How to accept your girlfriends past relationships

[FrankWank]

Dont ask her about her past. She's gonna lie about it anyways

History has a tendency to repeat itself!
And im a firm believer in once a slut always a slut. They are only good for one thing, not LTR. Sluts have low self esteem, no values, no morals , no self respect and plenty of DRAMA to go with it. Why would you want a LTR with a slut anyways.
It does matter to me if she is currently or a slut in the past.I dont ask, but time will tell. Its important to know what your getting into. It shows who she really is. Ho's these days put up fronts then the true colors shine later. You cant trust a slut at all. If she's been with 50, bet your azz, that # will increase when the opportunity presents itself to her. Your actually nothing but another statistic.. They know the slut game and as they increase in age, they know how to cheat even more and eventually become pros.

 

[TheFool]

is it at all possible the reason some women have low-self esteem, low morals etc... because all they seem to attract is the guys who just want to use them as *** bags?

isn't it possible for a women who may of had quite a few sexual partners by the time she's 20, to change IF and WHEN she meets a genuine guy who don't want to use 'em as a sex object?

maybe she's just looking for the right partner to treat her right, and once found she could be 100% faithful for the rest of her life, do u think that's possible?

 

[The Rake]

Something to think about....

If a man has had 20 or more sexual partners, he's labelled a "player", a "playboy", a "DJ", a "Casanova", but could be turned into a faithful loving husband with the right woman. If a woman has had over 4 sexual liaisons, she's called a slut or better, a "playette", a "playgirl", a "party gal", her mind and life are all fu*ked up, an emotional train wreck, diseased, not a LTR prospect and definitely not a future mother prospect for your children. LOL!

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by The Rake
Something to think about....

If a man has had 20 or more sexual partners, he's labelled a "player", a "playboy", a "DJ", a "Casanova", but could be turned into a faithful loving husband with the right woman. If a woman has had over 4 sexual liaisons, she's called a slut or better, a "playette", a "playgirl", a "party gal", her mind and life are all fu*ked up, an emotional train wreck, diseased, not a LTR prospect and definitely not a future mother prospect for your children. LOL!

Women who argue about this are the exact same thing as men arguing about why THEY are the ones that must make the first move, etc.

 

[AverageFC]

Something to think about....

If a man has had 20 or more sexual partners, he's labelled a "player", a "playboy", a "DJ", a "Casanova", but could be turned into a faithful loving husband with the right woman. If a woman has had over 4 sexual liaisons, she's called a slut or better, a "playette", a "playgirl", a "party gal", her mind and life are all fu*ked up, an emotional train wreck, diseased, not a LTR prospect and definitely not a future mother prospect for your children. LOL!

There's nothing funny or double standard-ous about this.

No man wants a used piece of meat, and every woman wants a more experienced man. Women want guys who have more experience.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by AverageFC
There's nothing funny or double standard-ous about this.

No man wants a used piece of meat, and every woman wants a more experienced man. Women want guys who have more experience.

I agree. Women want men who are experienced and that is why it is ok for a man to have many sexual partners. Men on the other hand are smart and do not look for sluts for LTRs. Women only have themselves to blame for this so called double standard.

 

[Dapper Swindler]

I know how you feel and I know it's hard to accept what a girl you care about has done in her past. But the truth of it is that you being uncomfortable with her history is just a product of your own insecurity.

 

[Fatality]

Don't ask. What you don't know won't hurt you

always wear a rubber

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
I know how you feel and I know it's hard to accept what a girl you care about has done in her past. But the truth of it is that you being uncomfortable with her history is just a product of your own insecurity.

There is a point at which her past becomes completely unacceptable. I totally disagree with the insecurity argument. It is only when her past conflicts with your own personal acceptance level that it is a problem.

Every guy has a right to next a woman for being too much of a slut.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by TheFool
is it at all possible the reason some women have low-self esteem, low morals etc... because all they seem to attract is the guys who just want to use them as *** bags?

isn't it possible for a women who may of had quite a few sexual partners by the time she's 20, to change IF and WHEN she meets a genuine guy who don't want to use 'em as a sex object?

maybe she's just looking for the right partner to treat her right, and once found she could be 100% faithful for the rest of her life, do u think that's possible?

Don't join the ranks of the masses and be "Captain-Sav-A-Ho"!!!

Guys don't want to sit on a "soiled" dirty sofa or touch the door knob of a public restroom or eat from a dirty spoon but yet they'll "eat" a woman's vagina like an all-you-can-eat-hotdog contest after she has been with dudes that have polluted her vagina countless of times with their inner essence daily for many years!!!. I dumbfounded!!!

