This... is actually true. I never had any problems with looks, personality, social status, jealousy / competition (among females), and many women said I was the best thing ever. But, I could never keep one for a substantial amount of time. In fact, THEY were the ones going for just sex. I was going the relationship route, and they were the ones who werent interested in that. Nevermind that they were complaining endlessly of not having one. Literally, at the same time, this was occuring. Quite mind-boggling.Burroughs said:Just because 10% of men get MOST of the azz doesn't mean its easy for them to KEEP that azz
the GETTING is in the looks
the KEEPING is in the money and status
combine those two elements and that is not 10% of men but 0.10% of men
And far as 'women' does the word ladylike even exist anymore :crackup:
nope...women aspire to be nothing more than common gutter cvm slvts...so we treat them as such
Now before you say, "actions vs words; bad boy fun times lol"... When I acted like a douche rocket who just wanted sex - NOTHING changed. They still wanted just sex, and were actually more interested this way - because now it was all my fault, and they wouldn't be perceived as the *****s they are. Nor did they have to lie or make excuses. But they could still act innocent and play the victim afterwards.
This is very common. Its either going to be your fault, or one of their exes from 8 years ago. Remember that women are the choosers, and they set all of this **** up. I never approached anyone or initiated anything. They get with guys who just want sex, or try to get guys to just want sex (as they blame them for not being good enough)... Either way, theyre going to end up with a just-sex situation. Common excuses include not being ready for a relationship, theyre afraid and cant trust, some guy "hurt them so bad", and all the other crap you hear around here. Its always someone elses fault for them being *****s, and its always super serious (see: justifiable).
If youre an average nice guy, or whatever - you're going to get FZ'd, as you hear these things. If youre a "hot" guy, youre going to get laid. That is the only difference. Same lines, same excuses, same situations, same set ups (on their end). They end up with a hot guy to just have sex with - as was planned all along. And they STILL dont admit to what theyre doing - as they keep on lying and making up excuses - until the **** buddy situation that they set up runs its course. Thats pretty much it. All the fluff inbetween is just crap, and their excuses are just that. - excuses. They NEVER come around, because they were never telling the truth.
Of course, they prance around acting innocent, and claim youre just friends while in public - as they do with everyone else theyre ****ing. Its never just you.
A decent amount of these girls had boyfriends, and werent going to break up with them. They just wanted sex with a hot guy, or however many, and still keep things all peachy - as they lied to everyone involved. There was no tricking or manipulating on my part. They always approached me, and initiated everything. I didnt flirt, ask them out, push for sex. I literally had to do nothing. And didnt.
So, contrary to their claims when they try to act innocent - its all their doing. They flirt, set up dating situations (ie, in their house, car, a hotel or party, or outside somewhere), try to get just sex (as they blame / lie / make up excuses the entire time - to rid their guilt, not appear as *****s, and blame you afterwards). Then, in the case of having a boyfriend - which they lie to you about, or claim to be broken up, or whatever - they go right back to him, and lie to him, too. "Nothing happened, we're just friends, I dont know how he got there, we're not dating, I didnt invite him"... and they say the same **** to EVERYONE they have any amount of interest in. Its nothing but lies and deception. All to save face, not appear as bad, shallow, or slutty, and contine playing everyone.
These are the same girls who ***** about guys being players and *******s, act all innocent, play the victim, claim "nice girls finish last", and feel ENTITLED to a good, honest man.
This **** happened to me so many times, its rediculous.
With that, I dont think anyone gets to "keep" the girl - to themselves. The decent, average to above average folks get the girlfriends or whatever, but those same girls are still cheating from time to time with hotter / higher status / "better" guys. And those guys end up with a lot of potential FWB situations, but not much else. Ive seen and experienced it MANY times.
Most of the girls will literally talk about their boyfriends or HUSBANDS - then just start flirting and pushing for sex. Just like that. They simply dont care - unless (or until) they have to suffer the consequences, like getting beat up, dumped, etc. Or, if you (the guy they are CHEATING with) dates or talks to other women, or whatever.
Like I said in another post... women want it ALL - when, how, where, and whom they want it from - and will do a lot of evil / conniving / manipulative **** to get it - only to piss and moan and howl and screach like nothing else when they cant get it exactly how they want it, and / or its taken away from them. You'll have boyfriends / husbands, nice guy doormats / orbiters, FWBs or ONS'... All of their needs are met - through a variety of people... All of which THEY set up. And theyll ***** and ***** whenever any of their "interests" are threatened - as they continue lying about everything, and deceiving everyone.
In the end, pretty much everyone finishes last and gets used / played.. And *****es STILL play the victim.
Yeah, I'm ranting. **** off.
This is a certain kind of woman - that I know of from the past. But its pretty broad of a selection. Then again, there were a lot of losers where I used to live. They all did this **** up there, in the city, and cared about no one but themselves. We'll see how it goes down here, once I get back in the groove and stop hating everyone. :nono: