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Don Juan
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New data on the subject. Consider this a mini field report:
Spring is here (sort of). Saturday + a very nice weather. I go outside with a wingman. First time meeting this guy from another forum. Cool dude. We walk around, talk game, etc... At one point I saw a woman that I find attractive. And she was wearing a lot of red. And she looked my way a couple of times (I was on a bench with this guy, while she was 20m away, entering and leaving a shop for healthy foods). Let's say she is an 8-8.5, around 35 years old.
Anyway, after some 15 min. of waiting her to pop out of 1 shop, then another, I approached her down the street. First set of the day and also first one in 2 weeks. I state my intent, tell her that she looks different from everybody around, and let her feel the good vibe + confident masculine energy. We talk some basic stuff, I tease her, she giggles, etc... She asked questions back, which is always a good sign. Then we proceed to walk for 10-15 minutes under the premise that I'm waiting for a friend to call me. Interaction was good, we had shared interests, and even built some connection (which is not so usual for a 5 min. since meeting someone).
But dammit, at one point as I was talking, I slipped something concerning my age. And this f*ckd everything up. I quickly realized that I screwed myself by bringing this topic. Then she started inquiring about my age. I didn't tell her. She didn't want to guess. Then for the next 5 minutes or so, as we are walking (I am leading the whole way btw, and she follows obediently) the whole conversation was around me not wanting to tell my age, and she wanting me to tell my age. Lol, what a childish bs that is, really, looking at it from the side.
Somewhere around that point she asked me if I live nearby. Maybe she thought I am leading her to my place. And felt unsafe by my unwillingness to share my age. I told her the truth - I don't live exactly here, but I live on a walking distance from here. Then turned back to her with a challenging/teasing question about her living in the dodgy hoods of the city or something.. She didn't know the name of this park, even if it was a very central place. Strange. She said that she doesn't go out much.
So, at this point we were searching for water. Found a shop and I went there. She waited for me outside. I wondered if she is going to leave but she didn't. Then I came back, and the topic still was stuck on my age. I tried to change it a couple of times, but she was so fixated on that. Maybe I should have just told her my age, and not worry if she is gonna reject me because of that. Instead of going through all of this bs.
Then I got a call from the friend that I was about to see shortly (I have parted ways with my wingman since I got on this set. he didn't mind, we discussed the possible scenario earlier). And soon we were heading in different directions with this woman. I told her I'm gonna get her contacts, so we can continue there. Not a strong close, but It's normal for a first set, which is that dizzy. I even mentioned I can tell her my age over text (that's really silly, I know). Regardless, she was staying in front of me with crossed legs, somewhat intrigued by my dominant demeanor. She said one thing, and got an attitude, but her whole body language was saying another.
Even if a bit earlier she got visibly frustrated that I don't tell her my age and she spilled out how: 1) she has a boyfriend, 2) bla-bla...., 3) she was talking to me because I seemed like a positive person (maybe she lacked attraction or was sh1t testing or whatever). I didn't react, just laughed it off afterwards and teased her for how fast she boils up. But I felt played that she is telling me about her "boyfriend" 15 min. into the set, when I stated my intent at least a couple of times, and my whole existence sends signals to her of "you know very well why I am talking to you"...
Clearly I dodged a bullet with this one but I still need to find a solution for the age "problem". Maybe I should have just owned it, and told her "I'm X years old. hope you are not too old for me. if yes, you should at least cook well" haha.
So I didn't get her number and I told her bye. Then I didn't want to approach another set because my energy was drained from this interaction.
Spring is here (sort of). Saturday + a very nice weather. I go outside with a wingman. First time meeting this guy from another forum. Cool dude. We walk around, talk game, etc... At one point I saw a woman that I find attractive. And she was wearing a lot of red. And she looked my way a couple of times (I was on a bench with this guy, while she was 20m away, entering and leaving a shop for healthy foods). Let's say she is an 8-8.5, around 35 years old.
Anyway, after some 15 min. of waiting her to pop out of 1 shop, then another, I approached her down the street. First set of the day and also first one in 2 weeks. I state my intent, tell her that she looks different from everybody around, and let her feel the good vibe + confident masculine energy. We talk some basic stuff, I tease her, she giggles, etc... She asked questions back, which is always a good sign. Then we proceed to walk for 10-15 minutes under the premise that I'm waiting for a friend to call me. Interaction was good, we had shared interests, and even built some connection (which is not so usual for a 5 min. since meeting someone).
But dammit, at one point as I was talking, I slipped something concerning my age. And this f*ckd everything up. I quickly realized that I screwed myself by bringing this topic. Then she started inquiring about my age. I didn't tell her. She didn't want to guess. Then for the next 5 minutes or so, as we are walking (I am leading the whole way btw, and she follows obediently) the whole conversation was around me not wanting to tell my age, and she wanting me to tell my age. Lol, what a childish bs that is, really, looking at it from the side.
Somewhere around that point she asked me if I live nearby. Maybe she thought I am leading her to my place. And felt unsafe by my unwillingness to share my age. I told her the truth - I don't live exactly here, but I live on a walking distance from here. Then turned back to her with a challenging/teasing question about her living in the dodgy hoods of the city or something.. She didn't know the name of this park, even if it was a very central place. Strange. She said that she doesn't go out much.
So, at this point we were searching for water. Found a shop and I went there. She waited for me outside. I wondered if she is going to leave but she didn't. Then I came back, and the topic still was stuck on my age. I tried to change it a couple of times, but she was so fixated on that. Maybe I should have just told her my age, and not worry if she is gonna reject me because of that. Instead of going through all of this bs.
Then I got a call from the friend that I was about to see shortly (I have parted ways with my wingman since I got on this set. he didn't mind, we discussed the possible scenario earlier). And soon we were heading in different directions with this woman. I told her I'm gonna get her contacts, so we can continue there. Not a strong close, but It's normal for a first set, which is that dizzy. I even mentioned I can tell her my age over text (that's really silly, I know). Regardless, she was staying in front of me with crossed legs, somewhat intrigued by my dominant demeanor. She said one thing, and got an attitude, but her whole body language was saying another.
Even if a bit earlier she got visibly frustrated that I don't tell her my age and she spilled out how: 1) she has a boyfriend, 2) bla-bla...., 3) she was talking to me because I seemed like a positive person (maybe she lacked attraction or was sh1t testing or whatever). I didn't react, just laughed it off afterwards and teased her for how fast she boils up. But I felt played that she is telling me about her "boyfriend" 15 min. into the set, when I stated my intent at least a couple of times, and my whole existence sends signals to her of "you know very well why I am talking to you"...
Clearly I dodged a bullet with this one but I still need to find a solution for the age "problem". Maybe I should have just owned it, and told her "I'm X years old. hope you are not too old for me. if yes, you should at least cook well" haha.
So I didn't get her number and I told her bye. Then I didn't want to approach another set because my energy was drained from this interaction.
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