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by TheFool
Hi Guys,

I've recently fallen in love and I'm having problems accepting my partners past relationships. Before we were an 'item' we had a talk about our pasts and who we have had experience with, my last relationship was over a year ago and I was the same - angry and upset about her past, I thought I had learned from that experience and would be alright with accepting someone elses past, but it's happening again. I try to reason and tell myself that I have a past aswell so I shouldn't be annoyed at my partner but I just can't get over these feelings of anger. what can I do to stop myself feeling angry about something that happened before she knew me.

any ideas?

Become more secure about yourself.

 

[Doctor Who]

I try to avoid bringing up the sexual past. As long as she is clean, its not a problem. Use a condom though. If there are any questions, you can go to a doctors office or clinic and get tested for STD's. Pretty akward at first, but really makes the sex more enjoyable. No worries!

By not bringing up the past, you dont have to worry about it. If you do find out, dont let it bother you. Girls are allowed to have just as much sex as you. Would you think of one of your buddies as unclean if he had an adventurous sexual past? Probably not. This double standard keeps girls from putting out. If we can all agree to drop silly thoughts like this, we can have way more sex.

A true DJ will be confident in himself, and know that the woman he chooses to spend time with enjoys his company in the present, and wants to continue in the future.

I had sex for the first time with an experienced girl, a few years older than me. Id say that it was much better for me than a bunch of my friends who had sex with virgins. Let her use that experience. She will know how to work a variety of situations, and will be more adequately equipped to pleasure you.

 

[AverageFC]

By not bringing up the past, you dont have to worry about it. If you do find out, dont let it bother you. Girls are allowed to have just as much sex as you. Would you think of one of your buddies as unclean if he had an adventurous sexual past? Probably not. This double standard keeps girls from putting out. If we can all agree to drop silly thoughts like this, we can have way more sex.

If youre just interested in sex, maybe this is a good idea. But long term, I disagree. There is no double standard, and one of my best friends who has had many sexual exploits calls himself "a dirty *****", which he is.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Doctor Who
I try to avoid bringing up the sexual past. As long as she is clean, its not a problem. Use a condom though. If there are any questions, you can go to a doctors office or clinic and get tested for STD's. Pretty akward at first, but really makes the sex more enjoyable. No worries!

By not bringing up the past, you dont have to worry about it. If you do find out, dont let it bother you. Girls are allowed to have just as much sex as you. Would you think of one of your buddies as unclean if he had an adventurous sexual past? Probably not. This double standard keeps girls from putting out. If we can all agree to drop silly thoughts like this, we can have way more sex.

A true DJ will be confident in himself, and know that the woman he chooses to spend time with enjoys his company in the present, and wants to continue in the future.

I had sex for the first time with an experienced girl, a few years older than me. Id say that it was much better for me than a bunch of my friends who had sex with virgins. Let her use that experience. She will know how to work a variety of situations, and will be more adequately equipped to pleasure you.

Read the above post in its entirety once again - you young bastards have the most warped sense of reality that has yet existed since the beginning of time!!!! I'm reading a lot of shyt on this board lately that is ill advised which will lead to a path of self-destruction and a lost of one's manhood!!!

I believe there are a lot of Homos and/or effeminates on this board from the hor/homo generation trying to emasculate the masculine!!!! Death to you bastards!!!!

 

[dietzcoi]

Yes, PR_L... I am shocked by the guys who will let women rule them and lord it over them... disgusting

Dietzcoi

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Read the above post in its entirety once again - you young bastards have the most warped sense of reality that has yet existed since the beginning of time!!!! I'm reading a lot of shyt on this board lately that is ill advised which will lead to a path of self-destruction and a lost of one's manhood!!!

I believe there are a lot of Homos and/or effeminates on this board from the hor/homo generation trying to emasculate the masculine!!!! Death to you bastards!!!!

I agree. most of these guys don't understand what it means to be a man. They just don't get it and most act like women.

 

[KEGI]

buddy leave this topic alone..if u think about this girls past relationships all the time it'll ruin ye so lightin up and let the past be exactly what it is..the past.You cant change it so stop worrying about it

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by KEGI
buddy leave this topic alone..if u think about this girls past relationships all the time it'll ruin ye so lightin up and let the past be exactly what it is..the past.You cant change it so stop worrying about it

no he can't change the past but he can make a wise and well thought of decision based on it. If her past is unacceptable to him then he has the right to next her.

I'll say it again. Once a slut always a slut.

 

[KEGI]

what are you talkin about? dont be such a narrow minded little git...if you find out she's a slut,fair enough give her the road but every girl you go out with or like u cant be worried about who she has and has not f**ked

 

[ajncaa]

Everyone besides a virgin has a past.

That's your solution. If you want some new meat than start someone young, or pick up a church girl. But be warned that the young girl is probably going to spend a lot of time curious about what its like to fvck other men

Now if a girl has a past as a call girl then I might start asking questions.