saturday
I'll tell the story one more time for final thought from the viewers.
I met her at an upscale bar in Manhattan 9 months ago. The night I met her she talked about Christianity and her Christian family. She approached me, she gave me her phone number.
Lots of Kino the whole night.
We dated and went out to dinners, I kissed her the first date, and made out with her in central park after our dinner. I never invited her to my place because I lived with a slob roomate with a dog for several months. More dates, more dinners, she invited me out a few times, called me for dates.
She was really into me. She introduced me to her friends etc, But I treated her like crap for a while, I would make her pay the tab, I would ignore her,
I didn't care at all. I treated her so bad one date I made her pay the tab, and pay for her cab ride home and walked away furious, because I had a stressfull day. I didn't even kiss her goodbye.
I had resentment for asian girls because of my ex.
I told her after a few dates I dated another Korean girl before who ended up being a wh*re. She thought I made the story up. (But it was true my ex ended up a wh*re, a real one to pay for college, I was heart broken).
So We kept dating, she lived in a college women's dorm, I was not allowed because she had 2 roomates who were girls. She was calling me all of the time and into me big time...
December comes, it's Christmas. I finally moved into my own place with 1 roomate, place is awesome.
I bought her a 300 dollar pendant for Christmas and invited her to my apt. She acted afraid, and said she didn't know.
Anyways she comes over, candles lit, music going, I strip her clothes off, take her to my room, and start on her tyts. Sucked them for a while. I put my hand in her pants and felt her puzzy and she stopped me, saying "this is for my future husband".
So she slept in my bed the whole night, and then woke up saying she felt ashamed for doing this and "I am so bad". So she left.
A week later she takes me out to dinner, and buys me a 200 dollar Fendi scarf. I thought it was pretty thoughtfull, with a card.
January comes, I got paranoid and attached.
I told her she needs to go to bed with me, and I need to have intimacy as a man. I have certain needs. She agreed to sleep with me next time.
2 days later I got paranoid and thought she was a wh*re and I called her up on the phone...I said "I think you are an escort, a prostitute, I think your picture is on a website". (it was actually my EX's photo using her name I found out later because I made appointment with my friends phone and showed up and it wasn't her).
She flipped out on me and said it's over. She said she was sad that I didn't trust her, and I am to suspicious. I had to apologize to her and talk to her for 2 hours on the phone to get her back.
From January on we dated, she made out with me, came back to my place, but refused to sleep with me, She kept pulling my hand away from her underwear.
after January she got an attitude that I owed her big time and she had a chip on her shoulder (but never showed it) she acted delighted to see me but would break dates, cancel dates, she wanted me to hook her friend up with one of my friends and I agreed to it, and then broke the date and she got angry with me. I did it because she broke a date with me the week before.
Anyways Ever since then she had been playing games and being not as available as she used to be.
I told her I loved her in Easter, and she said she did to. But she continued games and no sex, she would agree to it then make an excuse.
She also invited me to a nightclub with her friend and She was wearing a cut off denim mini skirt, boobs plopping out of her tight shirt, and high heels. I couldn't believe my eyes.
She said things like "The DJ is so funny". It really pissed me off.
But she continued to date me.
I also ran into her at a fancy botique store in manhattan when my mother was visiting for the holiday, she introduced her self, not her friend and said bye and walked out of the store. I was totally shocked and pissed off. She told me later she was embarrassed for breaking the date with me that friday,
2 WEEKS AGO she admitted she saw my EX (who went to the same college) and she talked to her and asked questions about me. I told her it was a bunch of lies and she is a wh*re...she believed me, and said she finally felt released and comfortable.
And she trust me. She said sex should happen naturally and that I talk about it to much with her. (only because I have to! because she doesn't do it when she comes over)
So she broke a date with me a week after that!!!
I told her her behavior is BS and why don't you find another guy if you don't want to see me, if I put to much damn pressure on you.
She apologized, called me the night of our broken date, and said she canceled plans with her friend and is at home. We talked for 2 hours on the phone. She agreed to a date, and has been calling me since to talk on the phone.
Maybe some words I said tapped into her, or maybe she senses I am ready to walk away and she is trying to keep me on the hook.
Why am I suspicous of her Christianity Virgin behavior?
-She wears sexy clothing
-Never been to her church but she told me where it is
-comments about some guys clothing saying it's "cute" to get me jelous
-won't sleep with me but let me suck tyts
-breaks dates
-she has lied a lot (lately)
-has thousands of dollars worth of clothing, new shoes every week, new handbags every month (the 2,000 dollar ones)
-She loves going to nightclubs with her girlfriends
-acts unavailable
-I invited her to go to church with me one time and she said she can't and has to volunteer at her church
-she isn't very forgiving of me and is SELFISH sometimes
That's it. Opinions?
EDIT:
She moved here from Korean a year and a half ago. Never been to the USA before.
