BeExcellent
Master Don Juan
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Not at all. I’m giving some tips in a summarized way to realize success in life. You want to help the younger guys here? Encourage them. You don’t know what they have to work with. You only know what you have to work with. And you are a bit despondent, according to your content.You joined this forum in 2020 yet apparently read all of rollo's posts despite he left years before your arrival...
We will let him know about his biggest fan and hopefully you will get a follow back from him so you wont end up like stan.
Not to sound an ass but you wrote half a page with limited to no content regarding the focus of this thread.
I mean it's not about your biography, motivational stuff or random personal wisdom...
I'm saying "dont trust those who sell you an age for something that it's not while downplaying the previous one" and you make lists of tips cosmopolitan style.
Yes you are correct. Age reduces us all in time. Time does not discriminate. So what?But if a man takes the gifts he is given and applies principles espoused not just by me but many others on this thread and elsewhere then you can extend your shelf life physically while gaining wisdom, patience, zen and panache that the young inexperienced men don’t have.
It is as individual as each man. All men do not improve with age. True. However some men really do and bloom late and come into their own later past the 20s. Still others start off desirable and remain that way throughout life. My father did for example. Women like confidence. Women like experience. Women like fun and good humor. Bitterness is a universal turn off and so too are jadedness and negativity.
I mean if I as a past 50 post wall woman can be thoroughly happy and enjoying life why can’t you be doing that? Nobody gave me anything other than some advice along the way…well an education. My father gave me an education and a good upbringing. I got fortunate genetics, yes. But there are plenty of more beautiful women who are ugly people (and some who are lovely people too)…but I capitalized on the opportunities that were offered to me. I stayed fit. I took care of myself and those close to me.
Here’s the difference. Truly attractive people are in love with life, are positive and encouraging. My friends who are older who are exceptional with women? They are without exception confident, charming, comfortable in their own skin and unconcerned with how others percieve them.
The right attitude will get you everywhere. Life is not an all or nothing black & white endeavor. Life is in the shades of gray, the nuance.
I’m supposed to be post wall, right? A cat lady. Well I’m not. And I don’t have a single cat. Be careful about assigning your (negative) perception to objective reality.
Each man here should strive to be an outlier. Never give up on yourself. And look. At 25 or 35 your perception is (like many people) that 50 is old. It isn’t. You’ll see, so long as you take care of your health & life until you get here. Always be like the beguiling cat. You know. The one who ate the canary