How to get laid a lot, even if you live with your parents

[SW15]

I looked up some Motel 6 prices in my area. The cheapest I could find was $59. That's a tad expensive for a room that would be used solely for sex.

In another city, I found a Motel 6 for as low as $41. Still a tad expensive. I couldn't justify paying for a whole night when I'm only going to use the room for an hour.

If they had a cheaper hourly rate, I could see myself utilizing the hourly rate (if I lived at home and needed a place for sex)

Most men who live with their parents aren't having enough sexual opportunity. If it costs $41-$65 to have sex in a Motel 6 vs. not getting laid, it's an easy decision to have sex in the Motel 6. Doing that once a month doesn't break the bank.

It's also possible to have a 2nd round with the woman and use the room for more than an hour.

I think there are still seedy motels that rent rooms by the hour. You probably don't want to go there.

Motel 6, Super 8, and Econo Lodges are plenty sketchy too.

A guy needs to be good looking like @BPH suggests in order to get women DTF at some of the cheaper chain motels like Motel 6.

 

[GoodMan32]

Most men who live with their parents aren't having enough sexual opportunity. If it costs $41-$65 to have sex in a Motel 6 vs. not getting laid, it's an easy decision to have sex in the Motel 6. Doing that once a month doesn't break the bank.

It's also possible to have a 2nd round with the woman and use the room for more than an hour.

I think there are still seedy motels that rent rooms by the hour. You probably don't want to go there.

Motel 6, Super 8, and Econo Lodges are plenty sketchy too.

A guy needs to be good looking like @BPH suggests in order to get women DTF at some of the cheaper chain motels like Motel 6.

You're right, having sex in a Motel 6 once a month wouldn't break the bank.

For a man who lives at home but has a steady girlfriend, on the other hand, having sex with her in a $41-65 room on a regular basis would add up. Let's say he bangs his girlfriend twice a week at Motel 6. That would come to $328-520/month.

While I wouldn't want to sleep at a seedy hourly motel, I'd be fine with staying at one for an hour.

 

[SW15]

For a man who lives at home but has a steady girlfriend, on the other hand, having sex with her in a $41-65 room on a regular basis would add up. Let's say he bangs his girlfriend twice a week at Motel 6. That would come to $328-520/month.

That becomes the justification for getting a mediocre 2 bedroom apartment with a roommate.

 

[Plinco]

However, somehow I still sleep around with multiple women on a regular basis - 94 to be exact, at the time of this writing - and don't usually go more than a week or two without sex even though I'm almost never in a committed relationship.

Do you consider this to be an accomplishment?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Getting sex in any major metro city is a lot easier than most men want to make it

I mean in most cases you just need to show up to a few parties a week and I can virtually guarantee if you have even average looks and average charisma you'll get opportunities for sex

The apps are completely unnecessary in big cities and arguably make harder work out of it then needs to be

This is because APP women have worked tirelessly over the years to create benchmarks maybe 1% of profiles will meet , this is intentional because in reality no woman really ever wants to meet a guy from a dating app its viewed within the femosphere as desperate .

These benchmarks don't exist in the real world because you approach her and she doesn't have the opportunity to spend 3 hours evaluating you and sending you to her WhatsApp groups

She has to make a decision there and then and more often than not if your confident and a little bit funny she will just go along with it ESPECIALLY if she's drunk

That's all women really want to do .....follow and have sex with charismatic men

I agree with the good sex part , seems a lot of guys really have no idea what to do and don't prioritise female pleasure in bed

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Final point If you're living in buttfvck nowhere or a tiny town then yea its going to be harder doesn't really matter your living arrangements its 100% a supply issue nothing will change that unless you move

 

[BPH]

Do you consider this to be an accomplishment?

Do you not?

 

[SW15]

Recently I've had a couple of forum members "express concern" about my living situation, despite never asking for their opinions on it...so I decided I'll write a little I still sleep around with multiple women on a regular basis - 94 to be exact, at the time of this writing - and don't usually go more than a week or two without sex even though I'm almost never in a committed relationship.

Do you consider this to be an accomplishment?

Do you not?

