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If one was, say 30 years old, and only had been on a handful of dates, and nothing more. Is trying to be a DJ something worth pursuing?
 

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That's the best time to be a DJ IMO.

Remember, being a DJ is no longer one dimensional like in the past. Being a DJ will improve your life in all areas and not just with women.
 

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You are good to go. Write some goals and plans down and pursue them all with vigor. Don't stop holding yourself accountable.
 

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I'm 30 very soon, I don't see why not? It's the very limited experience that would be the obstacle, not the age. One could be a DJ at any age.

It's never too late and with at least average intelligence and courage it shouldn't even take long to get good at it.
 

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You don't try to be a DJ. You either are heading into that route or you're not. Being a player is not for everyone-- and tahts just the facts. More men than ever are more prone to acting like women these days when it comes to dating and its blatantly obvious.

If you're in your 30's and you are just touching the surface of casual dating, then its going to be a rough road getting past the realms of emotional maturity, and learning curves of game, and the experience that comes with time and activity.

But then again, my definition of a DJ is a lot different than some.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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