I checked her email.....

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Sounds like a Scenario I was in, sorta! I was with a chick for about 6 months, things were getting serious, then I find in HER EMAIL also, that she was writing to other guys, flirting with them, they were telling her how they could not sleep at night thinking of her, and that they love her, and to dump me. She was telling another guy to come and visit her and blah blah blah..........blah blah blahhhhh.

So I told her to get the fukc away from me, after that she tells me that she wanted the attention off of them to make herself feel better, and she knows it was wrong. She then told these guys to stop talking to her, deleted all their emails, gave me her email password, and hasnt talked to one since, that I know of, hehe!

Anyways after that things were great. Plus in the process of all the fighting I even had her at my knees begging for forgiveness, she cried for 6 hours straight while chasing me around begging me, even infront of everyone in the street. Bawling and bawling her eyes out. She cried so much she got a rash all over her face, hahahahaa. At one point I tried to get into my car and drive it out of the garage, however she wouldnt let me into the car so after about an hour I thew her so hard she went flying and hit her head. Then finally when I got into the car she stood behind it, so I ran her over, hahahaha, her leg ended up ****ed up, and black from brusing, although she healed!! Man it all felt good, especially right after finding out what the fukc she had been doing and saying to these other guys behind my back. Anyways since then we broke up, but that wasnt to do with any of this sh*t!! Seemed to pull her into line, u should try it!! Sounds a bit like jerry springer hey, man thats scary.............
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Dude - that's not a big deal.

So friggin what? You knew you weren't her first, you won't be her last.

THE GUY IS OVERSEAS!!!!

He can't **** her over the net.

But what you can do, is figure out from the letters what she likes in a guy, what she wants from life and what buttons to push.

STOP BEING SO INSECURE.
Stop being so insecure, are you kidding yourself mate!! Seriously, that is not being insecure, it is just being real!! And man, he sounds like he doesnt just want her for the sex, he likes this girl, as much as he tries to tell himself he will just use her for the sex, he will only end up being hurt, guaranteed.


Take it easy.
 

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I guess I should have asked this before, but how did you even wind up with her password? It seems like something you should never give out to anyone for the reason that your privacy is going to be gone.

Also, don't forget that she may even have another e-mail address that she's using that you don't know the password to. This one could contain even more graphic stuff.
 

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askin u this favor

i wanna go to my girl email i wanna know how and i only know the email not the password
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
when I got into the car she stood behind it, so I ran her over, hahahaha, her leg ended up ****ed up, and black from brusing, although she healed!! Man it all felt good
Yeah, whatever.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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thanks for all of the replies again...this is really helping me.

The be honest i just dont want her for sex...i actually want/wanted this girl to grow old with. To do fun shyt with, to eventunally start living our lifes together.

I know it sounds gay but there is something about this chick. She is'nt the hottest girl, she is'nt in the best shape, she is'nt a model....all my friends say i could do much better and that guys should have girls that are better looking then them. Maybe i see her differently because i really did care for her.

All i can remember her saying the last monday was..."john i cant see how you even like me, look at the shape you are in and look at me. I dont even want to be nake around you, you make me look bad. All i said is i'm not here to critasize you...i'm here to fvck your brians out. haha "

"Another line, you have so much more going for you then that other guy has going for him" I said nothing after that line...

Anyway if you want to know how i got her password i was sitting at her place and we started to fvck around with other peoples screen names, i asked her to put her password in and i saw some of the letters she typed in and put two and two together.

To tell you the truth i really wish i did'nt both putting time into finding it...i was much happier not knowing the girl that i may have loved is a dirty wh*re that fvcks other guys all night long. It makes me sick..i sorta knew she has in the past but i never really wanted to know the truth. Knowing the truth ruined every decent thought i had about her.

To tell you the truth when i am around her now all i seem to think about is her fvcking this guy. She even has a fvcking picture of him up in her room! It drives me mad...

What can a man do? I'm just going to except that she is in love with someone else. Shyt like this makes you stronger i guess....it really does'nt matter in the long run.

Thanks for all the help bro's

-John
 

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This brings up another question:

How do you hack into email accounts? :)
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
This brings up another question:

How do you hack into email accounts? :)
A friend of mine and me, a while back hacked into 2-5 accounts, just by figuring out the answer to their secret question.

You know when you have a question like "Your Middle Name"
We figured out these answers, got in, changed the passwords, and had a lot of fun! :D (This was in Junior High)
 

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this actually was'nt the first email of a girls that i have gotten into. I think after this one though i am going to stop because what i found made me sick and made me dislike the person i thought i knew.

Serves me right
 

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Originally posted by Legend
this actually was'nt the first email of a girls that i have gotten into. I think after this one though i am going to stop because what i found made me sick and made me dislike the person i thought i knew.
You will never know girls or anyone else in the way you want to know them -- as idolizing you to the exclusion of all other guys.

Well, that is a fantasy. It goes both ways. Honestly ask yourself if you haven't thought about other girls besides her -- flirted with them if they gave you a chance, wouldn't f**k 'em if they invited you in.

Like Jack Nicholson said in "A Few Good Men", "You want the truth? You can't handle the truth!"

Don't snoop into people's emails, or diaries, or send out private investigators, or spy on them -- because you will always be disappointed when they fail to live up to perfection -- when they reveal their human weaknesses.

Life is about dealing with real humans, flawed humans. It isn't some fantasy with robot women who only have code for you.
 

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Originally posted by BobbDobbs
Don't snoop into people's emails, or diaries, or send out private investigators, or spy on them -- because you will always be disappointed when they fail to live up to perfection -- when they reveal their human weaknesses.

Life is about dealing with real humans, flawed humans. It isn't some fantasy with robot women who only have code for you.
You contradict yourself. If you accept that humans are flawed (as you did in the second paragraph), then it would only be wise to read their diaries, emails and spy on them...

What he failed to do is to keep realistic expectations.

Reasonable?
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
You contradict yourself. If you accept that humans are flawed (as you did in the second paragraph), then it would only be wise to read their diaries, emails and spy on them...

What he failed to do is to keep realistic expectations.

Reasonable?
Extending your argument, since we all know humans are flawed, everyone should snoop and spy on everyone else. Your girlfriend, your parents, your siblings, your neighbors, your government, should all know the condition of your underwear. How can you object?
 
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