I declaire, to the whole board about my situation!

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Reed, man, sounds like you're stuck with the classic manhattan snob you've been b!tching about.

I hope you go through with ditching her.

For better women in manhattan, try checking out graduate students (e.g., at NYU). They're in the city for professional schooling -- a serious, mature endeavor -- rather than horing around. And, many of them are probably hot, but don't realize it.

Best of luck,

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I'll tell the story one more time for final thought from the viewers.

I met her at an upscale bar in Manhattan 9 months ago. The night I met her she talked about Christianity and her Christian family. She approached me, she gave me her phone number.
Lots of Kino the whole night.
We dated and went out to dinners, I kissed her the first date, and made out with her in central park after our dinner. I never invited her to my place because I lived with a slob roomate with a dog for several months. More dates, more dinners, she invited me out a few times, called me for dates.
She was really into me. She introduced me to her friends etc, But I treated her like crap for a while, I would make her pay the tab, I would ignore her,
I didn't care at all. I treated her so bad one date I made her pay the tab, and pay for her cab ride home and walked away furious, because I had a stressfull day. I didn't even kiss her goodbye.
I had resentment for asian girls because of my ex.
I told her after a few dates I dated another Korean girl before who ended up being a wh*re. She thought I made the story up. (But it was true my ex ended up a wh*re, a real one to pay for college, I was heart broken).


So We kept dating, she lived in a college women's dorm, I was not allowed because she had 2 roomates who were girls. She was calling me all of the time and into me big time...

December comes, it's Christmas. I finally moved into my own place with 1 roomate, place is awesome.

I bought her a 300 dollar pendant for Christmas and invited her to my apt. She acted afraid, and said she didn't know.
Anyways she comes over, candles lit, music going, I strip her clothes off, take her to my room, and start on her tyts. Sucked them for a while. I put my hand in her pants and felt her puzzy and she stopped me, saying "this is for my future husband".
So she slept in my bed the whole night, and then woke up saying she felt ashamed for doing this and "I am so bad". So she left.

A week later she takes me out to dinner, and buys me a 200 dollar Fendi scarf. I thought it was pretty thoughtfull, with a card.

January comes, I got paranoid and attached.
I told her she needs to go to bed with me, and I need to have intimacy as a man. I have certain needs. She agreed to sleep with me next time.

2 days later I got paranoid and thought she was a wh*re and I called her up on the phone...I said "I think you are an escort, a prostitute, I think your picture is on a website". (it was actually my EX's photo using her name I found out later because I made appointment with my friends phone and showed up and it wasn't her).

She flipped out on me and said it's over. She said she was sad that I didn't trust her, and I am to suspicious. I had to apologize to her and talk to her for 2 hours on the phone to get her back.

From January on we dated, she made out with me, came back to my place, but refused to sleep with me, She kept pulling my hand away from her underwear.

after January she got an attitude that I owed her big time and she had a chip on her shoulder (but never showed it) she acted delighted to see me but would break dates, cancel dates, she wanted me to hook her friend up with one of my friends and I agreed to it, and then broke the date and she got angry with me. I did it because she broke a date with me the week before.


Anyways Ever since then she had been playing games and being not as available as she used to be.
I told her I loved her in Easter, and she said she did to. But she continued games and no sex, she would agree to it then make an excuse.
She also invited me to a nightclub with her friend and She was wearing a cut off denim mini skirt, boobs plopping out of her tight shirt, and high heels. I couldn't believe my eyes.
She said things like "The DJ is so funny". It really pissed me off.
But she continued to date me.

