, do not chase her anymore – that is finished!!! You must decide, “Do I want to be with a girl that doesn’t want me or who doesn’t take my lead?”, “Or should I be less than a man and bow down to her every whim and lose my manhood and dignity in the process?”
Be a man DJ Reed – being a man may involve leaving her – just like you were going to leave her if she didn’t do the nasty with you on Saturday – you must have the same mindset now and be determined to leave her if she doesn’t allow you to be a man and take control – if it comes down to it you must leave her for the sake of your manhood! And your emotional sanity!
Your manhood is worth more than her pvssy, isn’t it? Well, isn’t it? Say it louder!!!! Isn’t it???
Say, “Yes PR_L yes, I admit it – I love my manhood more than pvssy and disrespect. and I will never have dignity without my manhood and I’ll never let a girl take away all that I possess and that which I totally control – I love my manhood!!!!”
Now there, don’t you feel better?
So if you were going to leave her for not allowing you to enter into her “inner sanctum”, then how much more resolve should you have for leaving her to save your dignity and manhood?
DJ Reed, you can do it – you have the whole SoSuave community behind you!!!! We’re behind you bro! Just watch out for those homos on this site who would like to ram you when in alignment with your behind!!
Oh yeah, you bastard – it took you an hour to undress her??? Hahahaha – I think that was her chastity (purity) garments her mother gave her from Korea to prevent her from allowing anyone into her inner sanctum – I guess you broke the code but probably now don’t remember how you did it because of your hurry and excited state!! Oh well, take notes next time!!
You know I couldn’t remain serious throughout the whole post!.
