I checked her email.....

[Legend]

What a fvcking mistake.

Me and this girl have been dating on and off the past year. Things between me and her have gotten really good and we have been hooking up all the time and spending lots of time with eachother.


The mistake i did....i went into her email and read some of the shyt she has been writing guys.

"oh remember that time we fvcked all night" "i love you josh"

It broke my heart but i'm man enough not to say a word to her.

My question is...do i keep playing her and continue to fvck her or do i call her out saying you are in love with someone else, leave me alone.

This guy she "loves" is not around...he's overseas.

Keep things going strong like they have been or cut her off? I personally really like her a lot. The sex is great.....

what do you say guys? Cut my own throat or stay in a relationship when the girl truly does'nt care about you?

Any comments are welcomed

-John

 

[becker]

Wow, sorry buddy. That just sucks. However, you're getting some tail too I guess. Promiscuous girls are not for LTRs anyways, and I wouldn't waste my time trying to convert them either. It's like a girl trying to tame a bad boy. It just can't be done.

If the sex is good, it can't hurt to milk that as much as you can. Don't get too emotionally attached I guess is all I can say. It's hard not to sometimes. I'd just move on to a more worthy girl, but if you're not at that stage in your life, then that's different.

 

[Legend]

thanks for the reply,

I talked things over with her and she says she not in love with him. I said..ok. Inside i say yeah right you wh*re. I'm just going to milk her for whats shes worth and keep on dating other chicks.

Shes not LTR material and never will be, shes fun for the short time we will have together.

Keep the comments coming

-John

 

[white_hype]

lol that sucks man

i cant believe she actually said shes not in love with him to your face, when she is busy writing him love letters when your not around.

here is what i would do, because i am a MAN (YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME0

1-keep her for sex/good time
2-look for other girls/start dating others
3-dont spend that much time with her, just F her and leave (dont be mean or she will be pissed and not want sex anymore)

4- HERE IT IS, try doing really kinky sh1t with her (as much as you want). i would try anal (she seems whorish enough) and if she says "no way" or something, wait till she is really drunk and "accidently" slip it in... "WHOOPS *****"

also try busting in her face or other comical spots

SHE IS TRASH AND WILL SOON BE DISCARDED, always remeber this, DO NOT GET ATTACHED, she is there just for sex

YOU MUST DO THIS-
the 8 second bull ride

before you F her, have like 6-10 of your best buddies hide in the room (or next door, etc). once you penetrate her, clap your hands really loud (or some other signal) and have ALL your friends bust out from their hiding spots and start yelling and hollaring.... you mean while try to hold on for 8 seconds!!!!!!!!!! WEEEEEEEEE (doggystyle of course, preferably anal)

a variation-
when doing doggy (anal if you can) whisper in her here ever so softly, "youre the fatest pig ive ever porked you ****ing slut" and again, hold on for the best 8 seconds of your life


VIDEO RECORD ALL OF THESE (this is a given)

let me know how it goes
g;

(DONT PUSS OUt, YOU MUST DO THIS)

 

[Ice Cold]

Dude - that's not a big deal.

So friggin what? You knew you weren't her first, you won't be her last.

THE GUY IS OVERSEAS!!!!

He can't **** her over the net.

But what you can do, is figure out from the letters what she likes in a guy, what she wants from life and what buttons to push.

STOP BEING SO INSECURE.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Quit reading other people's emails. If you were a chick and did that to me ... NEXT!

 

[becker]

Originally posted by white_hype
lol that sucks man

i cant believe she actually said shes not in love with him to your face, when she is busy writing him love letters when your not around.

here is what i would do, because i am a MAN (YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME0

1-keep her for sex/good time
2-look for other girls/start dating others
3-dont spend that much time with her, just F her and leave (dont be mean or she will be pissed and not want sex anymore)

4- HERE IT IS, try doing really kinky sh1t with her (as much as you want). i would try anal (she seems whorish enough) and if she says "no way" or something, wait till she is really drunk and "accidently" slip it in... "WHOOPS *****"

also try busting in her face or other comical spots

SHE IS TRASH AND WILL SOON BE DISCARDED, always remeber this, DO NOT GET ATTACHED, she is there just for sex

YOU MUST DO THIS-
the 8 second bull ride

before you F her, have like 6-10 of your best buddies hide in the room (or next door, etc). once you penetrate her, clap your hands really loud (or some other signal) and have ALL your friends bust out from their hiding spots and start yelling and hollaring.... you mean while try to hold on for 8 seconds!!!!!!!!!! WEEEEEEEEE (doggystyle of course, preferably anal)

a variation-
when doing doggy (anal if you can) whisper in her here ever so softly, "youre the fatest pig ive ever porked you ****ing slut" and again, hold on for the best 8 seconds of your life


VIDEO RECORD ALL OF THESE (this is a given)

let me know how it goes
g;

(DONT PUSS OUt, YOU MUST DO THIS)

Yeah, I saw something like this done in a movie once...they called it rape.

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by becker
Yeah, I saw something like this done in a movie once...they called it rape.

your point is?

this is not rape, she consented to teh sex then you do the signal

 

[( . )( . )]

the way i see it:
your on a good thing, your phuckin her, and shes getting all chickish with another guy, does it get any better?

of course not, keep hitting it hard and good, and keep your options open , ie see other chicks.

