HumbleNinja
Banned
Two chicks I see on occassion I'd met up with for the holidays and being the "beta bucks" kindof dude I am I wound up buying them both (seperately) gifts as well as a winter coat each from the department store I work at part time.
Neither is the 24 year old chick I've dated twice. (She doesn't know about them.)
The fvcked up part is though I have fun with both when I do see them and we talk etc. I'd never gotten so much as a thank you from either of them for the gifts and got nothing in return as a gift for the holidays from them. (Unless you count a head cold from one of the chicks as she was sick.) lol
I can't just cut them off though as I've had a lot of good times with both. We laugh, talk, joke around and have gone out to eat together/ seperately.
Though I'm no beta chump and will not be used. How would you bring this to their attention? I can't go ghost on either of them. I really wouldn't want to hurt their feelings (even though it's obvious at Christmas time they weren't concerned about mine but only their own selfish needs.)
And no I'm not their sugar daddy.
Edit: Forgot to mention both of them have other men in their lives that they see regularly so my princesses are in other castles.
Despite the good times we have together do you still think they only see me as a beta bucks provider?
Saw Rex comment below and past my ten post limit: Yes I have gotten them each a pair of Uggs for a previous Christmas too and stuff for their birthdays. They both really like what I get them though neither has ever gotten me anything on mine let alone Christmas..
Neither is the 24 year old chick I've dated twice. (She doesn't know about them.)
The fvcked up part is though I have fun with both when I do see them and we talk etc. I'd never gotten so much as a thank you from either of them for the gifts and got nothing in return as a gift for the holidays from them. (Unless you count a head cold from one of the chicks as she was sick.) lol
I can't just cut them off though as I've had a lot of good times with both. We laugh, talk, joke around and have gone out to eat together/ seperately.
Though I'm no beta chump and will not be used. How would you bring this to their attention? I can't go ghost on either of them. I really wouldn't want to hurt their feelings (even though it's obvious at Christmas time they weren't concerned about mine but only their own selfish needs.)
And no I'm not their sugar daddy.
Edit: Forgot to mention both of them have other men in their lives that they see regularly so my princesses are in other castles.
Despite the good times we have together do you still think they only see me as a beta bucks provider?
Saw Rex comment below and past my ten post limit: Yes I have gotten them each a pair of Uggs for a previous Christmas too and stuff for their birthdays. They both really like what I get them though neither has ever gotten me anything on mine let alone Christmas..
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