I am starting to get tired of having sex

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It could be that I'm nearing 30, but I've gotten to the point that sex has become overrated for me. What's not overrated is seeing a girl and wanting to be able to see if you can conquer her by having sex with her. However, the actual sex part has started to be a drag for me tbh. I still get erections, but is there something wrong with me?
 

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I used to have the same issue as you and you are going to hate what I tell you. I think you are using dating apps and that is what is causing the boring sex. I used to use dating apps a lot and it felt so easy that the sex sucked. When I pulled from daygame, the quantity was low but the effort put into it somehow made the sex more rewarding in the end. Some psychology involved for sure but I feel like the toughness of it and the fact that I knew I could lose the girl as well if I messed up made the actual sex more rewarding.
 

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But that’s not all this forum is for, it’s for men to share all their struggles when it comes to women.
Agree.

OP doesn’t sound like he is struggling though. it sounds like he is showing off and confusing men. Perhaps the moderators should look into his behaviour.
 

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I feel the same way. If you live In a candy store all day you dont get hyped when you get free candy at work.

Andrew Tate says the same thing as OP
 
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Egocentrical and selfish post, completely unnecessary (if it's true, I really doubt it is). OP is weird, I never take what he says seriously anyway.
 
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I used to have the same issue as you and you are going to hate what I tell you. I think you are using dating apps and that is what is causing the boring sex. I used to use dating apps a lot and it felt so easy that the sex sucked. When I pulled from daygame, the quantity was low but the effort put into it somehow made the sex more rewarding in the end. Some psychology involved for sure but I feel like the toughness of it and the fact that I knew I could lose the girl as well if I messed up made the actual sex more rewarding.
I pulled the girl before my current girl from the gym haha. I might consider doing day game like you, but I have to think about that lol. I know you said you see hotter women at night, but for me it’s during the day doing routine activities lol.
 
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Agree.

OP doesn’t sound like he is struggling though. it sounds like he is showing off and confusing men. Perhaps the moderators should look into his behaviour.

Egocentrical and selfish post, completely unnecessary (if it's true, I really doubt it is). OP is weird, I never take what he says seriously anyway.
Lovely feature on this site called the ignore feature. Try using that instead of treating this forum like an elementary school playground. Trust me, y’all won’t hurt my feelings at all;)
 

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It could be that I'm nearing 30, but I've gotten to the point that sex has become overrated for me. What's not overrated is seeing a girl and wanting to be able to see if you can conquer her by having sex with her. However, the actual sex part has started to be a drag for me tbh. I still get erections, but is there something wrong with me?
hahaha good for you man
 
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lol it’s just funny how the previous posters are offended, but they will go and worship some topic about a random forum guy effortlessly bagging/pumping dumping 9s and 10s with no receipts okieeee followed by him somehow falling for the oldest women trick in the book. Even dudes like Andrew Tate say that pvssy gets old eventually.

Sex is pretty easy to obtain if you work on your physical appearance, career, and personality!
I’m not over here trying to sell you some get rich quick fantasy type method to pvssy paradise. If you don’t want to put in the effort to improve yourself then don’t get offended by people that do that reap the benefits from doing so!

TDLR: If this topic offends you then you need to seriously reconsider your approach in life.
 

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It could be that I'm nearing 30, but I've gotten to the point that sex has become overrated for me. What's not overrated is seeing a girl and wanting to be able to see if you can conquer her by having sex with her. However, the actual sex part has started to be a drag for me tbh. I still get erections, but is there something wrong with me?
Nothing wrong, your taste is just a bit more refined. Novelty and a deeper purpose to the sex is what cures this imo. I had similar thoughts with an ex, and realized I simply didn't see a future with her. I see one with my current girl and the sex is better than ever.

You're right, sex alone is easy and not terribly interesting. I'll have a fling for fun if I'm in the mood to conquer, but the only way a girl will get regular sex from me is if I see a point in the continued time investment. And for that conquer fling I'll tease the piss out of her, because watching her lose her mind is fun and gets me in the mood to be more primal/objectifying, which is what she wants in that moment anyway.

Kink is a great avenue for novelty, the continued time investment goal doesn't have to be marriage and a family, it can be a rigging partner, a masochist I push over the edge, a slave, etc. It becomes more about the build up to penetration, and the terms of that penetration, which keeps things pretty fun imo.
 

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lol it’s just funny how the previous posters are offended, but they will go and worship some topic about a random forum guy effortlessly bagging/pumping dumping 9s and 10s with no receipts okieeee followed by him somehow falling for the oldest women trick in the book. Even dudes like Andrew Tate say that pvssy gets old eventually.

Sex is pretty easy to obtain if you work on your physical appearance, career, and personality!
I’m not over here trying to sell you some get rich quick fantasy type method to pvssy paradise. If you don’t want to put in the effort to improve yourself then don’t get offended by people that do that reap the benefits from doing so!

TDLR: If this topic offends you then you need to seriously reconsider your approach in life.
Buddy, for the record I'm not offended, and I believe you. I still find the thread funny
 

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i remember i had the same problem but i got helped by a life couch if you would like i can give you his contact
 

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It could be that I'm nearing 30, but I've gotten to the point that sex has become overrated for me. What's not overrated is seeing a girl and wanting to be able to see if you can conquer her by having sex with her. However, the actual sex part has started to be a drag for me tbh. I still get erections, but is there something wrong with me?
Now you know how most women feel about s3x. Casual sex will bore you after a while just like fastfood. You should want that soul food.

Is your libido noticeably lower ( no /less jacking off also?)

This is the other side of the coin imo. Hence why most men " retire " from game and want LTR's. S3x with a deeper emotion behind it is stronger and better. But as we know, both lifestyles have their ups and downs.
 
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