A wife needs to be someone who helps you accomplish a goal.
Here's a few reasons to marry someone from
a different country:
Different Culture: You always have something new to talk about because everything you experience together will be seen from two remotely different perspectives.
Exotic Cuisines: or perhaps your favorite, I like Brazilian, Mexican, Italian, Indian, Japanese, (American) Chinese, and Viet and would be happy to eat selections from those. This is contingent on you meeting a woman who can cook. My wife is a trained Sushi Chef and short-order American, she makes the best Sushi/Pancakes and Brazilian hamburgers ever. My mother trained her on all my favorite dishes so mom's home cooking is her default now. We only eat out for stuff she can't cook at home and I'm fat now because of it. Happy fat.
Chef/Cook: Why wouldn't you marry someone who has these skill sets and makes money doing them? This means that she's going to be interested in every restaurant you take her to and every new dish she tries and
she'll try and reproduce the same quality at home. Easy action dates, easy anniversary gifts, easy vacations. She likes food, and she likes cooking for you. The gifts you give her are going to benefit both of you. If you take her home to North America, there are a million cuisines she can try for next to nothing. If you have a kid, your kid will be well fed and she can support him/her in a minimum wage job she likes. A good Brazilian burger can be just as satisfying as an amazing BJ, but why not both?
Citizenship: Easy access to another country's markets. This means cheaper real estate in a safer place. Better job opportunities, and a better standard of living. This means a potentially conservative culture with a school system where you don't have to worry about drag queens teaching your kids.
A nuclear family standard: The concept of 2 moms, 2 dads, single-parent households (by choice), and anything in between will be completely alien to her and an abomination.
Education: You will have access to cheaper education in another country. Your children will likely not grow up mentally retarded, learning around rejects and children with 'behaviors'. They won't have to worry about other kids bringing guns to school to blow them away for not acknowledging a pro-noun. The university will likely be a good experience, without pink and blue-haired harpies waiting to be offended. You can even go back to school as a hobby (I've been in university for 20 years).
An interesting life: You will never be bored and you won't notice the time fly by. There will always be something interesting going on. If you choose a country with a history and culture you are actually interested in, there will be no end of places to go and people to meet. The locals will appreciate you taking an interest in their culture and probably be impressed and maybe a little bored when you talk about it at length. You can learn a new language which in itself is very rewarding and a 2nd language prevents dementia later on. You will literally return home and notice the people you used to hang out with are very ignorant. Instead of spending time talking about TV, your expat friends will have real things going on in their lives and time spent with them will be infinitely more interesting and adventurous.
Networking: You will open up a totally new and diverse group of people to talk to. You will know their culture intimately and you will be introduced to people who would otherwise be off-limits at home. This is not just a business thing, it's also interesting to meet farmers and poorer folks, everyone has an interesting and unique perspective. I went to a black tie event in China with local millionaires and business people, how did I get in? An older friend who enjoyed my wife and I's company invited us. At home, my friends are broke or high, or both.
Expat Culture: For some odd reason, the relationships formed abroad with other expats seem to endure through the years. Expats are usually more interested in keeping in touch and being able to chill out with a beer and shoot the **** in your own language is one of the most de-stressing activities you'll ever do. I know people in 8 countries that I've kept up with over the course of my life, each one is someone you could write a book about. Expat culture is even more interesting if you have wives because they'll be interested in each other's perspectives and give your wife a safe friend to hang out with. You are also usually treated like family (because you are a family) and you're going to be a bit more accepted into the overall family structure because you've identified that you are interested in maintaining ties to that culture. I don't worry about my friends abroad becoming leftists, they are generally there because they hate something about their culture back home and will go out of their way to hook me up with jobs and easy places to rent. (Lots of MGTOWS and Passport Bros abroad).
Opportunities: You will be able to recreate yourself. Hey, I was a straight-F student in high school. I was expelled twice and voted the person most likely to end up in jail and go nowhere in life. I never had a girlfriend and I worked in a factory in my early 20's to make ends meet. When I got my TESOL I went from zero to hero in the span of a weekend. The guys I know who stayed in my hometown with the good jobs and stable lives ended up divorce raped and having to worry about dying alone. If you know anything about the 3rd world, you know that women are a dime a dozen. Just being introduced to those opportunities and knowing they exist makes you a better quality man, and your wife will understand this. When I roll into town now with my wife, I'm offered better jobs (I work with kids now) and parents are more interested in listening to what I have to say about raising their brats.
A second family that cares about you: You might not think about this one until you get sick or piss somebody off. It's very important to have a blood relative that can act as a line of credit, a place to stay, or a knowledge base. A mother in law that cares about your well-being and a family that will hook you up with jobs and help you get settled and established in a foreign country. For me, my brother-in-law is part of the 'mob' back home and if I run into real trouble, a solution is just a phone call away. I have two little nieces whom I love to pieces and I enjoy sending gifts to them. There is something about having people to care about and who care about you that makes life worth living. Especially during the holidays. If you truly enjoy being alone during the holidays, you are a weirdo.
Women become magnets: I get single women throwing themselves my way, I'm not going to cheat but the wife sees this and goes into mate guarding right away. I get propositioned quite a bit because there aren't many men like myself in the world and everyone wants to be connected to an epic-level character. Married men... at least the ones abroad are seen as valuable... the ones at home? Not so much.
Governments love you and police trust you: Governments love the successful family man because they use it as evidence that their system is working and you're paying taxes. Police treat families better than single people, they are more lenient on you and more likely to side with you. Police want to help you because their original oath was to serve and protect. You'll have more opportunities to work with the police in a variety of settings (if you're smart) and governments will make your life a little easier if you've got your family in tow. Governments that don't promote the family structure won't be governments very long.
In short you can really leverage marriage to work for you. Don't be a victim, be a man.