I also ran into her at a fancy botique store in manhattan when my mother was visiting for the holiday, she introduced her self, not her friend and said bye and walked out of the store. I was totally shocked and pissed off. She told me later she was embarrassed for breaking the date with me that friday,

2 WEEKS AGO she admitted she saw my EX (who went to the same college) and she talked to her and asked questions about me. I told her it was a bunch of lies and she is a wh*re...she believed me, and said she finally felt released and comfortable.
And she trust me. She said sex should happen naturally and that I talk about it to much with her. (only because I have to! because she doesn't do it when she comes over)
So she broke a date with me a week after that!!!
I told her her behavior is BS and why don't you find another guy if you don't want to see me, if I put to much damn pressure on you.
She apologized, called me the night of our broken date, and said she canceled plans with her friend and is at home. We talked for 2 hours on the phone. She agreed to a date, and has been calling me since to talk on the phone.
Maybe some words I said tapped into her, or maybe she senses I am ready to walk away and she is trying to keep me on the hook.


Why am I suspicous of her Christianity Virgin behavior?

-She wears sexy clothing
-Never been to her church but she told me where it is
-comments about some guys clothing saying it's "cute" to get me jelous
-won't sleep with me but let me suck tyts
-breaks dates
-she has lied a lot (lately)
-has thousands of dollars worth of clothing, new shoes every week, new handbags every month (the 2,000 dollar ones)
-She loves going to nightclubs with her girlfriends
-acts unavailable
-I invited her to go to church with me one time and she said she can't and has to volunteer at her church
-she isn't very forgiving of me and is SELFISH sometimes



That's it. Opinions?

EDIT:
She moved here from Korean a year and a half ago. Never been to the USA before.
 
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Re: saturday

Originally posted by Reed247
I met her at an upscale bar in Manhattan 9 months ago. The night I met her she talked about Christianity and her Christian family. She approached me, she gave me her phone number.
Lots of Kino the whole night.
Trust a 43 year old man, errrrr DJ, this girl is no virgin!!!! Virgins don't go to clubs and APPROACH men!!!!

Plus all the other horish things you mentioned in the post!! She approached you because she saw you as a sucker (maybe) or thinks you have money$$$

I think she was a prostitute in Korea and is now playing the virgin in America to trap a fool to marry her thus the virgin ACT!!!!!!!

She is neither a Christian or a virgin and is a very damgerous woman - do not get her pregnant or marry her!!!!!

And I'm staying up all night Saturday to be the first to read your report!!
 

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WOW that is certainly a different spin on your story than before

this may come as a shock.... and i feel weird typing this...

she just may have been telling THE TRUTH :eek:

ok that took my about 3 minutes to type that line above

can a virgin wear slutty clothes YES

can you suck on a chicks tits and she is a virgin YES

so i am gunna give you my REVISED EDITION street pimp opinion :

i think she was a virgin. went to church. was a good girl.

UNTIL you accused her of being a prostitute

she is a christian and a virgin and you call her a prostitute

YOU MIND F*CKED HER HARD. YOU BROKE HER MENTALLY.

**NOW SHE HAS RADICAL CHANGE IN BEHAVIOUR PATTERN**

you silly silly boy

now she changes after you say this INTO

she talks to prostitutes. she dresses like a prostitute. she has money like a prostitute. she lies like a prostitute.

call this crazy but dude it is entirely possible

YOU TURNED HER INTO A PROSTITUTE


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Re: Re: saturday

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
I think she was a prostitute in Korea and is now playing the virgin in America to trap a fool to marry her thus the virgin ACT!!!!!!!

She is neither a Christian or a virgin and is a very damgerous woman - do not get her pregnant or marry her!!!!!
I agree. Especially since she seems to have a connection with his prostitute of an ex-girlfriend.


Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
And I'm staying up all night Saturday to be the first to read your report!!

And I'll be being up all night a little later to read your reply. I will be expecting an increased amount of exclaimation points or else I'll be disappointed!!
 

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DJ LIT, I think you are slipping on your analysis - have you been drinking??

This is a classic hor mindset - remember the physical only reflects the mind!!!!!

Follow the mind and the Puerto Rican rabbit!!!

And yeah, I'll buy the popcorn for this saturday night show but you bring the beer and DJ TillTheEndOfTime will bring the women!!

Don't disappoint us on the women DJ Till...! And bring a virgin for me!!
 
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LIT:

If someone accuses you of being gay (assuming you are not), are you going to suddenly turn gay?

If the answer is no (I hope it is), then why do you think she would turn into a prostitute if you accused her of being one?

