Burroughs said:
A woman will NEVER respect you
she can only enslave you
and you will build the prison yourself
Women get to make men feel guilty, forcing him to believe that he is making woman into the object of his desires; he believes he is suppressing all her worthwhile qualities, which are, in fact, nowhere to be found.
Woman lure and subdue men by means of sex, praise, emotional blackmail, love and romance, motherhood and all the trappings that men fall for, thinking you are in power, in command, when in reality you have little say in your relationship with them.
You can say "NO!" to enslavement and the prison walls. Most men are too stupid to do this. Unfortunately this is a pretty accurate picture for the majority of men out there.
To Bradd80: Unfortunately much of what you're saying is true too. Even the good ones still need to be trained.
Howiestern said: 1. Respect isn't something embedded in a woman's DNA like it is a man's. Respect, honor, loyalty....those are all male traits. I've finally had to accept this.
This pattern probably has less to do with DNA and more to do with conditioned behavior, or if you want to use an analogy similar, but different from DNA, think "memes". Memes are basically ideas, behaviors, customs and mental patterns passed on from one person to the next, from one generation to the next. They are inherited much like DNA but are simply inherited learnings. Yes, respect, loyalty, honor, etc are male traits. Unfortunately, when you have a high percentage of half of the population (males) giving women a free pass to engage in uncivilized,bratty, immature, rude, disrespectful behaviors, the conditioning is going to happen.
Then what happens is a man like me comes along and won't put up with her b.s. I will either dump her, not give her the time of day, or if she has enough good qualities, train her. Meaning if there is any residual b.s. from her day to day dealings with the pushover, doormat, white knight f@ggots, she's in for a real shock if she tries to pull her garbage on me. I have had to clean up after the mess beta f@ggots have left in their wake. (I don't use the term alpha and beta, but the term beta f@ggot is pretty fitting and a good way to distinguish between these douchebags and the respectable homosexuals. At least the real ones aren't acting like pathetic a$$ kissers every time a woman walks in the room.) It actually makes you want to walk up to them and punch them in the face. These a-holes are making our job more difficult.
When my woman has acted up before and I corrected her and scolded her for acting like a spoiled child, there have been times where she said "I've NEVER had a man talk to me like that before in all my life!". Then I simply say, "And that's the problem. The other men in your life were wimps and pushovers.". I remember another time she said that and I said "And that's a reflection of their flawed character. A man SHOULD correct his woman when she acts ugly and unreasonable." Understand, she's actually a good woman. She's crazy about me and I'm crazy about her. The good far outweighs any negatives. She's a good cook, she cleans and handles the household responsibilities. We enjoy each other's affections. She is very attractive and has been her entire life. In her 40's, she's more attractive than many women in their 20's. There are some women that age very well. Think of someone like a Raquel Welch, who, in my opinion, became more attractive as the time went by. Whether or not you guys agree, I could care less. In my opinion, there are some women that actually become more attractive over time.
At any rate, my woman is in her 40's, has been attractive her entire life, and has experienced nothing but sad sacks and these white knight a-holes and wimpy male a$$-kissers catering to her every whim. She had loads of good qualities when I met her, but all of the men she's ever known and any man she's ever been in a relationship with has treated her like she's the queen and like they are pathetic servants. Do you think MAYBE that might create some attitudes or behaviors that have to be weeded out ASAP? You bet. Anyway, the reason I went on this little rant is because I think the attitudes are more a matter of conditioning than of DNA. If we were at the complete mercy of our DNA in everything, with no flexibility, then we wouldn't be using indoor plumbing right now.
We've inherited certain things, but depending on what we choose to cultivate and focus on developing, this is what will ultimately determine our prevalent behaviors and attitudes. Humans can be smart or stupid, nice or mean-spirited, loyal or disloyal, noble or disgraceful, they can create the most beautiful works of art or be the most mean, cruel and vicious animals, and a big part of it is conditioning. We have to start with where we are at and where we are at is where women are affected by their bad conditioning. At that point we take a complete 180 and BUILD what we want, starting with good materials of course. We won't try to turn a skanky crack-wh0re into a polite, sweet supermodel. No, we take the attractive ones who have a large list of good qualities, then we extract surgically, with precision, like a cancer, the aftereffects of bad conditioning from the femnazi's and beta f@ggots. We buy and build a relationship and a life to the exact specifications we want. THEN you are in control. Should you choose that route of control. The other route is to simply dump them when they misbehave or when you get tired of them.
