how to handle hot guys

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
But it is a good idea to make eyecontact, the strange thing is that a lot of guys (even hot ones) don't show interest until I initate eyecontact with them, then they are suddenly interested.

When do you think the best time is to sleep with a guy? This is so difficult for a girl to work out. A lot of guys will abandon you if you sleep straight away, alot abandon you if you haven't slept with them by the second date.

Yeah its good to make eye contact. If a guy has ANY common sense he will not approach a woman unless he gets at least A LITTLE eye contact.

As far as sleeping with a guy, if he leaves without sex on the second date, all he wanted was sex. If that is all you want, give it to him. If you want a guy who will stay around, wait about a month. At least then he will show you some respect, and if he is genuinely interested he will wait, one month is not that long to wait for a girl you like.

"one month is not that long to wait for a girl you like" I said that, now I await my flaming from all the guys who have NO IDEA about woman.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
"one month is not that long to wait for a girl you like" I said that, now I await my flaming from all the guys who have NO IDEA about woman.

I will be the first one! I have no idea about women. For me, they are mysterical creatures whom I will never understand.

Now that we got that out of the way, let me bring out my flamethrower.

I judge girls objectively. I look at their physical appearance, basic character traits and behavioral habits. I decide if I respect her or just want to fukk her. After observing her for an hour or from talking to her for about 30 mins this opinion is largerly formed and it's really hard to change it.

If I find a hot girl I don't respect, I decide to make her my fukk buddy. The longest time it took for me to get into the pants of a girl like this was 6 months. I systematically tried to seduce her and in the end she wanted me to be her bf. But she still was a piece of ass to me, even though she played games for half a year.

On the other hand, there was a girl in my class who I didn't talk to, but from what I've seen of her, she was a cool person. She had my respect even BEFORE I talked to her. I accidentally run into her at my friends party and got to know her. She spent the night at my place only 3 days later. She still had my respect and I even went monogamic for a few months - too bad she had to move to another city.

So, for many guys it doesn't fukkin matter when the girl sleeps with him.

We divide girls into unfukkables/uglies, hot stupid hoes and girlfriend material.

If he puts you into the hot stupid hoe category, moving yourself to "girlfriend" category takes much more than holding off sex for a month.

My 2 cents

 

[MysteryWoman]

Thanks for the advice Clooney.

As for Ice, I guess it is the guys opinion. Holding out for a month doesn't work with all guys.

Yes I could hold out a month if I was looking for relationship material, but don't think I could handle six months. And only a month if I am just seeing the guy at weekends.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

No, the same rules do not apply. Male does not = female. Men do the picking and women choose.

Just because a woman withholds sex it isn't going to make me want to be in a relationship with her. If a woman pursued me the only reason I would reject her is if I was never attracted to her to begin with.

Unlike women we men know exactly what we want. All we want is a hot chick with a friendly personality. After all, women are the ones who turned dating into a "Game with Rules".

If your trying to get a guy into a relationship then your best strategy is to follow the "good girl" routine. Don't tell us about your ex boyfriends or any of your past sexaul partners unless you want to get written off as a tramp.

Guys generally see women they date in 2 categories:

1) Relationship Material
2) One NIght Stand Material

A woman can start out in category 1 but as she says all the wrong things she will be placed in category 2. Once your in category 2 it's impossible to get out of at least for girls that I interact with. You'll always be a one night stand no matter how hard you try to prove otherwise. If you sleep with a guy and he doesn't call you back it's because you were in category 2. Some women will start out in category 2 and will be ditched as soon as the guy gets sex.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
No, the same rules do not apply. Male does not = female. Men do the picking and women choose.

Just because a woman withholds sex it isn't going to make me want to be in a relationship with her. If a woman pursued me the only reason I would reject her is if I was never attracted to her to begin with.

Unlike women we men know exactly what we want. All we want is a hot chick with a friendly personality. After all, women are the ones who turned dating into a "Game with Rules".

If your trying to get a guy into a relationship then your best strategy is to follow the "good girl" routine. Don't tell us about your ex boyfriends or any of your past sexaul partners unless you want to get written off as a tramp.

Guys generally see women they date in 2 categories:

1) Relationship Material
2) One NIght Stand Material

A woman can start out in category 1 but as she says all the wrong things she will be placed in category 2. Once your in category 2 it's impossible to get out of at least for girls that I interact with. You'll always be a one night stand no matter how hard you try to prove otherwise. If you sleep with a guy and he doesn't call you back it's because you were in category 2. Some women will start out in category 2 and will be ditched as soon as the guy gets sex.