The thought of being gay is thoroughly disgusting for a pure heterosexual man. The thought of being a prostitute SHOULD be thoroughly disgusting for a virgin CHRISTIAN girl!
 

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Reed -- never mind that crap about grad students


If you want a Christian, find a real one!

You should've dumped this girl a long time ago.

I mean, if she does put out, then what? She's either breaking her values or she's been playing you (which is a good bet) for a long time.

Why would you want this girl?
 

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yeah but

Ai have to disagree about her turning into a prostitute. That is insane.
She found my EX because I showed her a picture of her, and my girlfriend saw her at the college.
I have walked by the college before and seen my EX sitting, smoking a cigarette.
Revision--She didn't approach me, she went up to the bar and ordered a drink NEXT to me. I initiated the convo. BUT--a possible playgirl? hell yes.
why? she has the nerve to let me spit game at her while her friends are dancing with each other?
She could do this with guys all the time...but her demeanor is so feminine, and so classy, She is very talkative and loves to talk. Wh*res usually don' talk. (real wh*res , not club ho's) Because they might say something about a client.

Prostitute in Korea? No. She just can't be.
I have dated my fair share of ho's and this girl doesn't fit the bill for a prostitute.
She even prays before we eat dinner, but it's GOOD if she is faking, because it's a subtle form of praying, a slight head bow with the eyes closed.

But I do believe Rican to some extent about her not being a virgin, but a wh*re? No.
My only suspicion about her is that she might have a sugar daddy.
I have no reason to suspect this except the fact that she has some really expensive threads for a 24 year old girl making 500 bucks a week. she claims her parents are very well to do in Korea, they are "rich".
But she has mentioned her father argues with her about her coming back to Korea. She rebels.
Bas sign because the father is the highest authority figure in the Korean family.
Is she playing the Christian Role? Maybe.
She could be. Does she have a Korean
boyfriend or sugar daddy? Maybe.
She has ZERO white friends, male or female.
She is a real Fresh off the boat..., but extremely classy and intelligent with decent english...good enough.
Some people believe their own Bullshyt, and she might just be one of them.
Maybe if she is telling the truth,
she has been waiting until she feels comfortable, and I could have slept with her before but after I insulted her she refused to sleep with me, but she should have changed her mind now. That is why I think Saturday is the night to see.
Will she be breaking her values...Yes.
You are right Whistler. If she is not lying about Christianity.
BUT she lied to me one time about going to bible study when she went to a club with her friends.
She admitted that to me.
She gets guilty when she acts like a moron and fesses up to things..
TillTheEnd,
Yes I imagine she wants to prove she is the ideal wife to me, and like a bat out of hell will change into super bi*ch after marriage.
But she tried to break up with me before so I don't think she is that good enough.
She is also 2 years older then me, and she knows it.
But I don't act it, and she thought I was 30 before I told her my real age.

Anyway, she knows I am pissed.

NOTHING goes further then saturday night. NOTHING.
If she acts uptight with me in bed then it has to end. I have to let her go.
It's hard but it has to be done.
I'm just going to say "I am looking for a woman, not a little girl"...
Thats enough for tonight.
 
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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
LIT:

If someone accuses you of being gay (assuming you are not), are you going to suddenly turn gay?

If the answer is no (I hope it is), then why do you think she would turn into a prostitute if you accused her of being one?

The thought of being gay is thoroughly disgusting for a pure heterosexual man. The thought of being a prostitute SHOULD be thoroughly disgusting for a virgin CHRISTIAN girl!
Sound reasoning - makes sense!

I think LIT is having a bad night - he answered another post wrong as well - he must be tired! He'll back to himself when he gets some sleep!

DJ REED, I don't like "I'm a christian virgin" and " I like to go out to the Manhattan club scene dressed like a hor" - it doesn't jive - dig me?

It just doesn't make sense!!

It could be a glitch in The Matrix, but when shyt don't make sense to me, that means somethings wrong and somebody is lying!!!!

I have to say, be careful of what you ask for - you just may just get it!!!!
 