A lifetime notch count of 94 is an impressive accomplishment. In addition to high quantity, @BPH has good frequency of sex as he rarely goes more than 1-2 weeks without sex. He is keeping plates in rotation for a reasonable period of time without having to commit.

 

[SW15]

Getting sex in any major metro city is a lot easier than most men want to make it

I disagree. Statistics would support my opinion more than yours. There are higher rates of male sexlessness lately. In the USA, it seems like a lot of younger people are leaving smaller towns for bigger metro areas as this is happening.

in most cases you just need to show up to a few parties a week and I can virtually guarantee if you have even average looks and average charisma you'll get opportunities for sex

Not exactly. However, most men aren't showing up to multiple private parties in a week. There are likely more men showing up to nightlife venues 2-3 times per week, but even this is declining as swipe apps have gotten more popular.

The apps are completely unnecessary in big cities and arguably make harder work out of it then needs to be

This is because APP women have worked tirelessly over the years to create benchmarks maybe 1% of profiles will meet , this is intentional because in reality no woman really ever wants to meet a guy from a dating app its viewed within the femosphere as desperate .

I don't think most people would think apps are unnecessary in big cities. Apps are probably used more in big cities than in smaller towns because more of the smaller town population is coupled off.

Women's standards have been raised due to apps. To some degree, this has impacted their standards in the real world. However, I promote the idea that middle of bell curve men are still better off making approaches in the real world and not giving women time to send screen shots of you to her friends via text message.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I disagree. Statistics would support my opinion more than yours. There are higher rates of male sexlessness lately. In the USA, it seems like a lot of younger people are leaving smaller towns for bigger metro areas as this is happening.

Yes but you also have to remember we have the softest and weakest generation of men in living memory who don't really have any grit or determination so would rather just whine about how they can't get any pu$$y

In reality Young women all over the world still want to have sex and will continue having sex as its a basic course of nature

simply, applying yourself , being social and fairly well connected will present you with opportunities for sex

The bigger picture is a mess but then it has been for a long time

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi BPH,
You really are "Jack the Lad"keep it up ...This incredibly prosperous era we are enjoying is relatively recent,back in the Day we relied on a Great Coat spread on the ground,I used to have a key to a Boy Scout Hall...It was said that a whole generation of Americans were procreated in the back of a T Model Ford....I started by borrowing my Mates Fiat 500,believe me if you can do it in one of those you can do it anywhere...gravitated to an Old Station Wagon,called it the "Shaggin Wagon",that was Luxury....Relatively recently,working in a University,one of our Storemen,kicked out of House by his wife used to live in his 4WD in a Supermarket Parking lot come to work for a Shower,rinse his clothes...In the Main Buildings Basement was a long walkway used for maintenence access,leading off it were many little nooks,one of them had a mattress,this was his "Deflowering Chamber"as he called it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Hi BPH,
You really are "Jack the Lad"keep it up ...This incredibly prosperous era we are enjoying is relatively recent,back in the Day we relied on a Great Coat spread on the ground,I used to have a key to a Boy Scout Hall...It was said that a whole generation of Americans were procreated in the back of a T Model Ford....I started by borrowing my Mates Fiat 500,believe me if you can do it in one of those you can do it anywhere...gravitated to an Old Station Wagon,called it the "Shaggin Wagon",that was Luxury....Relatively recently,working in a University,one of our Storemen,kicked out of House by his wife used to live in his 4WD in a Supermarket Parking lot come to work for a Shower,rinse his clothes...In the Main Buildings Basement was a long walkway used for maintenence access,leading off it were many little nooks,one of them had a mattress,this was his "Deflowering Chamber"as he called it.

Can't you just find a nice clearing out in the woods? Or are the animals too dangerous

BPH has a bunch of woods near him where people camp out

 

[Clockwerk50]

Can't you just find a nice clearing out in the woods? Or are the animals too dangerous

BPH has a bunch of woods near him where people camp out

BHP stand for benign prostatic hyperplasia, also called prostate enlargement. I wonder if he had that.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

BHP stand for benign prostatic hyperplasia, also called prostate enlargement. I wonder if he had that.

It's not Barren Pine Homestead?

 

[Scaramouche]

It's not Barren Pine Homestead?

