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I am starting to get tired of having sex

corrector

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lol it’s just funny how the previous posters are offended, but they will go and worship some topic about a random forum guy effortlessly bagging/pumping dumping 9s and 10s with no receipts okieeee followed by him somehow falling for the oldest women trick in the book. Even dudes like Andrew Tate say that pvssy gets old eventually.

Sex is pretty easy to obtain if you work on your physical appearance, career, and personality!
I’m not over here trying to sell you some get rich quick fantasy type method to pvssy paradise. If you don’t want to put in the effort to improve yourself then don’t get offended by people that do that reap the benefits from doing so!

TDLR: If this topic offends you then you need to seriously reconsider your approach in life.
My posts get worst reactions than yours.
 

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I pulled the girl before my current girl from the gym haha. I might consider doing day game like you, but I have to think about that lol. I know you said you see hotter women at night, but for me it’s during the day doing routine activities lol.
It's about the chase and the drive. IMO, if sex was just offered like food, you wouldn't get as much enjoyment out of it. We hate women for being prudes but the chase is what makes it worth it. For me, sex has been more psychological than physical at times because of the way I got the girl. Day game kind of tests your nerves and how you react in tense situations. In a way, all of that when it leads to sex leads to some of the most fulfilling sex ever.

BTW, how much of an impact has nofap had on your sex drive?
 

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Its bs that you get more testesterone by having sex.
What are you going on about? Are you drunk? All I said was OP should get a blood test to see if his testosterone was low. Ruling out any physical issues would be the best place to start.
 

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It's about the chase and the drive. IMO, if sex was just offered like food, you wouldn't get as much enjoyment out of it. We hate women for being prudes but the chase is what makes it worth it. For me, sex has been more psychological than physical at times because of the way I got the girl. Day game kind of tests your nerves and how you react in tense situations. In a way, all of that when it leads to sex leads to some of the most fulfilling sex ever.

BTW, how much of an impact has nofap had on your sex drive?
He is too high smv to lower himself cold approach. Its easier to collect free money than struggle to earn it.
 

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What are you going on about? Are you drunk? All I said was OP should get a blood test to see if his testosterone was low. Ruling out any physical issues would be the best place to start.
Again just calling out the bs. Sex does not fix testosterone problems.
 

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It could be that I'm nearing 30, but I've gotten to the point that sex has become overrated for me. What's not overrated is seeing a girl and wanting to be able to see if you can conquer her by having sex with her. However, the actual sex part has started to be a drag for me tbh. I still get erections, but is there something wrong with me?
Nothing wrong with you. This is a consequence of abundance. Its a good problem to have.
 

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Again just calling out the bs. Sex does not fix testosterone problems.
I never said it did. I think you're getting me confused with another poster. All I said was lack of sexual libido was a sign of low testosterone.
 

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I never said it did. I think you're getting me confused with another poster. All I said was lack of sexual libido was a sign of low testosterone.
I thought that was a prevailing mindset on here.
 

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Lots of "high SMV" guys cold approach, whether at bars and clubs or whether during the day. Not sure where you are pulling any of this from.
Wheat Waffles said something like that in one of his videos.
 

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Lack of sexual libido is a sign of low testosterone.
Not necessarily. I know from experience if you are having an abundance of sex, that sex doesn't feel very important.
 

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The two things that come to mind OP are porn and video games.

when I first started watching porn, the kind of porn that I liked back then would be extremely vanilla and boring now. Perhaps the sex you're having is too average/normal for you now and you need a higher standard.

Whenever I play video games I always try to beat it on the hardest difficulty that I can handle because it's a game and I'm playing for fun. On the flip side, I don't want my job to be as hard as possible because I need to work to pay my bills. Once spinning plates because more like a game than a job you'll be want to turn up the difficulty and enjoy the challenge.
 

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He actually said that low SMV dudes should not wasting their time going to nightclubs or cold approaching.
What Wheat Waffles said is that pursuing hookups over tinder just comes like glorified fapping and gets boring. Its one of his critiques against OLD actually against chads is the lack of pleasure over time. When I'm getting more out of OF than the OP is getting out of real sex then its really bad.
 

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It could be that I'm nearing 30, but I've gotten to the point that sex has become overrated for me. What's not overrated is seeing a girl and wanting to be able to see if you can conquer her by having sex with her. However, the actual sex part has started to be a drag for me tbh. I still get erections, but is there something wrong with me?
You should try banging trannies.
 
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