how to handle hot guys

[tracy1122]

guys, do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive? do you have to play hard to get to keep their attention? also, when dating these atrractive types, if they only request weeknight dates, what's the best way to handle them when you know they are leaving their options open for the weekend?

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by tracy1122
guys, do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive? do you have to play hard to get to keep their attention? also, when dating these atrractive types, if they only request weeknight dates, what's the best way to handle them when you know they are leaving their options open for the weekend?

NO more women here ASAP.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by tracy1122
guys, do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive? do you have to play hard to get to keep their attention? also, when dating these atrractive types, if they only request weeknight dates, what's the best way to handle them when you know they are leaving their options open for the weekend?

Depends on how hot you are honestly... Hot girls can get away with more shait... But yes a challenge is important. But be very carefull... I know with guys like myself a girl can try to be a challenge but the second I nail her she's uninteresting so make sure you don't get used.

 

[uniassign]

do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive?

You seriously have no idea? Is this some sort of joke?

Further, why the f*&k are you asking questions about how to attract GUYS? Chicks have an in-built system of how to deal with guys. This is something you should ask your GIRL friends, whom I am confident would give you loads of tactics. Most of the guys here have trouble dealing with attracting girls, and are not advanced enough to "reverse engineer" tactics to help you.

My advice if you don't have access to female friends, start hanging around hot girls (in clubs and meat markets) and observe how they deal with guys.

Don't get me wrong, I don't have any qualms/right to say whether you belong here or not. I am sure you are quite aware that this is a MALE SEDUCTION board, and not the other way around. It would be grateful if you start using this board for the purpose it is intended.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by tracy1122
guys, do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive? do you have to play hard to get to keep their attention? also, when dating these atrractive types, if they only request weeknight dates, what's the best way to handle them when you know they are leaving their options open for the weekend?

Same rules don't apply to girls
Playing hard to get will only confuse the average guy and he'll become shy and reserved.
Go for the weeknight dates. See what he's like, seduce him and you'll be his weekend date by the end of the week

Q for you:

How attractive are you physically?
What do you want from guys in general?

trying to help. Cheers

 

[Engetsu]

Originally posted by uniassign
I am sure you are quite aware that this is a MALE SEDUCTION board, and not the other way around.

I've been looking in the wrong places then

I think I made-up a new term, you male-seduction-board goer

 

[tracy1122]

ice cold- im told im pretty attractive, i dont like to rate myself but i would say im pretty comparable to him. What do I want from guys in general? Hmm, what anyone wants from a guy or girl I guess, good company, good sex, ....?

 

[squirrels]

Don Juan Discussion

Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice.

Please posts questions dealing with meeting, dating, or attracting MEN in the appropriate forum. May I suggest "Anything Else"?

 

[Ice Cold]

squirrels & others: STFU

She's asking a legit question. She's not spamming or b1thing about feminism and/or mysogyny.

ice cold- im told im pretty attractive, i dont like to rate myself but i would say im pretty comparable to him. What do I want from guys in general? Hmm, what anyone wants from a guy or girl I guess, good company, good sex, ....?

OK, that's cool. But when you say: "comparable to him", seems like you have an extremely attractive target already.

Is my guess correct?

Well, anyways. If you're pretty and he's avaliable, then talk to him and kino the guy. It's give him the idea and he'll kino you back after a day or two...

BTW: No matter how hot the guy looks, he still may be an AFC. After a month of you touching him and flirting, he may get on a board like this and ask: This hot girl I know is touching and looking at me, WHAT DO I DO?

So don't afraid to be a hoe in the classical sense of the word. Ask him out, kiss him and get him into bed. After all, it's you who wants him, not the other way around, so you have to do all the action or be out of control.

That's where guys have it easier. We can actively hit on the ones we like, not matter how often. Girls on the other hand can't do it and have to play games to get the guy chasing her.

BTW: I was assuming you just wanna have some fun under the sheets, not marry him.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by tracy1122
guys, do the same rules apply to women when handling guys that are extremely attractive? do you have to play hard to get to keep their attention? also, when dating these atrractive types, if they only request weeknight dates, what's the best way to handle them when you know they are leaving their options open for the weekend?

I know women who don't have model looks, yet continually get to date guys with model looks. So assuming you are not fat or ugly, you stand a good chance

1 Be patient and don't settle less. You may go through longer periods of time when you are single, because beautiful men are in the minority. But they always come when you are least expecting it.

2. Dress well, but not too trashy (unless you are looking for a one night stand).

3. Make eyecontact with good looking guys, you will be suprised at your results. Until recently, I didn't have the confidence to do it, and I am now getting more attention. Don't worry if they don't respond, the more you do it the more you will find ones who do.

4. This might sound ruthless, but you can drop standards and go for a less good looking guy. When guys see that you are unavailable, the moment your date goes to the bathroom, they will come and start hitting on you (the good looking ones are terribly guilty of doing this). In the past when ever I was single no hot guys would come near me, yet the moment they see me with a date, they are all suddenly hitting on me.

5. Go up and talk to the hot guy. Make sure you can really mentally stimulate him, be different from girly girls who only ever talk about shopping and what their female friends get up to. If he finds you really interesting, he may ask you out.

