BigBill
Master Don Juan
Hmmmm I never made the monkies with titts comment. I like it though. As to some girls being independant well, some. Not the high quality ones. Not likely. No man is perfect. We all have flaws that a girl will overlook as long as she is excited and happy about being with us. As soon as she starts getting a lot of attention from a guy she likes more, or realizes that she has strong possibiblties to get a man she thinks might be better those flaws become enourmous in her eyes. Why? I say its because she has a reason to leave (she feels she can trade up) and she has to do it in such a way that she is not the bad person who dumped her BF because he is 20 pounds heavier or 6 inches shorter or makes 10,000 dollars a year less that the new guy. so maybe she starts being depressed for a while then comes up with something like 'you just don't communicate' or 'you just don't understand my needs!' Of course the problem can't be resolved no matter how hard the poor guy tries since the problem doesn't even exist. So the breakup comes and a few days or a couple of weeks later the girl is with her trade up and everyone including the poor guy thinks that he is the one that screwed up somehow. Tell me that doesn't sound a little familiar.
Shift: Maybe calling you an AFC was a little rough, but I just think that your whole argument against the GF stealing post could be summed up in this quote:
'Its not fair! It's a trick! You guys aren't NICE!' yeah. guilty as charged bro.
I challenge you to come out here and write a post with well developed paragraphs and examples from your experience that demonstrate why blue is wrong for stealing girlfriends, and I'm wrong for supporting his ideas. Also maybe why it is that you think a girl will fall for Blue's trick if she is already with a rich, handsome, successful non-break dancing heart-throb.
I stil say that either blue has to be a better man in some way that is important to the girl, or he has to somehow CONVINCE her that he is. No, I dont think blue could steal ANY girlfriend with his method. I do think he can get quite a few, and I think that if he delivers once he is in the relationship that its going to take a player and a half to get her away from him.
Its easy to call people 'full of sh1t' or whatever else. its easy to get all uppity and offended when someone says something you don't like too. Try stating your point of view and backing it up for a change instead of attacking other peoples ideas in a meaningless way. If you have a sound reasoning behind your argument I'd love to read it.
Also the whole thing about not pursuing a girl just becuase she has a boyfriend is something that I used to beleive and had to give up on out of sheer necessity. In my town I swear to you that nearly every 6+ girl you talk to has one or more boyfriend. So are you suggesting that I sit around and mastrubate every night or that I go out there and talk to several hunderd women every week just to get 2 or 3 lousy numbers? No way. A boyfriend is just some guy she is dating. Big whoop. Odds are very good that he isn't going to turn out to be the right one and she knows it.
When I ask for a number and the girl says, 'I have a boyfriend.' I still close once more. I either go for humor by saying 'Oh? So you two are living together?' If she says no then I put on my biggest smile and hand her the pen without saying a word. If she thinks I'm not better than what she has she wont give the number. If she thinks I might be, she will give it.
Another way is just to ask her about him (girls love to talk about this stuff). If all her talk is positive, then she likes him more than you. If its mixed or mostly negative, she is seeing you as a possibility. She might talk about her boyfriend in glowing terms to another guy that she doesn't like. Ask her for the number again in a minute or two.
Sorry, but I'm not confining myself to only women who are sitting around lonely. Those girls are ususaly alone for good reasons. And just cuase some chump saw her first doesn't mean he 'deserves her' more than me or 'earned' the right to her. Just means he was there when she needed a guy to help pass the time.
Shift: Maybe calling you an AFC was a little rough, but I just think that your whole argument against the GF stealing post could be summed up in this quote:
'Its not fair! It's a trick! You guys aren't NICE!' yeah. guilty as charged bro.
I challenge you to come out here and write a post with well developed paragraphs and examples from your experience that demonstrate why blue is wrong for stealing girlfriends, and I'm wrong for supporting his ideas. Also maybe why it is that you think a girl will fall for Blue's trick if she is already with a rich, handsome, successful non-break dancing heart-throb.
I stil say that either blue has to be a better man in some way that is important to the girl, or he has to somehow CONVINCE her that he is. No, I dont think blue could steal ANY girlfriend with his method. I do think he can get quite a few, and I think that if he delivers once he is in the relationship that its going to take a player and a half to get her away from him.
Its easy to call people 'full of sh1t' or whatever else. its easy to get all uppity and offended when someone says something you don't like too. Try stating your point of view and backing it up for a change instead of attacking other peoples ideas in a meaningless way. If you have a sound reasoning behind your argument I'd love to read it.
Also the whole thing about not pursuing a girl just becuase she has a boyfriend is something that I used to beleive and had to give up on out of sheer necessity. In my town I swear to you that nearly every 6+ girl you talk to has one or more boyfriend. So are you suggesting that I sit around and mastrubate every night or that I go out there and talk to several hunderd women every week just to get 2 or 3 lousy numbers? No way. A boyfriend is just some guy she is dating. Big whoop. Odds are very good that he isn't going to turn out to be the right one and she knows it.
When I ask for a number and the girl says, 'I have a boyfriend.' I still close once more. I either go for humor by saying 'Oh? So you two are living together?' If she says no then I put on my biggest smile and hand her the pen without saying a word. If she thinks I'm not better than what she has she wont give the number. If she thinks I might be, she will give it.
Another way is just to ask her about him (girls love to talk about this stuff). If all her talk is positive, then she likes him more than you. If its mixed or mostly negative, she is seeing you as a possibility. She might talk about her boyfriend in glowing terms to another guy that she doesn't like. Ask her for the number again in a minute or two.
Sorry, but I'm not confining myself to only women who are sitting around lonely. Those girls are ususaly alone for good reasons. And just cuase some chump saw her first doesn't mean he 'deserves her' more than me or 'earned' the right to her. Just means he was there when she needed a guy to help pass the time.
