i am always getting fired!

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iqqi

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am i just misunderstood?

sigh. i feel like i am always disliked by my bosses. especially if they are white.

i am professional, articulate, and know my sh!t. but i am quiet, and i come from a different place than most people i work with.

are they intimidated by my nonchalance? (i am very laid back and cool, very unemotional with 'strangers')

does my quietness and lack of desire to be friends piss them off?

is it because i don't treat them like they are better than myself?


at first i just used to be like fcuk them, who gives a sh!t. but i am slightly alarmed, because what if i don't become successfully self employed, and have to work for these nimrods forever? i am just not good at brownnosing and sh!t.

sigh.

ok rant over. for now.

i am open to criticism, maybe it IS me.
 

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nobody cares forum.




















you aren't good at brownnosing:p right. well you should try politicing a little. read the 48 laws of power and you probably won't ever get fired again if you use the principles in the book. good luck mate.
 

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Another boring, long, and sh!t-filled post by iqqi.

NOBODY CARES
 

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Iqqi, some hints

Iqqi, it sounds like you've identified the possible problems and they deal with attitude and a perception of you.

If you work in business part of being in business isn't necessarily brown-nosing, but smiling and being upbeat and showing you care about your customers and co-workers (even if you don't sometimes).

I've been fired -- from 7-11 when I was a teen, thank God. I hated that job. But I've had a good track record of NOT getting fired in my previous profession and my new one (real jobs unlike 7-11). I've HATED bosses, but took out that hate in the workout gym or venting with friends (I'm sure they liked that!). Sometimes you just have to "get along" in business or wherever you work.

Say 'hi' to people, co-workers, bosses, be upbeat, don't be sullen, sulking, or the "weird quiet one" who sits in the back and doesn't mingle.

Just like this site says "cynics aren't chick magnets."

Well, cynics aren't work magnets either.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Originally posted by iqqi
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i am professional, articulate, and know my sh!t. but i am quiet, and i come from a different place than most people i work with.



Where do you come from Mars?



Someone who is ALWAYS getting fired as an employer myself, you are probably living in some alternate universe where who you really are, is radically diffirent from who you think you are.

As an employee you are probably a loser whose only hope is to find a man to give you the freedom where you don't have to ever work and can continue to function as this bizarre character known as Iqqi.


:)
 

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Tough break icky , just Find Ten Other Workplaces :D
 
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you are so ****ing ugly it makes me sick

ban her for racism (she said she hates white people... ok not really racism but i am looking for any reason to get this piece of trash out of here)

you offer nothing and are a total waste, much like your employers thought (AND WERE RIGHT)
 

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iqqi, youre back?

That completely changes the vision I had of what you looked like.
 

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You're probably lousy at what you do.
And they don't want to pay you for
making entries here.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I thought iqqi was a white chick. Hmm. Could she maybe hate her own?
 

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Wow, whenever someone cries out for a little reinforcement we hear mad negativity.


Iqqi says she's got problems with work, we all flame her and tell her we don't care.

AFC says he's confused, we tell him to shut the ƒuck up.

A guy says he's on the brink of committing suicide, we give him advice on how to kill himself.


But, that said, Iqqi, do you post while at work?
 

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MvPlaya,

That coz a lot of guys here are straight up ass-holes, with a dash of misogynst thrown in. I don't mind iqqi at all.... her posts are usually quite good. Some of these guys need to learn some humanity.
 

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This post doesn't belong in this forum. Go complain to people who give a shyt.
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
If you made 1100 posts on the DJ forum at work, I would fire you too.
Hmm.. he has a point there. You sure you just havent been slackin lately?
 

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Every time a guy gets mad at iqqi I see AFC

Sorry, but all you guys ranting and yelling at her just scream AFC. Re-read the DJ Bible or some of the Hall of Fame articles and it talks about composure, not being intimidated by women, and staying calm under pressure.

Stalkers, abusers, and violent men are really truly AFCs and don't know how to handle their emotions. They're little wimps inside and violence or abuse is a mask.

It's like the guy who typed in all caps saying how bad this site was. All I could think was wimpy AFC, just like I think on how all these guys attacked iqqi. Sure, she's ticked me off sometimes and when I let her get to me, yep, I was AFCing.

Get some composure fellas, or go back to living in mommy's basement.
 

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Re: Every time a guy gets mad at iqqi I see AFC

Originally posted by WestCoaster
Sorry, but all you guys ranting and yelling at her just scream AFC. Re-read the DJ Bible or some of the Hall of Fame articles and it talks about composure, not being intimidated by women, and staying calm under pressure.

I don't think that advice refers to women who make 1100 boring posts on a male discussion forum
 

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Re: Re: Every time a guy gets mad at iqqi I see AFC

Originally posted by Golden Arms
I don't think that advice refers to women who make 1100 boring posts on a male discussion forum
Oh come on.... are her posts really THAT bad? :confused:


Maybe it's coz I don't follow her every damn move on this board. Nor do I read every post by her. I just glance at here shyt if I come across it. :D
 

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Re: Re: Re: Every time a guy gets mad at iqqi I see AFC

Originally posted by jakethasnake
Oh come on.... are her posts really THAT bad? :confused:


Maybe it's coz I don't follow her every damn move on this board. Nor do I read every post by her. I just glance at here shyt if I come across it. :D
right..now tell me this - would you go write 1100 + posts ( majority revolving about your life) on some Cosmo message board for women ?
 

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