Guys, for years I dated women that my friends would give me a hard time about, most especially my women friends. They'd say, "You're a good looking guy-why are your girlfriends so plain looking?" I've got the "f**k me eyes" from women before, plenty of times. Some I followed up on, some I didn't. Sorta confirmation that my lady friends weren't just saying something to pump up my ego.
Trouble is, with the better looking chicks, the disrespect and sh!t tests start very, very early. In fact, that's all I've been getting since I started going after women that were truly attractive to me. Case in point:
Most recent one was an attractive Ph.d student I took out a few times. Early on, she let it be known that she always wanted to learn how to drive a stick shift vehicle. (The truck I took her out on a date with was a stick). I took that as a request, and gave her a lesson, accompanied by much giggling on her part as she continually messed up. She was clearly having fun. After that she seemed pretty enthusiastic. The next date I offered her the key, suggesting she might give it a try. "Later on tonight" was her reply.
Near the end of the date, I pulled into an empty lot and said, "Wanna give it a go?" Her response was, "Gawd! How many times are you gonna ask me? You're like drive my truck now or something!" This was said in a really pissy tone.
What could I say? I was only responding to her earlier request. That pretty much killed the tone for the rest of the evening. Needless to say, that ruined it. I could go on with similar experiences with other women.
When confronted with this sort of behavior, the only thing I can see to do is not ask for another date. She would not cut me any slack if I behaved in such a manner; why should I give her any slack because she is a woman? I'm not a believer in bad behavior in the first few dates-I would think you ought to be on your best behavior in that situation.
Unfortunately, I get this all the time with the good looking chicks. There's not much you can do to salvage the situation when she feels free to be a ***** for no good reason. Major disrespect.
I associate this *****y behavior with low IL, and it is discouraging how often it happens, even with attractive girls (7's-8's) that really aren't out of my league.
I've read the Bible, but the only defense seem to be to walk away. Which I'm doing, but the better looking the chick, the more likely it is she'll behave this way. 8-9's show it sooner than 7's, but they all must think so much of themselves that they figure it's necessary to be a *****y, pissy pain in the ass within the first two or three dates.
Could use some tips for hooking up with girls I'm truly attracted to, I guess. How do you guys get past the sh!t and b*tch wall? Or do you bother?I'm fed up with the disrespect. I'm sliding back to the notion of asking the plain girls out for dates again, since at least they try to act civil. Which isn't really very satisfying either, because I try to force attraction for them that isn't there.
Perhaps I can only get them when I finally find a chick that doesn't do the sh!t test with me at all. I have a feeling it's gonna be a long search.
Trouble is, with the better looking chicks, the disrespect and sh!t tests start very, very early. In fact, that's all I've been getting since I started going after women that were truly attractive to me. Case in point:
Most recent one was an attractive Ph.d student I took out a few times. Early on, she let it be known that she always wanted to learn how to drive a stick shift vehicle. (The truck I took her out on a date with was a stick). I took that as a request, and gave her a lesson, accompanied by much giggling on her part as she continually messed up. She was clearly having fun. After that she seemed pretty enthusiastic. The next date I offered her the key, suggesting she might give it a try. "Later on tonight" was her reply.
Near the end of the date, I pulled into an empty lot and said, "Wanna give it a go?" Her response was, "Gawd! How many times are you gonna ask me? You're like drive my truck now or something!" This was said in a really pissy tone.
What could I say? I was only responding to her earlier request. That pretty much killed the tone for the rest of the evening. Needless to say, that ruined it. I could go on with similar experiences with other women.
When confronted with this sort of behavior, the only thing I can see to do is not ask for another date. She would not cut me any slack if I behaved in such a manner; why should I give her any slack because she is a woman? I'm not a believer in bad behavior in the first few dates-I would think you ought to be on your best behavior in that situation.
Unfortunately, I get this all the time with the good looking chicks. There's not much you can do to salvage the situation when she feels free to be a ***** for no good reason. Major disrespect.
I associate this *****y behavior with low IL, and it is discouraging how often it happens, even with attractive girls (7's-8's) that really aren't out of my league.
I've read the Bible, but the only defense seem to be to walk away. Which I'm doing, but the better looking the chick, the more likely it is she'll behave this way. 8-9's show it sooner than 7's, but they all must think so much of themselves that they figure it's necessary to be a *****y, pissy pain in the ass within the first two or three dates.
Could use some tips for hooking up with girls I'm truly attracted to, I guess. How do you guys get past the sh!t and b*tch wall? Or do you bother?I'm fed up with the disrespect. I'm sliding back to the notion of asking the plain girls out for dates again, since at least they try to act civil. Which isn't really very satisfying either, because I try to force attraction for them that isn't there.
Perhaps I can only get them when I finally find a chick that doesn't do the sh!t test with me at all. I have a feeling it's gonna be a long search.