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ok i am have to call a time out.

my last post was a JOKE. i thought it was funny at the time.

i thought there was enough contrast to my original posts and replys to all Reeds threads that you guys would catch on.

sorry guys.

for the record refer to my second post on page one of this thread.

i wait upon Reed telling us how this goes down :D

i promise to stop trying to be funny and leave the funny business to PR_L and others

but i will retain a seat of the board if thats ok PR_L with the power to veto you on any posts written by someone from england who only posts half the relevant information every half hour and who wishes his country was good at cricket


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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
ok i am have to call a time out.

my last post was a JOKE. i thought it was funny at the time.

i thought there was enough contrast to my original posts and replys to all Reeds threads that you guys would catch on.

sorry guys.

for the record refer to my second post on page one of this thread.

i wait upon Reed telling us how this goes down :D

i promise to stop trying to be funny and leave the funny business to PR_L and others

but i will retain a seat of the board if thats ok PR_L with the power to veto you on any posts written by someone from england who only posts half the relevant information every half hour and who wishes his country was good at cricket


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Hmmmm, should we believe him?

The Australian street pimp always has a smiley emoticon after his sig but he didn't have it when he made his post to DJ Reed at 9:57 pm / 3:57 am!!

Don't change your post now (add a smiley face emoticon)- it is on the record and this will only weaken your stance of your statement of trying to be funny!!

Time-out, you say LIT??? There is no time-outs in life, kid!!

LIT is trying to explain his post - he never did so in the past!

That's OK kid, a bad day doesn't make a trend !!! We won't hold it against you!!!
 
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Quote - PR_L
Hmmmm, should we believe him?


YES

Quote - PR_L
Time-out, you say LIT??? There is no time-outs in life, kid!!

kid ? is your name Pu$$y Eater ?

Quote - PR_L
LIT is trying to explain his post - he never did so in the past!

well the joke went over your head. it was my fault. i was over tired and needed sleep. and it wasn't funny looking back in hindsight.

Quote - PR_L
That's OK kid, a bad day doesn't make a trend !!! We won't hold it against you!!!

stop calling people kid ! only Pu$$y Eater is allowed to use the word kid more than once per post. got read his thread The Truth: The End, not because I just want you to read it, but it will answer a lot about yourself :D

i am going to be watching your posts very closly PR_L lol

don't slip up now you have taken the game up a notch ;)

Reed can we get an update ? i got no idea what time it is in USA


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What part of Australia do you live in??

Check the Time of anywhere at this site... worldtimeserver.com

NYC is about 15 hours behind Australia depending on where you live in Australia! If he posts at 1 am Sunday (Saturday night) NYC time it should be about 6pm in Australia.

Yeah, DJ P-E got me going with the "Kid" thing!

DJ LIT - we all make errors - you are only human - sleep deprivationn destroys brain cells!! You were up two days without sleep??/ Hmmmmm, you popping pills?:rolleyes:

Did everyone get tickets to see the showdown between DJ Reed and his girl??

Who wants to bet on Reeds success/failure tonight?

Is he going to "get" his girl?

If he doesn't "get" her, will he leave her?


I bet he overcomes her resistance and will be victorious!! Rape don't count!:rolleyes:

Who bets against him?

I have 3 chickens to bet - who has any other offers?
 

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update

I called her to set the time this afternoon,
she didn't pick up, then told me she was outside on the beautiful day.
I said let's meet at 7:30...(being in charge) and she said..."I can't"..."you said you were to busy to meet me at 5pm". So I was silent, waited, and I said then she said "8 or 9"...I said ok, then let's do 8:30...her reply "haha your so funny"..."your gonna get mad if I don't tell you what time".
I was getting pissed.

Then I said..."Ok let's meet at 8:45 at the bar"
She said "oh, where we went before"...
"Yes"...
"Ok bye".

Now what did she do? She has me by the balls, telling me "8 or 9", being vauge, etc.
Yes, she is pushing hard to control me, and thinks she can do whatever she wants.

