How to respond after GF sent me this text message?

[Glassguy]

I agree with @El Payaso

Keep it short and sweet, yet let the response be the kind of knife that runs deep into her and leaves her mind spinning.

"I am glad you brought this up because I feel the same way. There is a different direction that I feel as if I need to go relationship wise right now too. Take care!"

Then DO NOT respond to jack sh!t that she sends you. There is definitely another rooster in the hen house. When you trade me in baby you're stuck with the new model even though its not the glitter and gold you first thought it was!

 

[TheGambino]

Report back!

 

[Toddz]

what? dating around so you can see if you stay with her or not? any break up is permanent, ther eis not temporary break up or getting back with exes

best responses was on the very first page, you agree with her end it and move on, best if you can **** her best friend or any of her friends just for fun

Yes there is for sex and dating. I've dated quite a few women that have come and gone, and have come back again after realizing their mistake. Am I ever going to be in an exclusive relationship with a woman that has walked and come back? No, but I will date and see her again. Usually you can keep these girls as long term fwb's if you are chill enough and keep things cool. If you are dating a girl that ends things for whatever reason and act all butt hurt or come off as such then she'll prob never hit you up again.

 

[jthomp]

Report back!

Haven’t heard from her all week. Going nc.

 

[TheGambino]

Haven’t heard from her all week. Going nc.

You godamn will stay in NC nomatter what

 

[icantgetlaid]

This is fine to say but I always think it's better to say nothing. THAT really gets the hamster wheel spinning. But only if there's still interest.

Fixed.

 

[El Payaso]

Haven’t heard from her all week. Going nc.

Option #2 is giving her nice long strokes.

 

[jthomp]

Option #2 is giving her nice long strokes.

I don’t really want her back as a gf. I just want to bang her again? What’s my best shot at that?

 

[Andrewdiceclay]

"Ok, take care of yourself".

Don't show you're hurt. She'll think what the ****? Why isn't he so upset? Why didn't he care? All the women I've done this too still check in with me via text, stalk my IG stories, likes my posts and tries to add me on Facebook. Don't respond to any of these outreachs. She's just another wine glass on a train.

 

[derby1]

OP if you initiate any kind of communication with this woman, she will think your weak!! like the other 100 peasents she has at her disposal..

She will initiate with you at some point! It is just to check you are still the cotton in her sewing machine

at the most, reply with one direction replies! In your direction politely
you dont give a fck how she is but your polite

ie
Her :Hey you ok
you: Yeah im good thanks
Her: I Miss you!!
You: WHY............

NOT "I MISS YOU TO BABE" jibber jibber

1 of 2 things will happen shell FCK off which is good for you proves she was just attention whoring, or shell act like an adult and initiate meeting up herself through the phone ie talking voice to voice

you NEVER ask her

 

[Von]

I don’t really want her back as a gf. I just want to bang her again? What’s my best shot at that?

At That? Start banging another chick.

You'll get news from her within 3 days of the Lay... than you invite her to your place for a wine and movie lay night.

Banging other chicks is the best way to get her back... it's soo good... you'll wonder why she's even back

 

[jthomp]

At That? Start banging another chick.

You'll get news from her within 3 days of the Lay... than you invite her to your place for a wine and movie lay night.

Banging other chicks is the best way to get her back... it's soo good... you'll wonder why she's even back

How will banging other girls get her back?

 

[jthomp]

OP if you initiate any kind of communication with this woman, she will think your weak!! like the other 100 peasents she has at her disposal..

She will initiate with you at some point! It is just to check you are still the cotton in her sewing machine

at the most, reply with one direction replies! In your direction politely
you dont give a fck how she is but your polite

ie
Her :Hey you ok
you: Yeah im good thanks
Her: I Miss you!!
You: WHY............

NOT "I MISS YOU TO BABE" jibber jibber

1 of 2 things will happen shell FCK off which is good for you proves she was just attention whoring, or shell act like an adult and initiate meeting up herself through the phone ie talking voice to voice

you NEVER ask her

Haven’t heard from her in 10 days.

 

[Von]

How will banging other girls get her back?

You wrote you didnt want her back. (post above)

You wrote you want sex out of her

Best way is have another girl in the picture, on your D

Girls are feel that on subconcious level. When I broke up with my ex in 2015, all the girl i laid, dated, LTR.. came back withing 3 days (and nobody knew, since it was private)

Why would you want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you?

 

[jthomp]

You wrote you didnt want her back. (post above)

You wrote you want sex out of her

Best way is have another girl in the picture, on your D

Girls are feel that on subconcious level. When I broke up with my ex in 2015, all the girl i laid, dated, LTR.. came back withing 3 days (and nobody knew, since it was private)

Why would you want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you?

I just want sex from her. I don’t want to be in a relationship with her.

 

[jthomp]

I agree with @El Payaso

Keep it short and sweet, yet let the response be the kind of knife that runs deep into her and leaves her mind spinning.

"I am glad you brought this up because I feel the same way. There is a different direction that I feel as if I need to go relationship wise right now too. Take care!"

Then DO NOT respond to jack sh!t that she sends you. There is definitely another rooster in the hen house. When you trade me in baby you're stuck with the new model even though its not the glitter and gold you first thought it was!

When should I ask to get my stuff ba

Good advice. Agreed. The "permanent break" might be easy for @El Payaso to recommend, but he doesn't have a year invested in the relationship. I think it's too "knee-jerk" and almost comes across as you be butthurt which you don't want. I would just say something like, "Hi. Yeah, things have been a bit awkward and cumbersome lately so a break would be good for both of us. Take care." And leave it at that and go NC until she reaches out. NO CHECKING IN.

Good luck.

when should I ask to get my stuff back? Haven’t seen her three weeks. I doubt she’s gonna reach back out.

 

[antr]

When should I ask to get my stuff ba

when should I ask to get my stuff back? Haven’t seen her three weeks. I doubt she’s gonna reach back out.

Never

 

[jthomp]

Never

Well, I want it. It’s valuable.

 

[QuadDeuces]

I would send something like
“As you wish darling”
“Perfect”
“No problem”

Or nothing at all.

 

[derby1]

OP 10 days is nothing she has 100 men vying for her *****......you should have 200 women vying for your Macho Dck,

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