How Women Attract Men

[Lord_Galth]

This is a question, I just stated it as an answer in the title to attract more views.

Does anyone know a site similar to sosuave but for women? I'm only curious because I want to become better at spotting some of the games women INTENTIONALLY play (as opposed to the ones they often play unintentionally, such as many we observe here).

thanks guys,

-LG

 

[Evil-Rom]

Cosmo mag.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Not much different from the unintentional ones.

Frankly, I'm not sure I see the distinction. Most of the tips here are for spotting the intentional signs.

 

[seloifter]

Women and men are attracted to TOTALLY different things.

Whereas to attract a woman, a guy has to be charming, confident, alpha male, generally well-built and good looking, etc.

To attract a guy, all a girl has to do is look pretty. Showing cleavage and skin also helps.
Plus jealousy. A girl's number one trick card is jealousy. It pisses me off, because EVERY SINGLE GOD DAMN GIRL USES IT, but hey, it does make things a little funner
Girls will also stroke a guy's ego, because they know we are suckers for it. You know, like asking us to lift something cuz it's too heavy for them (which is a double-edged sword because you don't want to supplicate their needs....), or complimenting us on something that hsouldn't matter to us but does when they mention it....

It breaks down to this:

to attract a female, a male will (or at least should..... but don't let the AFCs know ) act MASCULINE
to attract a male, a female will act more FEMININE (ie, looking pretty, acting "weak and needing the help of a big strong man")

that's basically it in a nutshell.

If you want to REALLY get into a woman's mind and toolkit..... read Cosmopolitan magazine..... their number one source for tips and tricks on quote, "snagging your man"

 

[dionysius_d]

This is dumb.

Basically she just has to look "fertile" and capable of being sexed.. that's about it.

Occasionally she will be attractive if she reminds you of someone in your history.. but even then, she won't be a dog.

The more intoxicated you are, the more you will miss her bad points and emphasise good points.

Half decent body and face, clothes, makeup, perfume, flirts.. that's all women need.

You can tell why you are attracted to someone in about 3 seconds.

 

[Titus]

Originally posted by dionysius_d
Half decent body and face, clothes, makeup, perfume, flirts.. that's all women need.

Endeed. And sad also.

 

[The_King]

I disagree, as such.

I will explain..

I agree, if you we are talking just physical attraction..all she needs is whatever appeals to you, pretty face, cleavage, show about of skin..etc. I do not need to alloborate on that.

However, as I found out the other day. This girl who I had been on a few dates with and slept with, she acts shy and very feminine, she is pretty, intelligent, nice body. I was attracted to her, slept with her, though I would not contemplate having an LTR. She then basically used my method of seduction against me, she was very confident, ****y, neg-hitting me, matching me for a battle of the wits, and giving of major mixed signals. My friends were saying to us, look at you two flirt, just get it on, all of that stuff. But, she did not even give me a kiss, sending out major mixed signals and cupled with her personality. I was developing an attraction beyond the physical to her, I was thinking, yeah, I could have an LTR with her.

I lost my attitude so much, that when in the car dropping my friend off. He could not understand, what had gone on. He said he thought I was about to have a breakdown. My alpha -male, I do not need a woman..they need me, had completely gone. Luckily, after going home thinking, what the heck has gone on, I really like her, I woke up and was very happy. The reason being as it reaffirmed, the principles of attraction to me and I re-gained control. Now she is back after me, and I will post about that later.

 

[( . )( . )]

wtf they dont need to do anything, we are men

she can scratch her arse and pick her nose and i would still break it down in my mind how she would look bouncing on my c@ck.

 

[The_King]

Obviously...

Some people, need to not be so desperate that they will find any lady attractive. All the power to you if you can, but I can not and do not want that attitude.

I have a friend who says

"As far as I am concerned if they fancy me, their fvcking gorgeous"

I actually feel sorry for him. I have found out as my skills have improved, my standard of ladies have improved as I pick the ones I want to seduce. They do not pick me, by finding me attractive. As I can turn them down, as I know, I can find someone else. It was only when the attractive lady, stood up to me and played my own game on me, did she gain momentary control but I do not need her. It just made me realise, that I am not a machine, and emotions are powerful, in the heat of the moment.

As we all know, through D.D's classic quote

"Attraction is not a choice", if performed well.

 

[legolas]

What if Lord_Gaith was a man trying to attract other men

 

[Lord_Galth]

@$$hole. Why would I even be at this site if I was gay?
Go read some of my other posts before making that accusation (they're from a while back).

I'm just curious, not a big deal.

