How to approach women when they're with other men?

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Gamernub said:
You're a noob
Dude, I can't help but notice that you talk alot of sh!t. Anyway, thanks for guys giving good input, like Gary and SELF.
 
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Like I said, it really comes down to whether the guy is an AFC or not. And you should come to this conclusion BEFORE you approach them. If the guy's pretty AFC, this is possible. If not, then you should know not to go up there in the first place.
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
^^^

Come on get real... Did you come up with this from your mom's basement?

So, a guy is suppose to sit back and listen to you fluff talk his girl, ask him about his jean, and then try to number close his chick??? Get Real!

I don't care how smooth your mother and her friends say you are- there's no way her BF will stand for this.

Try this around a real man and you are going to get shutdown in a heart beat: "Get the **** out of here."

Where do you fools come from??? WTF
I agree! Thank god there are at least some posters living in the REAL world!

You are right, some of the replies to this post are moronic! Typical keyboard jockeys living in their gangsta rap and pornography inspired fantasy world!

All this sh*t might work on their inflatable dolls in their lonely role playing games but life doesn't work like that!
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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DonJuanForever said:
Out of the 10 guys approaching a hb a week, only one gets in. Which one? The one with the masculinity. Guys that do what you guys are posting, are not masculine. For one, if you are so "good" if you see her with her man, why are you hell bent on getting into a fight just to get her. You guys think it's a game, as if you can "look" at somebody and determine if you can whoop his azz, lol, lol, lol. You don't know what the hell he's holding, nor, who the hell he's here with. Some guys will kill another dude over a girl, is it worth it? Why not just wait until she's alone you dumbazzes. While you're going out thinking you are Steve Austin, I bet you won't feel so don juan and suave laying in the hospital after that guy you thought was a bytch, jit-jitzu'ed your azz and broke your arm, your leg, and your neck.

And oh yah, another thing. If the girl is with a don juan, you are one of those other 9 guys she rejects, so she just might help him break your arm.

You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
 

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You guys need a life, lol. All these single, bored, hot women out here and you wanna fvck wit Tupac's girl. haahahah
:up: LOL this guy speaks the truth!!!
 

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Threads like this one really show why PUA tactics are nothing, but nerd science gone wrong.

----Now my wing distracts him while I game his girl and he doesn't notice me doing a magic trick I learned from mystery.---- Get Real...
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
Threads like this one really show why PUA tactics are nothing, but nerd science gone wrong.

----Now my wing distracts him while I game his girl and he doesn't notice me doing a magic trick I learned from mystery.---- Get Real...
Damn right! :up:
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Reloaded said:
I don't like approaching women when they are with other men. What should I do about this problem?
OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this one
http/www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php=3ft=3d105037&page=3d2

its about a another guy hitting on your girlfriend
read that thread,then ask the guy who started the thread your question it will solve your problems.
 

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dreamxhenry_notAFC said:
OMG a troll or afc alert there is another thread similar to this one
http/www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php=3ft=3d105037&page=3d2

its about a another guy hitting on your girlfriend
read that thread,then ask the guy who started the thread your question it will solve your problems.
Your post here and this topic (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105083) prove that you are, in fact, and AFC AND a troll. My advice to you is to shut the f u c k up, turn off your computer, put away the lotion and go get laid.
 

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Hey guys, I'm here to correct myself. I'll be up front with you all...

In reality, i've only hit on a girl while she was with her guy twice my whole life. In one situation, it did play out exactly the way I described here... fluff talking and all... but now that I think back, such a tactic and scenario would fail to impress any reasonably valuable and worthy girl. I just happened to pull it off with an 'air-head' type of girl. And I'll admit, I did it out of boredom and didn't expect anything to come out of it and nothing did come out of it... (i did get her real # and interest though). Just saying I wouldn't expect this to pass with any classy chicks.

In the second situation, the girl had an obviously abusive boyfriend who was over-jealous and kept getting unreasonably angry at her for even so much as shaking other guy's hands (this was at my church), so I interjected and told him to back off and told her that she deserves better, right in front of both their faces. I was assuming some sort of a protective role here. The girl gave me her # and asked me to bring her home instead of her abusive boyfriend. You'd think that this is just her getting back at him, but she turned out to be genuinely interested in me and called me back numerous times asking to spend some time with me after that. I didn't take these opportunities anywhere, because once again I was not genuinely interested in the girl, and I was just using that one opportunity to test my wit...

In my opinion hitting on ANY girl while she's with a boyfriend (provided that he really is her boyfriend/or other romantic partner), is very disrespectful.

Keep in mind that a lot of these AFC's are just guys who've been mislead or simply don't know any better; they haven't been revealed the knowledge that makes some of you the DJ's you are today. So if the guy's AFC and you hit on his girl in front of him, you're directly insulting and attacking the guy, even though he's done NOTHING to you, and probably has the purest of intentions for everything, including her. So here you take a guy that doesn't know any better, and when you should maybe give him a few tips or wish him the best in life, you drive him even deeper into his hole. Kind of an ******* thing to do huh? Actually... very ******* thing to do, down-right evil. Be compassionate to your fellow man; do not try to destroy him or steal from him (which may be his GIRL) just because you feel superior to him! You are blessed with knowledge and experience that he may or may not have been bestowed with.

Aren't there enough girls OUT THERE ON THEIR OWN to seduce? ;) You true DJ's know how it is... there's more than enough out there anyway.

I just want to say I'm sorry for giving out "bad medicine" on this thread, and I will admit I was in some sort of a daydream when I wrote this out to you fellow DJ's and DJ's to be. Please take it all with a grain of salt. I just hope that my credibility to you all isn't ruined, and I want to let you all know that I do genuinely understand most women and know how to make a lucky girl go crazy for you and be attracted to you! So feel free to ask me anytime about anything. I will give you honest answers, no more half-assed daydreams. Thank you for your criticism and you all helping a fellow DJ keep his ego in check :)
 

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How'd you mean? Mixed groups are easy to penetrate... I don't know why, but I have this knack of one of the guys inviting me over to the group quite randomly to introduce me to some of his female friends...

Personally, I avoid approaching chicks who are out with just one guy... if you really must approach then the key to success is observation... look at how she's reacting towards him and you'll be able to determine a number of things, such as whether or not they are in a relationship and her general feeling towards him... if you can read that they are just friends, then shoot in there, if it's a little more ambiguous just wait for a toilet break... in my opinion though, there's always enough women who are better approaches than that, she's not the only HB8 or HB9 in the venue...
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
And waiting until she goes to the bathroom or until the dude gets distracted is pus$y $hit. That's like punching a guy in the sack while he sleeps, then running out of the room before he can turn on the lights to see who it was.
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