Chances of getting laid? I am assuming she will come to my place and do me.
But who knows the real outcome.

If she is playing games still, this means she really isn't respecting me


YES BOARD I NEED TO DITCH HER...

Let me give you an example of why this is difficult
#1 I have been dating her a long time, she is considered my girlfriend but not a real relationship.
#2 Let's say you have a thing for blondes with big tyts, well i have a thing for fair skinned, think shapely Korean girls. She is probably the best looking one I have found ever (my ex was equally as hot)

That's it, straight facts.

I already know the answers to my own questions..

Why isn't she respecting me?

#1 I show my anger when she acts disrespectul (in the past)
#2 she met my ex girlfriend (don't know when exactly)
#3 I told her I loved her before she said she loved me ...but it was after 7 months!...my friend told me to do it, she responded well, but then all went to hell after I invited her to boston on a trip, she agreed to go then bagged out at the last day before the trip
SHE HAD to have been pressured by her idiotic friends not to go.

Over all this girl is toying with my head saying she loves me, then she is mad, then she wants to see me, then she doesn't, then she is busy, then she calls me, then she doesn't call back,

I mean someone told me today "she is pulling some of the things you may have done to her in the past".

A possibility. But all in all what is the f*cking point of going ahead with this relationship.

I am going to dress me best, go out to the bar sit down, wait for her, have a drink. I bought a bottle of wine for the apartment later.
I am going to suggest we go back to my place for the wine and dessert, and if she pulls some crap about not wanting to go back, I'll say we have to end it.

OR if she comes back and gets uptight with me, I'll
tell he I am looking for a real woman, and be in complete emotional control of myself. And dismiss her. "Goodbye" and escort her out of my building.

Do you know how hard this is!!!!
But I will have to do it. ...besides I am fooling myself if I think she is going to act like a girlfriend.

BTW her birthday is next month and I was going to either buy her a fancy bracelet or ring, or take her to mexico...but she deosn't know!...so maybe I'll mention her birthday and see if she acts a little more passive tonight.

I also had a gut feeling she was going to not show up for the date...

Here is a real test to see if my gut works or if I need to still learn how to read it.
 

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Don't buy her anything!!! Especially expensive shyt!!!

All bets are off guys - Reed's latest convo with her didn't sound to promising!

Reed, don't get angry with her - just accept the FACT that you are NOT her boyfriend!!! Why do you call a girl you rarely see your gilfriend?? Talking on the phone for 2 hours a day doesn't count!!

A g/f should readily accept an offer by her b/f - hell b/f's don't have to ask!!! She should just obey your wishes without excuses!

Don't yell or show your emotions if you call it quits - just let her know the facts and be rational and calm with her!!!

You may have found your ideal woman in looks but she is not THE ideal woman for you!!!!
 

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All bets are off guys - Reed's latest convo with her didn't sound to promising

what ? i was hoping to bet some chickens

i think you should re-open your casino PR_L :D


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It is now midnight in NYC - DJ Reed is getting his groove on!!! Or is he???
 

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It's been done

Guys,

she is in bed with me right now.
She was a virgin. I did her.
The christian hoe was really a virgin.
She is upset and went to sleep. I am scared now.
She said she can't see me again after this. I am not sure what to do.
Anyways it was good, but she was a virgin!!!!!
I couldnt even fit it in..
I made her drink a lot of wine...am I evil?
but it's been 9 months!

It's been done. she is in bed right now as I type this next to her. I can't be;ieve it.
I am seriously afraid of what it going to happen wihen she wakes up in the morning.!!!!!!

Oh my god I did a virgin!>!!!!.



he but she agreed to it...Will she accuse me of something I cna't say on this board???
Oh nO!

Help!


I hope everbody learned a lesson about this incident tonight.

I thought she was a lying hoe and she wasn't. She was a true virgin, I know it because it was so tight I could barely get my finger inside!

I am in big trouble

I am worried about her because
these asian commit suicide for shaming their families, and she mentioned something about being in shame...How do I change her mind? Should I tell her I love her????!!!!!

Please help
 
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