How to accept your girlfriends past relationships

[Wyldfire]

As a woman I can say that I care about a man's sexual past. I don't want to be touched by a guy who is a male slut. I view easy men as being very nasty, dirty and contaminated. So, this works two ways.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by ajncaa
Everyone besides a virgin has a past.

That's your solution. If you want some new meat than start someone young, or pick up a church girl. But be warned that the young girl is probably going to spend a lot of time curious about what its like to fvck other men

Now if a girl has a past as a call girl then I might start asking questions.

this is only true about ameriancized women.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
As a woman I can say that I care about a man's sexual past. I don't want to be touched by a guy who is a male slut. I view easy men as being very nasty, dirty and contaminated. So, this works two ways.

I would have to agree. A persons sexual past is important for a long term relationship.

 

[earthshyne]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
As a woman I can say that I care about a man's sexual past. I don't want to be touched by a guy who is a male slut. I view easy men as being very nasty, dirty and contaminated. So, this works two ways.

It's all about perceptions, I suppose. The way I see it, if I'm with a woman who's had her share of experiences, that actually makes me a pretty lucky fellow. See, she had the opportunity to hang with all those other dudes, but instead she's sleeping with me AND I'm getting the benefit of her past experiences.

</male slut>

 

[Engetsu]

The perfect solution:

1- Hoes are girls who put out after only one or a couple of dates. These girls are best for ONSs.

2- Good girls are the ones who don't put out until marriage (not my type), or that wait a couple of months before putting out, when they deem their boyfriend trustworthy enough. These girls are best for LTRs.

You will never have a problem with a girl's sexual past after you apply the preceding guidelines to your life, for the following reasons:

a- You will never have a girlfriend with a heavy sexual past that will bother you.

b- The girlfriends who actually DO have a sexual past won't have slept with too many guys, since LTRs usually last long.

This is pretty beautiful in theory, but I'm still looking for my perfect gal (type 2)

PS: I know there is a double standard in my post, and I don't care

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Engetsu
The perfect solution:

1- Hoes are girls who put out after only one or a couple of dates. These girls are best for ONSs.

2- Good girls are the ones who don't put out until marriage (not my type), or that wait a couple of months before putting out, when they deem their boyfriend trustworthy enough. These girls are best for LTRs.

You will never have a problem with a girl's sexual past after you apply the preceding guidelines to your life, for the following reasons:

a- You will never have a girlfriend with a heavy sexual past that will bother you.

b- The girlfriends who actually DO have a sexual past won't have slept with too many guys, since LTRs usually last long.

This is pretty beautiful in theory, but I'm still looking for my perfect gal (type 2)

PS: I know there is a double standard in my post, and I don't care

This guidline makes perfect sense.

Why would a guy take a risk being in a relationship with a girl who has a history of being with many guys? Sure the sex might be good with her but if she hasn't made a solid commitment in the past to one guy then how can you be sure she will make a solid commitment to you. You might be in luck for a few months with her but that is about it.

It also isn't a double standard.

Women want a guy who knows how to please them. In fact, this is so important to them that they are willing to risk being cheated on. I know many girls who have fallen for guys who are no good for them.

A man on the other hand doesn't really care if a woman can please him. He only cares that she is willing to open her legs and that she is clean. For a long term relationship a man will seek a woman who can demonstrate that she knows how to uphold a promise. When a woman refrains from having sex with many guys she is proving to herself and everyone else that she is not ruled by lust. This is very important to a man who wants a LTR. A man won't take a girl who is ruled by lust seriously.

 

[Don_Joffe]

ACCEPT it and move on.
In the first place you shouldnt be talking about ex's. Go read DON JUAN bible if you dont know that already. There your problem is solved.
Why? If you dont talk about it, you dont have to "accept" it, you can not even KNOW about it.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Don_Joffe
ACCEPT it and move on.
In the first place you shouldnt be talking about ex's. Go read DON JUAN bible if you dont know that already. There your problem is solved.
Why? If you dont talk about it, you dont have to "accept" it, you can not even KNOW about it.

I want to be informed about the sexual past of any guy I plan on having sex with. If he won't share that information with me then I won't let him touch me, period. I would also hope the guy would want to know my sexual past. If he didn't, it would raise a red flag in my mind.

 

[Don_Joffe]

Sure, you can briefly touch on the past, but anything negative shouldnt be spoken about, im sure you dont want to know about how his ex girlfriend gave him head? do you? or how his ex girlfriend broke his heart