Social_Leper said:
LOL. bb you need to tell me where all these poor, lonely cute but single women are because I sure as hell can't find any.
i'll give you a perfect example
the NA meeting that i go to on a regular basis there are about 90-100 people in the group all together that are there on a regular basis.
there are off the top of my head, 7 girls in the group that are what i would deem ****able.
4 of the girls are married. one of the girls that are married is married to a guy in the group, guy is like 50 years old, he got smart and plucked one of the cute girls out of the batch instead of aiming too high.
1 of the girls is a legit 9.5. damn near flawless. 24 years old.
so that leaves 2 girls. one i would rate a 6.5 and one i would rate a 7.
the 9.5 gets ALL the attention. like if everyone is outside talking after a meeting no one gives a **** what the 7 has to say. everyone wants to talk to the 9.5. in particular beucse she's single. she sucks all the attention away from the other 2 ****able girls. and **** to make matters worse the 7 really has her **** together. she's about to graduate college, she's smart, she has a nice rack and everything. she's very nice whereas the 9.5 is a bit of a **** because she knows she's a 9.5. no one cares.
that's how it works in the real world.
in fact i would take it a step further and i was actually going to start a new thread about this but i will just post it here, but you can pretty much sum up the AFC's problem as one, in that he thinks he deserves better than what he can get. That was y problem when i came here, i wanted a 9 when i could get a 7. you have guys who pine after a 7.5 but can really only pull a 4 or a 5.
for all the talk about being a DJ you really only have 2 options... alter your expections or become a better catch. I became a better catch. The old dude tha tmarried the cute girl in group altered his expections and i mean hey she isn't my type but she's not ugly.
The AFC who can't get a girl usually is ignoraing the girls he can get beucase he doesn't want them