Hey guys, I'm here to correct myself. I'll be up front with you all...
In reality, i've only hit on a girl while she was with her guy twice my whole life. In one situation, it did play out exactly the way I described here... fluff talking and all... but now that I think back, such a tactic and scenario would fail to impress any reasonably valuable and worthy girl. I just happened to pull it off with an 'air-head' type of girl. And I'll admit, I did it out of boredom and didn't expect anything to come out of it and nothing did come out of it... (i did get her real # and interest though). Just saying I wouldn't expect this to pass with any classy chicks.
In the second situation, the girl had an obviously abusive boyfriend who was over-jealous and kept getting unreasonably angry at her for even so much as shaking other guy's hands (this was at my church), so I interjected and told him to back off and told her that she deserves better, right in front of both their faces. I was assuming some sort of a protective role here. The girl gave me her # and asked me to bring her home instead of her abusive boyfriend. You'd think that this is just her getting back at him, but she turned out to be genuinely interested in me and called me back numerous times asking to spend some time with me after that. I didn't take these opportunities anywhere, because once again I was not genuinely interested in the girl, and I was just using that one opportunity to test my wit...
In my opinion hitting on ANY girl while she's with a boyfriend (provided that he really is her boyfriend/or other romantic partner), is very disrespectful.
Keep in mind that a lot of these AFC's are just guys who've been mislead or simply don't know any better; they haven't been revealed the knowledge that makes some of you the DJ's you are today. So if the guy's AFC and you hit on his girl in front of him, you're directly insulting and attacking the guy, even though he's done NOTHING to you, and probably has the purest of intentions for everything, including her. So here you take a guy that doesn't know any better, and when you should maybe give him a few tips or wish him the best in life, you drive him even deeper into his hole. Kind of an ******* thing to do huh? Actually... very ******* thing to do, down-right evil. Be compassionate to your fellow man; do not try to destroy him or steal from him (which may be his GIRL) just because you feel superior to him! You are blessed with knowledge and experience that he may or may not have been bestowed with.
Aren't there enough girls OUT THERE ON THEIR OWN to seduce?
You true DJ's know how it is... there's more than enough out there anyway.
I just want to say I'm sorry for giving out "bad medicine" on this thread, and I will admit I was in some sort of a daydream when I wrote this out to you fellow DJ's and DJ's to be. Please take it all with a grain of salt. I just hope that my credibility to you all isn't ruined, and I want to let you all know that I do genuinely understand most women and know how to make a lucky girl go crazy for you and be attracted to you! So feel free to ask me anytime about anything. I will give you honest answers, no more half-assed daydreams. Thank you for your criticism and you all helping a fellow DJ keep his ego in check