Agreed about how to handle it. This is what @AttackFormation was referring to.
This. He could have used the opportunity to banter and build sexual tension by playfully telling her that she will be making it up to him later on or to be expecting proper punishment. It's not like this is just some random and she doesn't have a track record, that he's mentioned. He could have even grabbed something to drink while he was out getting food and instead of her trying on a million outfits and figuring out what to wear, he could have took the opportunity to lead and had her try on and wear what he chose, knowing that it will be coming off for him later on. Just a great opportunity to build tension, probably blown out of the water.
You showed her! Damn her for not being ready on time!I had been out with this girl a few times before Christmas. Already had sex. We made plans to go out New Years eve. I was supposed to be at her house at 7:00-7:30 and we would leave from there. I showed up close to 7 and she answers the door in her bath robe. She had just started a bath and was no where close to being ready.
At the 2.5hr mark I got up and told her she could meet me there and I left. And it was hard to do, she was looking super hot. She tried to tell me she was making herself look good for me, I told her she was full of schitt she was doing so for validation just like every girl does.
Now I was the biggest azzhole on the planet. I got a slew of angry texts and she never showed up.
I ended up hanging out by myself at the bar for a while, hit on a waitress, and then hung out with some friends that showed up so the evening was still good. Only thing I lost out on was sex.
How would you of handled this situation? She was probably 15minutes away from being ready. But my patience was long gone.
She did it on purpose.You showed her! Damn her for not being ready on time!
Much better to be ALPHA and alone on NYE than BETA and have sex with a hot girl on NYE.
I would have announced for every 5 minutes you keep me waiting that equals one spank and that she would get her punishment before we leave.
Come on bro, don't you know that when women try to get frame or don't have sex with us on demand or don't give in to our fantasies, they have a disorder and there is something medically wrong with them?
Yeah I dont get how some would say it was OP fault. She didnt want sex, she was just late. 2hr.. if you tolerate this too much you might wake up couple years later with days wasted because of such people
Yeah, it was annoying that he was waiting for two hours, but like someone said it was NYE and maybe she wanted to get dolled up.
Exactly! I never let on anything I have learned from this site. Why show my hand? If I divulge too much I lose MY upper hand!
Black time lol we call that Jamaican time here. They call it that themselves.
Oh man, 2 hours is way too long. I mean I kinda just throw my pants on and leave, maybe sweep my hair to the sides with my hands, but like why wait so long? A half hour is already the maximum anyone should wait for someone else to change clothes, and that’s only because women gotta put on makeup in just the right places. You should have left a long time ago. From what I see, she feels led on because you were already there for 2 hours, which means she probably thought you would wait the rest of the 15 minutes or whatever. And right before she gets ready, you leave her behind. That’s why she was pissed off. But a lot of chicks can’t see the other perspective of you just waiting TWO FCKING HOURS lol. If you were gonna leave, you should have left way sooner. 30 minutes is the maximum amount of time you wait for someone else because then you start to harbor resentment towards them for the rest of the event they made you wait on them for. Thus, it was her fault for making you wait. But understand that she probably felt led on.
Just no hahahaha
I see the sarcasm in this. With a mentality like yours, a man might as well cut off his balls and nail himself to the cross because you sir are whipped.You showed her! Damn her for not being ready on time!
Much better to be ALPHA and alone on NYE than BETA and have sex with a hot girl on NYE.
I wholeheartedly disagree. The whole point of drinking is to loosen up inhibitions to go bang someone else or do things and say the next day ‘welp, it was last year, and it’ll stay last year. Now I’m turning over a new leaf!’ Despite the fact that they just cheated on their spouse 10 hours ago lol
Okay let’s be real here, 2 hours is a LONG time even for a chick to get ready. Like what was she doing? Giving herself an enema to prep for anal? After 2 hours, how are you still not ready yet? She was still in a bathrobe when he got there so you know that she was still trying to ‘get ready’ beforehand... Chick needs almost 3 hours to get ready and some of you guys (not just you AJ84) say ‘she was just trying to look REALLY good for you’. I mean fair point, but honor your arrangements. You had this event preset already, it’s not like Howiestern told her on the fly “hey let’s go out on New Years!” randomly. And plus, even if he did do that, she likely still would have been trying to get ready because it’s fvcking New Years dammit lol. It’s pretty much second to Christmas in terms of getting dressed up to go out, it’s not like she WASN’T planning on going out anyway....
