Well I thought it was FINALLY over, but its not!!! So like I said yesterday she called me and let me a very nice message. I listened to the message and laughed. I was laying in bed around 1am and she called again. She didn't leave a message this time and I said, "Fuvk it I'm going to call her and tell her how it is" so she doesn't call me everyday!!
So I call her and she asks me why I didn't call her back and I told her I didn't want to. She then asks if I'm mad at her, and I say no I'm just tired of all your bullshyt.
She asks me what I'm specifically talking about. So I call her out and tell her she's a liar and I can't build a relationship with a liar because there's no trust in her. I go on to tell her I know she went out on a date with the guy from her work and that I wasn't upset about her going, but I was upset about her disrespect to me. I have told her repeatedly that if she wants to be young and date then I'd understand. She kept telling me that she didn't want to date other people she only wanted to be with me.
So after I confront her about it, she goes, "I didn't go on a date with the guy from my work!" I tell her not lie and that our mutal friend told me you did. She explains that yes, the guy from her work asked her out on a date, but she brushed it off without giving him a yes/no. She even said our mutal friend goes, "you should go." But that's only because our mutal friend thought that me and her weren't dating or whatever we were at the time. She then told me it upsets her that I'd believe what people outside of our relationship would tell me. I told her normally I wouldn't believe it, but because she tends to lie about dumb stuff it sounded valid.
On top of the fact that she was being very short, rude and flakey with me this week for the 1st time ever, it gave me the impression that she wanted to distance herself from me.
She continued saying that she has such deep feelings for me, she cares about me so much and how rare it is to meet someone that you connect with on all levels like we do. She said that she quit one of her jobs so she'd now have a lot more time for me and she was excited about that.
She told me that I'm such a higher caliber guy than any other chump she's ever dated. She said that's why she was telling me about all her little tricks she pulled with her AFC ex's because me and her could laugh about it. She then explained how she was telling me she didn't want to be like that anymore. She said she really cares about me and that she knows this will be a great lasting relationship where she actually does have feelings for the other person.
The conversation carried on for about an hour and then she goes, "so where does that leave us?" I asked her what she wanted and she said, "I want to be with you." She goes, but that doesn't matter unless you want that too. I told her I'd have to think about it.
She even said she knows I'm going through a lot of other bullshyt in my life and that if she's an added stress on me that she'd step aside and still be there for me as friend, and then we could give it a go later.
She constantly reminded me that she's got geninue feelings for me and she said "but if you don't believe a word I say then I don't know what to tell you."
I guess I'm just really not going to fret over it and I'll make a decision when it comes to me.
PIMP
But as others said red flags everywhere and like the other guy said she had a b/f and was cheating with you.. very bad sighn. Almost every LTR I used to have was with girls I'd stolen with my DJ behaviour. It never turned out well as they repeated the pattern when the next pimp came along. Its only now that I'm trieng to be a "normal" man and just have a normal relationship that I'm struggling. Thank god I'm not AFC though, which you were slowly becoming as indicated in your posts. 