6. Don't be in awe of his good looks, and if he is arrogant don't stay with him. If he really likes you he will stop being arrogant.

7. Be prepared for other girls to start hitting on your good looking partner (believe me it is worse for guys who date good looking women), this will happen from time to time. The girls often are out to do it to make you feel jealous, they usually just want the guy because his unavailable, and would soon lose interest in him once they have got him. Best way to deal with this is not show jealously and just ignore them, they usually soon back off after this.

8. By being confident and flirting with the good looking guy, a lot of them will start to like you because you are sexually confident.

9. Even if you are not his type (provided you are not really fat or ugly) and you are just after sex. Go up to him and ask him, you will be suprised at the response.

10. Make sure he is always pursuing you, otherwise he can soon easily lose interest. The harder he has to work to get you and keep your attention, the greater passion he will feel for you.

Go for it, you nothing to lose, only something to gain

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
squirrels & others: STFU

She's asking a legit question. She's not spamming or b1thing about feminism and/or mysogyny.

At no time did I say the question wasn't legit or that it didn't warrant an answer. I only said that it is in the wrong forum.

 

[tx_xp]

The biggest difference is that the hot guy has more to chose from and can be a little pickier. Even if he doesn't appear to be highly interested in you he may be. You can probably tell a lot by eye contact if he is interested. Personally I wouldn't go for the hard to get routine, your interested or your not no games needed.

 

[Lost]

Re: Re: how to handle hot guys

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Same rules don't apply to girls
Playing hard to get will only confuse the average guy and he'll become shy and reserved.
Go for the weeknight dates. See what he's like, seduce him and you'll be his weekend date by the end of the week

Q for you:

How attractive are you physically?
What do you want from guys in general?

trying to help. Cheers

I agree. As an attractive guy, i hate that ****. If you pulled that id figure u werent interested and id move on.

 

[CLOONEY]

hahaahaha, man this is funny to hear girls like Mystery Woman talking like that!! hahaahahahaahaha. I have to say, most guys will know if they want to date you from the moment they see you, if you meet thier physical requirements and the chemistry is there, thats all you need. One thing you SHOULD NOT DO, is sleep with the guy quickly, thinking you will satisfy him, he will most likely bail straight after the sex.

Oh and Mystery Woman, dont you find that in London, most of the guys are DAMN UGLY? When I was in London, I was shocked, I have never seen so many ugly people in my life, and I have travelled most of the world. No offence, I am sure there are some good looking people there also.............!

 

[FreeStyleZ]

Always is confusing to me as how women have trouble getting guys when I know damn well if you're a hot girl... its really easy to get a guy since most are AFC's. Just flirt with him and if he's not shy and reserved he'll get the hint. If he's shy then you'll have to put a little bit more work into it.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
One thing you SHOULD NOT DO, is sleep with the guy quickly, thinking you will satisfy him, he will most likely bail straight after the sex.

Clooney - I didn't expect that from you

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by tracy1122
How to handle hot guys?

Use oven mittens!!!

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
hahaahaha, man this is funny to hear girls like Mystery Woman talking like that!! hahaahahahaahaha. I have to say, most guys will know if they want to date you from the moment they see you, if you meet thier physical requirements and the chemistry is there, thats all you need. One thing you SHOULD NOT DO, is sleep with the guy quickly, thinking you will satisfy him, he will most likely bail straight after the sex.

Oh and Mystery Woman, dont you find that in London, most of the guys are DAMN UGLY? When I was in London, I was shocked, I have never seen so many ugly people in my life, and I have travelled most of the world. No offence, I am sure there are some good looking people there also.............!

I have to agree Clooney. Most English men are as ugly as fcuk!

I've been lucky to date some guys who are a lot better looking them, but they are in the minority, and that is why I am single most of the time-because I am so selective.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
hahaahaha, man this is funny to hear girls like Mystery Woman talking like that!! hahaahahahaahaha. I have to say, most guys will know if they want to date you from the moment they see you, if you meet thier physical requirements and the chemistry is there, thats all you need. One thing you SHOULD NOT DO, is sleep

But it is a good idea to make eyecontact, the strange thing is that a lot of guys (even hot ones) don't show interest until I initate eyecontact with them, then they are suddenly interested.

When do you think the best time is to sleep with a guy? This is so difficult for a girl to work out. A lot of guys will abandon you if you sleep straight away, alot abandon you if you haven't slept with them by the second date.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
But it is a good idea to make eyecontact, the strange thing is that a lot of guys (even hot ones) don't show interest until I initate eyecontact with them, then they are suddenly interested.

Yes... I am perfectly aware of how attractive I am and that I can just about get anyone I want but if they don't show interest as in giving some very open EC I won't engage. There are several reasons for this but most is that I don't care using energy getting chicks when I can mostly just pluck the agressive ones.

When do you think the best time is to sleep with a guy? This is so difficult for a girl to work out. A lot of guys will abandon you if you sleep straight away, alot abandon you if you haven't slept with them by the second date.

There honestly isn't any RIGHT one here.... Like some girls I'll see several times just cause they are somewhat a challenge to get into bed but after bedding I'll be like zzz that was boring, NEEEEXT. Sometimes after a onenightstand I'll like the sex so much or be so turned on by her agressiveness and sexual prowess I'll really like her more and see her more often.