Originally posted by Player_Supreme
And here is my last piece to pull ya coat kid:
Ideas in the area of Persuasion.
Players who stay in the game will develop their powers of persuasion over time. The art of persuasion is a powerful tool in the game. Your objective as players is to persuade that fine assed woman in the club to leave with you and no one else.
Most women when they go out to a club do so with the idea that they will be going home alone. But what you don’t realize is that they would love to meet a man and stop for a late night cub of java or a snack or even just exchange phone numbers. But you have to persuade her butt to make this choice. And if you know anything about women making choices then you get an idea of it’s complexity.
Women want to meet a real man. Your job is to convince her that you are the one. She has gotta feel that she is going to be a happier person for meeting and leaving with you.
Take a moment to step into that fine ho’s shoes. She needs a companion and a friend. She most likely lonely, vulnerable and in need of emotional excitement in her life. It’s up to you to prove that you are the man who can give this to her. Sell her the dream, nobody says you actually have to deliver it.
You don’t want her thinking your just trying to get into her panties. You gotta make it easy for her to leave with you to have coffee after your done at the night club. The key is to make her feel safe. Tell her to drive her car and pick a well lit restaurant to go to.
You want her to start making choices that she will feel good about. What’s going through her mind are little fears that you must address such as:
· Fear of being alone with your happy ass where there are no other people
· The problems with driving alone to a far off diner
· Will she get enough sleep to get to work on time
· Does she have enough money to pay for coffee
· Will this fool try to get too close to her over coffee
Deal with these before hand to eliminate any possible resistance. Now since your still thinking from her perspective, do you think that fine assed woman enjoys being alone for the night? Do you think she took a shower, got hella dressed up, put on all that makeup, and drove to the club alone just to end up being alone at the end?
These ho’s will drop kick their best friend across the room for a chance to meet a real man. So when you see a group of fine women out having a good time, well guess what, most of them really are not having such a good time after all. Most of them would love to meet you and enjoy your company.
Ok now back into your own heads. You know these women need companionship. What they are looking for are relationships (ohh the pain of that word). You must make them realize that you are what they are looking for. By hanging out with you they will get the promised land that they have been waiting for.
When you step up to her, make sure you look clean, confident, and capable. Look like your easy to talk to. She will be wondering “oh **** another one”. This is where you let your confident aura and slightly ****y smile win her over.
After your approach, you need to continue the persuasive process by giving her little rewards. Get her to feeling positive. I will give her a little side ways compliment. Nothing about her looks because that’s too obvious. For example with the recent catch, I told her that she was very passionate and sensual. That was the first time anyone had ever told her something like that, now she is on my team. Make sure your compliment comes from truth though. Nothing stinks worse than a fake assed compliment.
Here is a little trick that I read about. After you find out what her name is, ask her what her friends call her. Then start using that name. This will make you seem like a close friend instead of a stranger.
In your conversation you need to dig into her life story. I like to look for areas of commonality that will tie us together closer.
Your job here is to give her positive vibes, either in conversation, dancing, having a drink with you or whatever. Keep your conversation away from anything negative. If she refuses to go for a drink or coffee somewhere else then settle on just the phone number and be happy with it. She may have a hundred reasons for not going and not a one of them has anything to do with you.
Keep your **** simple. Women can’t make up their minds about anything. Don’t try to get all complicated on her and give her a long list of directions to someplace. Keep is easy and simple. You gotta stay in step with her pea brain…LOL.
Let’s take a moment to step back into Her head. Women are loaded with fears. You can use these fears to come out on top. They get pressure from their families, friends, pastors or whomever to find a decent fool to hook up with. Add to that the stress of getting past their prime, I think ya’ll can see where I am leading with this.
Play on her doubts. Subtly let her know she is passing up a great opportunity to get with someone who isn’t like the other fools out there. Remember they only want relationships and to be loved. Women do not crave sex just for sex, the way we do. A lot of these fine assed women aren’t interested in your money. All they want is your companionship and friendship and to feel “safe”.
Ok armed with this information next time your out in the club scene, step up without hesitation