I broke up with my girlfriend and I insanely miss her but I think I made the right move... Of course I'll never know for sure.
Background: she had strong feelings for her Ex. She claimed to be over him. So we got together only months after they broke up which was probably a mistake.
Our relationship was great and we had fun and a lot of communication, more in the form of texts and phone conversations because even though it's not that far, we lived around 30 miles away from each other.
Like I said we talked a lot and then suddenly, she cut off all communication as in no text talk anything for two straight days with me. She was going through a lot of things with family so I wanted to give her time. But in reality she would continue to go on facebook and change profile pics, etc. but not talk to me.
Then out of the blue she texted me. I called her explained everything and she told me I'll tell you the truth. I still love my ex, but I don't want to(it wasn't a healthy relationship for them). However, later she begins to tell me(same day) that she doesn't love him not like that, but she also tells me that those 2 days were she wasn't talking to me she was talking to the ex. Telling me she is confused, when there shouldn't be a reason for that unless, as I personally feel is because she still has feelings for him.
So I told her what I felt. That is that I felt she didn't have enough time to recover from the ex and that our relationship was probably doomed from the start. We broke up.
It's so hard though because I really liked her and I miss her greatly. I want to. Believe her when she says that as far as the ex there's nothing there but she contradicts herself and the facts show otherwise.
I cant get over the feeling of never really knowing the truth and it hurts and I want it to go away.
Background: she had strong feelings for her Ex. She claimed to be over him. So we got together only months after they broke up which was probably a mistake.
Our relationship was great and we had fun and a lot of communication, more in the form of texts and phone conversations because even though it's not that far, we lived around 30 miles away from each other.
Like I said we talked a lot and then suddenly, she cut off all communication as in no text talk anything for two straight days with me. She was going through a lot of things with family so I wanted to give her time. But in reality she would continue to go on facebook and change profile pics, etc. but not talk to me.
Then out of the blue she texted me. I called her explained everything and she told me I'll tell you the truth. I still love my ex, but I don't want to(it wasn't a healthy relationship for them). However, later she begins to tell me(same day) that she doesn't love him not like that, but she also tells me that those 2 days were she wasn't talking to me she was talking to the ex. Telling me she is confused, when there shouldn't be a reason for that unless, as I personally feel is because she still has feelings for him.
So I told her what I felt. That is that I felt she didn't have enough time to recover from the ex and that our relationship was probably doomed from the start. We broke up.
It's so hard though because I really liked her and I miss her greatly. I want to. Believe her when she says that as far as the ex there's nothing there but she contradicts herself and the facts show otherwise.
I cant get over the feeling of never really knowing the truth and it hurts and I want it to go away.