Naah,that's Barrenofhairs hangout LOL.

 

[BPH]

Can't you just find a nice clearing out in the woods? Or are the animals too dangerous

BPH has a bunch of woods near him where people camp out

It's true. That's how Baron and Gamisch know as soon as I post.

 

[Plinco]

Do you not?

A lifetime notch count of 94 is an impressive accomplishment. In addition to high quantity, @BPH has good frequency of sex as he rarely goes more than 1-2 weeks without sex. He is keeping plates in rotation for a reasonable period of time without having to commit.

A notchcount is not an accomplishment. It's an indication and symptom of success.

 

[BaronOfHair]

A notchcount is not an accomplishment

Especially when-as is the case with BPH-that 94 is made up almost exclusively of bar skanks*, who spread their legs and ass cheeks for a any guy who buys them a Miller Lite and a basket of Tater Skins


*Dude lives in Delaware. Let's not pretend that his selection isn't the sexual equivalent of relying solely on whatever's on the shelves at AM/PM for sustenance

 

[SW15]

A notchcount is not an accomplishment. It's an indication and symptom of success.

It's a success that a lot of men desire.

It is difficult to get laid when living with a parent or parents as a legal adult. My notch count would be lower if I spent a significant amount of time living with my parental figures after my college graduation at age 22.

During ages 18-24, young adults find themselves shuttling between living away from parents and living with parents. If young adults attend college, they will often spend their summers living at home with parents. At the top end of this age range, it's common to live at home immediately after college depending upon employment. If young adults don't attend college, they might start working and live with roommates. Some men are in the military and in military type housing in this age range.

If a man is in the 18-24 age range and dating women 18-24, he might pay a small to moderate penalty for living with a parent or parents during this time. Women in this range pay less of a penalty on this because they are at peak physical attractiveness. They can use their attractive to date some in the same age range or slightly older who is already living with roommates or living alone (especially if they have completed their education phase).

When men get to ages 25-34, that is when living at home becomes negatively perceived. Both women 25-34 and 18-24 year old women will view a 25-34 man more negatively for living at home. @BPH is in that age range now and dealing with it. He has managed to avoid the worst of it due to his looks.

Especially when-as is the case with BPH-that 94 is made up almost exclusively of bar skanks*, who spread their legs and ass cheeks for a any guy who buys them a Miller Lite and a basket of Tater Skins

*Dude lives in Delaware. Let's not pretend that his selection isn't the sexual equivalent of relying solely on whatever's on the shelves at AM/PM for sustenance

We don't know for a fact that it is 'bar skanks'. You say 'bar skanks' like it's a bad thing. Most unattached people go to bars at some point as unattached people, so bar attendees run the range of quality.

Have you spent much time in Delaware? I haven't. I don't know much about the sexual marketplace in Delaware. He's in Wilmington, Delaware and Wilmington is in the shadow of Philadelphia. It's only 32 miles from Downtown Wilmington to Downtown Philadelphia. That's the same distance as Downtown Dallas to Downtown Fort Worth in Texas. In the Dallas Scene thread, I mention this in the first post and acknowledge the differences in the scenes.

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Women who would be impressed by a dude buying them Miller Lite and Tater Skins sounds more like the Southeastern USA more than Delaware.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Jeez...why are YOU suddenly so testy?

Suddenly?

True, I didn't understand what you were doing right regarding the bar

it’s called going out with your boy for the sake of enjoying your friend’s company and letting life come to you, not spending my evening thinking about putting the pvssy on a pedestal

why would I listen to most people tell me how I should be making money so I can make a tiny bit more to move out and start spending all of it to live in a $1,200/mo box?

I made $27,000 on Wednesday, $6,700 over the weekend, and probably $500,000 this year if a couple other things go as planned. This time last year, my former father in law was trying to push me into bankruptcy

Also, because you mentioned it, no, most of my success did not come from when I was in school.

That sucks - I hope at some point, you turn things around and life starts working out bette for you.

 

[GoodMan32]

That becomes the justification for getting a mediocre 2 bedroom apartment with a roommate.

Roommates can kill one's sex life too. A lot of broads don't want to deal with a man's roommate when they come over for sex.