It's about the chase and the drive. IMO, if sex was just offered like food, you wouldn't get as much enjoyment out of it. We hate women for being prudes but the chase is what makes it worth it. For me, sex has been more psychological than physical at times because of the way I got the girl. Day game kind of tests your nerves and how you react in tense situations. In a way, all of that when it leads to sex leads to some of the most fulfilling sex ever.
BTW, how much of an impact has nofap had on your sex drive?