 

[CLOONEY]

Ok, I think this was a misunderstanding. This is what I said earlier, that the guy will know straight away if he wants you as girlfriend material. Then it is just upto the chemistry. If there is no chemistry, he will just put you into category 2, so to speak.

I know that with girls I have dated, if they give it up before a few weeks I dont really respect them or want them around for very long. I usually just have sex for a couple of weeks and then get rid of them. This is also what I find with friends of mine who get a lot of girls.

If the guy takes you home and wants to bang you straight away, and you dont, then he looses interest, he ONLY wanted to bang you. If he takes you home and is cool just hanging out for a few weeks before he bangs you, he is interested in you as more than just a fukc.

 

[Jeremymichael]

I hate to say this or shock you mystery women, but english women are very ugly too, and its not just with the looks.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by Jeremymichael
I hate to say this or shock you mystery women, but english women are very ugly too, and its not just with the looks.

It takes more than that to shock me

 

[Reno95]

I will be the first one! I have no idea about women. For me, they are mysterical creatures whom I will never understand.

Now that we got that out of the way, let me bring out my flamethrower.

I judge girls objectively. I look at their physical appearance, basic character traits and behavioral habits. I decide if I respect her or just want to fukk her. After observing her for an hour or from talking to her for about 30 mins this opinion is largerly formed and it's really hard to change it.

If I find a hot girl I don't respect, I decide to make her my fukk buddy. The longest time it took for me to get into the pants of a girl like this was 6 months. I systematically tried to seduce her and in the end she wanted me to be her bf. But she still was a piece of ass to me, even though she played games for half a year.

On the other hand, there was a girl in my class who I didn't talk to, but from what I've seen of her, she was a cool person. She had my respect even BEFORE I talked to her. I accidentally run into her at my friends party and got to know her. She spent the night at my place only 3 days later. She still had my respect and I even went monogamic for a few months - too bad she had to move to another city.

So, for many guys it doesn't fukkin matter when the girl sleeps with him.

We divide girls into unfukkables/uglies, hot stupid hoes and girlfriend material.

If he puts you into the hot stupid hoe category, moving yourself to "girlfriend" category takes much more than holding off sex for a month.

My 2 cents

Well well so u dont respect a women and just want to **** her because it means u are NOT A MAN u are worse than gays u are just a ***** and i dont respect low filthy bitches like u neither i bet u wouldnt mind if i didnt respect your sister or mother and just make her my fukk buddy and after i finish my lust on her i throw her like a piece of trash because that what u do with other women so u are okay with men doing it with your women , right ?

And we all from both genders put guys in 2 categories :

1- a real MAN who treats a woman with respect no matter how she looks and not just want to insert our d*** on her .

2- a man look alike gays who is sadly not a MAN who thinks some women are object and toy and all he need is to bed her without respecting them , these will never have our respect and we will never see them as MEN no matter how much they try to appear as the 1 category .they will just be a filthy piece of **** whick is thrown after its finished its goal

 

[Reno95]

Ok, I think this was a misunderstanding. This is what I said earlier, that the guy will know straight away if he wants you as girlfriend material. Then it is just upto the chemistry. If there is no chemistry, he will just put you into category 2, so to speak.

I know that with girls I have dated, if they give it up before a few weeks I dont really respect them or want them around for very long. I usually just have sex for a couple of weeks and then get rid of them. This is also what I find with friends of mine who get a lot of girls.

If the guy takes you home and wants to bang you straight away, and you dont, then he looses interest, he ONLY wanted to bang you. If he takes you home and is cool just hanging out for a few weeks before he bangs you, he is interested in you as more than just a fukc.

Well well so u dont respect a women and just want to fukk her because it means u are NOT A MAN u are worse than gays u are just a hoe and i dont respect low filthy *****es like u neither i bet u wouldnt mind if i didnt respect your sister or mother and just make her my fukk buddy and after i finish my lust on her i throw her like a piece of trash because that what u do with other women so u are okay with men doing it with your women , right ?

And we all from both genders put guys in 2 categories :

1- a real MAN who treats a woman with respect no matter how she looks and not just want to insert yout d*** on her .

2- a man look alike gays and hoes who is sadly not a MAN who thinks some women are object and toy and all he need is to bed her without respecting them , these will never have our respect and we will never see them as MEN no matter how much they try to appear as the 1 category .they will just be a filthy piece of **** whick is thrown after its finished its goal

 

[Reno95]

No, the same rules do not apply. Male does not = female. Men do the picking and women choose.

Just because a woman withholds sex it isn't going to make me want to be in a relationship with her. If a woman pursued me the only reason I would reject her is if I was never attracted to her to begin with.

Unlike women we men know exactly what we want. All we want is a hot chick with a friendly personality. After all, women are the ones who turned dating into a "Game with Rules".