Hey, in response to the post prior to that last one, I too have found my taste in women logically increasing since I started using DJ tactics and what not. Success has brought the assumption that "I can do better" so I seek the "better" that I can "do."

And, hey, maybe for some of you its all about the body, but for me there's more to it than that (since I'm an LTR guy). Granted, I like the body fine, and I don't want to date an ugly chick, but if she's got nothing going upstairs then she and I aren't going anywhere... I need intelligent conversation!! (Which, for the most part, I get from my friends)....

Also, Just like we don't think women have a clue what attracts them, what makes you think we know what we find truly attractive? I wrote this question out of curiosity over knowing why I'm attracted to one girl (whose an @$$hole and who I refuse to ask out just on principle) as opposed to another one (whose completely in love with me and is an awesome chick, but with whom I broke up after 5 months because I couldn't fake being attracted to her anymore). After the break up, she STILL wants to get back with me...

 

[drZaius09]

This is simple, as others have said. The man does all the WORK, all the woman has to do is show up. That's how it is, I don't like it either. Deal with it.

The more I think about it, the more chemical castration becomes an increasingly agreeable option to me. Although I know I'd never have the balls to do it (no pun intended). I'm sick and tired of having the same knee-jerk emotional reaction to good-looking women, without any semblance of control over it. I wish I could rip the sexual desire right clean from my body.

 

[WaterTiger]

Dr.Zaius09~ Removing sexual desire would cause EXTINCTION OF THE HUMAN SPECIES! You are SUPPOSED to have that "knee-jerk" response! Just don't let you little head think more than your big head.

Lord Galth~
As previously stated, Cosmo magazine gives women advice about dating men. Any female based website "Oxygen" & the like, will have discussion forums on dating men, but to my knowledge, there is no female's site like this one.

There are several books on the subject! One is "Why Men Love B!tches" by Sherry Atgov. It basically says the same thing as the DJ Bible. Be very cool, make the guy chase you, don't be a female AFC, etc... There is another called "The Boyfriend Book" by Wendy....(I forget her name) This book makes a list of criteria that a new guy must measure up to to be good enough for a LTR. It also lists red flags that should be common sense. (Like if he shows up drunk, asks for sex on the first date, etc...) It's all about the posturing, demanding equal respect, never showing weakness, never being too "nice".

I swear I'm ready to make a pair of lists. When a man approaches me I'll be like:
" This is a detailed list of what I'm willing to do for you. This is a list of what I want in return. If you can't handle it, then don't waste my valuable time!"

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

How to spot games girls play...?

This is all the more reason why it COULD BE helpful to have a handful of female posters on this board... I know there have been enough threads debating this topic, so please let's not rehash any of that...

but as a girl who is usually more likely to play the games GUYS play... I'm always willing to answer any questions on the games girls play... because even though most people talk about "oh guys play girls so bad" blah blah blah, I'll be honest, it is more likely the opposite... not that girls play guys so much, but that the games girls play are different and sometimes more even more ****ed up.

I can't think of any specific things off hand, but if you ever do have a specific question, I think most of the girls on this site really are here to help.

 

[becker]

Sexy_Malibu, ok, here's something for you, although by the way you sign your name, I'm not sure whether you are going to be biased as to your point of view.

Let's say that a girl seems more comfortable talking on the phone with you than in person, where she acts sort of nervous, and thus, sometimes seeming a little distant. Is this some sort of game to gauge your interest or what?

 

[PEACEDJ]

I saw in a post one time that its proven men like attractive and very good looking girls (isn't that why we have this site to score with the good looking ones). So I guess we get attracted to looks first and foremost before anything. I learned that in society right now most good looking chicks have good personalities.

Basically women try to look their best to attract men.

 

[iqqi]

Maybe it is easier for women to plain out attract men, but many woman do not want to just be ass, and the problem many woman have is finding a Good man, and then keeping him.

I don't know how all yall feel about that, but those are the two top complaints all my girls have.

 

[hitop]

Look, act feminine? Smell good, look good? Look helpless and act weak? That's way too much work they have to do nowadays. Back to the original comment of: =>How women attract men<=

There are so many AFC's out there in these times that all women have to do is snap their friggin fingers to hook some sap and they'll have all these AFC's jumping thru hoops. That's it. Don't be that and everything will be cool.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by iqqi
but many woman do not want to just be ass,

well that sux because thats all most are.
besides that the statement is rubbish, most women live to be desired by men .

I don't know how all yall feel about that, but those are the two top complaints all my girls have.

I wont even say anything about the "good man" bit.

 

[SamePendo]

Women are very communicative between them.
Men brag about lies.
Who are the ones who get frustrated?
No, not Women.