 

[CONAN]

White-hype,
So you like sticking it up the ass do you?
You are sick...and probably Gay too!
C

 

[katoom]

You notice when the dates for the emails were? they could be old... haha thats probably just wishful thinking though. That hurts man, I went into my girl of 1 and 1/2 years email and found that some **** had been seeing her while i was on vacation. Course bein the dumbass I am I still wanted to be friends with her. That just hurt more. I say drop her man. You dont need that ****.

 

[TesuqueRed]

If she's not LTR material and just there for fun, what does the e-mails matter???

Get it clear in your head---if the e-mails do matter, then maybe she means more to you; if she doesn't matter to you, then the e-mails are nothing but entertainment (and shouldn't be brought up or mentioned.)

Frankly, I don't think you should've mentioned them even if she did matter to you--it shows you're a snoop and other bad things. At least you know something about her that should help you make a decision about whether you want to stay in a relationship with her.

But if she doesn't matter and it still got to you, then in sounds like you were indulging in some fantasies that need examining (e.g., if we have sex, we have a "relationship", and if we have a "relationship", then this is a betrayal and I should really feel hurt, etc.)

 

[bp1974]

what do you say guys? Cut my own throat or stay in a relationship when the girl truly does'nt care about you?

If it were me, I'd get out now. The quality of the sex you have will go down and down. You're already resenting her and that's only going to increase the more you keep seeing her. She'll be lying under you saying all nice things while you're inside her, and you'll be thinking "Yeah right, f*ck you you lying b*tch", you knowing she doesn't really mean it, and she's just keeping you around for her own reasons. That does not make for good sex, and it won't do your self-respect any favours either.

 

[JohnJones]

I come out between TesuqueRed and bp1974: you need to decide what's going on in your mind as it relates to her.

If you want something more with her, you need to decide if you are interested in a girl who acts like this (personally, I would not).

If it's just sex, then let it be just sex. That part is up to you.

 

[stuartSan]

Don't snoop in the first place.

I have to say that you shouldn't be bothered in the first place if the relationship between the both of you was still fun. Unless she disrespects you directly, I see no reason to think so much. Yes, she has someone by the side, but going through their privacy in the first place is uncalled for. I hate people who cheat, but hey what can I say.. welcome to the real world.

I have a very good post from Giovanni Casanova that suits this thread. Just though of sharing it with you, Legend.

As DJs, one of the things we strive for -- in fact, the Holy Grail of "DJdom" -- is CONFIDENCE. Confident men do not go on the Internet to trap a girl and catch her cheating on him. Confident men don't lie about working late and then rush over to her house to see if she's got someone over. Confident men don't snoop through her email, voice mail, cell phone, etc. to see if she's cheating on him.

Doing these things indicates a certain amount of insecurity. It also (if she finds out about it) signals to her that you don't trust her and that you EXPECT her to cheat on you. Just like asking a girl out by saying, "I know you probably won't want to go out with someone like me, but would you please go to a movie with me on Saturday night," tells a girl that you lack confidence and EXPECT her to say no, snooping around and setting traps tells a girl that you lack confidence in the relationship and expect her to cheat on you and/or expect the relationship to fail. Not good signals to be sending out.

If you're confident in your relationship, you don't need to set traps and snoop. If you're not confident in the relationship, you need to talk it over with her and possibly get out of it. You're not doing anyone any favors by staying in a relationship where you feel you have to be constantly suspicious of her.

 

[princelydeeds]

You see what happens when you ask questions you may not want to know the answer too. I say bone her till the well runs dry. You know exactly what type of lying trick you have on your hands so don't get all girly on her. Don't attempt to make that h0e into a housewife. Just keep sticking her but find others to screw. Start testing her push her upper limits, get her to do freaky sh!t you wouldn't ask other chicks to do. If it floats your boat get her to buy you stuff and give you money. I can be pretty heartless, Id milk that cow for all I can get.

 

[So pimp its scary]

There are laws against checking peoples e-mail without consent.

There is also a good reason for these laws....

I want you to publicly promise to not check her e-mails again.... Or anyone elses e-mail for that matter.

How did you know her password? Cuz there are also laws against hacking. And very valid reasons behind them too.

There is nothing wrong with keeping her around as a shag doll, but really checking other peoples e-mails is just wrong.

 

[Legend]

Thanks for all of the replies i really appriecate everyones input.

I'm going to just enjoy and make the best out of the time we have together and not think about it. Whatever happens, happens.

I feel bad that i went into her email and i really wish i did'nt because some of the shyt i read made my want to puke. It hurt besides because i actually do care about her.

I'm going to cut contact and let her just come to me....all the past times we hooked up i'm the one that called.

she also thinks i am dating other chicks: that could be a good thing

 

[Legend]

also all the emails are basically recent, about from sept4th to sept 20th.

I do not ever playing a bringing this up to her because i look like a total nut job when i'm not...well hopefully not. hahha

I do feel guiltly that i broke into her private life, but i did what i did.

I am going to try and keep my cool and be as normal as possible around her. I just dont like when i can tell shes lying right to my face and thinks i dont know. If she was'nt as hot as she is i would have left a long time ago.

We took a break from each other but these last couple of weeks seem to have went pretty well, i'll just keep going strong and keep a open mind about everything.

She is just a person to have fun with now.....i dont ever plan on having her in my future life. Like someone said in this thread, *****s dont make good housewifes.

-John

 

[the pain]

here's ur answer

yo legend this is for you
simple but true fvck your emotions they will only hurt u
girls are not to be explained
girls are puzzles and dj's only play
stay and have great time
be funny honey cause love costs alot of money
im like you no one can help u but u

dj's rule
the pain is our teacher