If your trying to get a guy into a relationship then your best strategy is to follow the "good girl" routine. Don't tell us about your ex boyfriends or any of your past sexaul partners unless you want to get written off as a tramp.

Guys generally see women they date in 2 categories:

1) Relationship Material
2) One NIght Stand Material

A woman can start out in category 1 but as she says all the wrong things she will be placed in category 2. Once your in category 2 it's impossible to get out of at least for girls that I interact with. You'll always be a one night stand no matter how hard you try to prove otherwise. If you sleep with a guy and he doesn't call you back it's because you were in category 2. Some women will start out in category 2 and will be ditched as soon as the guy gets sex.

Well well so u dont respect a women and just want to **** her because it means u are NOT A MAN u are worse than gays u are just a ***** and i dont respect low filthy *****es like u neither i bet u wouldnt mind if i didnt respect your sister or mother and just make her my fukk buddy and after i finish my lust on her i throw her like a piece of trash because that what u do with other women so u are okay with men doing it with your women , right ?

And we all from both genders put guys in 2 categories :

1- a real MAN who treats a woman with respect no matter how she looks and not just want to insert our d*** on her .

2- a man look alike gays who is sadly not a MAN who thinks some women are object and toy and all he need is to bed her without respecting them , these will never have our respect and we will never see them as MEN no matter how much they try to appear as the 1 category .they will just be a filthy piece of **** whick is thrown after its finished its goal

 

[Reno95]

Yes... I am perfectly aware of how attractive I am and that I can just about get anyone I want but if they don't show interest as in giving some very open EC I won't engage. There are several reasons for this but most is that I don't care using energy getting chicks when I can mostly just pluck the agressive ones.


There honestly isn't any RIGHT one here.... Like some girls I'll see several times just cause they are somewhat a challenge to get into bed but after bedding I'll be like zzz that was boring, NEEEEXT. Sometimes after a onenightstand I'll like the sex so much or be so turned on by her agressiveness and sexual prowess I'll really like her more and see her more often.

Well well so u dont respect a women and just want to **** her because it means u are NOT A MAN u are worse than gays u are just a ***** and i dont respect low filthy *****es like u neither i bet u wouldnt mind if i didnt respect your sister or mother and just make her my fukk buddy and after i finish my lust on her i throw her like a piece of trash because that what u do with other women so u are okay with men doing it with your women , right ?

And we all from both genders put guys in 2 categories :

1- a real MAN who treats a woman with respect no matter how she looks and not just want to insert our d*** on her .

2- a man look alike gays who is sadly not a MAN who thinks some women are object and toy and all he need is to bed her without respecting them , these will never have our respect and we will never see them as MEN no matter how much they try to appear as the 1 category .they will just be a filthy piece of **** whick is thrown after its finished its goal

 

[Bingo-Player]

ive read a couple of comments in this thread but im assuming most are comming from guys who rarely interact with or date women

anyway the OP doesnt provide much information but il work with what ive got

first of all the fact your having to ask us how to attract a man imply's to me that you are not perhaps as aesthetically pleasing as you have been led to believe

i dont want to sound nasty but i dont think ive met a woman on this planet that doesn't know how to wrap some form of man around her little finger

ok you say this one is supposedly good looking , so therefore he potentially has options with other women but this is where you have to take a chance with him and offer sex up quickly because i can promise you now a good looking man will be able to get it making him "wait" wont work .......once sex is done with then try and relate with him get him to relax around you

men are simple we basically just want an easy life as long as our stomachs are fed and our are d1cks watered we are pretty easily pleased your main problem is keeping other women from interesting us

good luck

 

[Julian]

make yourself hotter

toss his salad

swallow

anal


theres your weekend night

 

[zinc4]

Hard to get would just make me too lazy to pursue.

It's simple, be hot, give me alcohol and be easy to talk to. Mystery solved.

You can play as hard to get as u want but if u ain't got don't freaking matter.

 

[Reykhel]

This post is twelve years old and some out of control troll has
resurrected it!!!!!! Yannick is that you you fat fvcker??!!!!

 

[Who Dares Win]

A thread from 2002 rly? was there people already needing advices despite no facebook, smartphones and so on complicating life?

 

[Von]

Imagine where people who commented are now... 12 years - 14 years later.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I have noticed several new troll accounts in the last week or so. Someone must be especially bored or have an agenda to stir up on SS.

 

[Aryan Prince]

guys, do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive? do you have to play hard to get to keep their attention? also, when dating these atrractive types, if they only request weeknight dates, what's the best way to handle them when you know they are leaving their options open for the weekend?

Be flirty, smell nice, look nice, be playfull.... Simple really... Oh yer enjoy urself!!!