How the hell do most avg mid to late 20s men have dating lives???

[Paradiddle]

Correct me if I'm not mistaken. The summary of your post is that you have everything (looks and riches) but find it hard getting a girl? If so the only thing I can suggest is read 'kill that desperation' from the DJ Bible. Women are repelled by you if you reek of desperation. Don't intend to get a girl and you will start seeing how a girl approaches you. Paradoxically, things come to you when you care less.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I've been doing everything people tell me to do have women in my life for many many years

Except, you know, going out, approaching and talking to said women on a regular basis...

 

[bigdave17]

Except, you know, going out, approaching and talking to said women on a regular basis...

I do talk to women

You guys want me to ask these ladies out even when they are obviously repulsed by me...as if getting rejected 500 times is gonna be good for my psyche

 

[bigdave17]

Correct me if I'm not mistaken. The summary of your post is that you have everything (looks and riches) but find it hard getting a girl? If so the only thing I can suggest is read 'kill that desperation' from the DJ Bible. Women are repelled by you if you reek of desperation. Don't intend to get a girl and you will start seeing how a girl approaches you. Paradoxically, things come to you when you care less.

women don't ever approach unless they're old (over 30), chubby, have kids or not cute

are you drunk? you think a cute 25 year old fitness type is ever gonna approach a man? she is gonna have a boyfriend in 90% of scenarios and be seeing 50 guys through her social circle in the other 10% of scenarios. Most decent quality women like that are beating the men off with a stick.

 

[The Diver]

How do they do it? I'm a very good looking dude, clearly workout, impeccable fashion sense, great social circle when I go out, have the beautiful car, make friends everywhere and I find the cold approaching random women and trying to get a date to be insanely insanely INSANELY difficult

Your posts are poison, and a huge negative brainwash, It's contribute nothing other than disgorging new comer. Enough is enough mate.

 

[bigdave17]

Your posts are poison, and a huge negative brainwash, It's contribute nothing other than disgorging new comer. Enough is enough mate.

I'm just honestly curious

Vast vast majority of men are very mediocre in looks and personality compared to what women want and even if they're not, they won't be okay with the monstrous rejection rate associated with a cold approach. Less than 0.1% of men are attractive enough to get even a 5.5/10 on dating sites

yet most guys my age have dating lives. How the hell do they do it?

 

[backseatjuan]

@bigdave17 I bet if you approach 10 women right now, with the proper mindset, you will get a girlfriend out of it, or at least one lay.

Mind you, I'm not talking about the internet.

 

[The Diver]

I'm just honestly curious
yet most guys my age have dating lives. How the hell do they do it?

Reread the answers given to you to that same question you already asked in your 1000+ posts.
Repeating time after time how it's " Insanely Insanely INSANELY difficult" to date hot woman, in more than 1000+ posts, is insane.

 

[bigdave17]

@bigdave17 I bet if you approach 10 women right now, with the proper mindset, you will get a girlfriend out of it, or at least one lay.

Mind you, I'm not talking about the internet.

the only place I really see women worth approaching is my gym. The bars have some decent females but many of them look like garbage once you take out the makeup and tight clothes

how am I gonna approach 10 women at my gym? I would get thrown out for being a hardcore creeper

I noticed you excluded online dating...I'm glad most of you guys admit online dating is completely impossible unless you're the true genetic super super elite

 

[bigdave17]

Reread the answers given to you to that same question you already asked in your 1000+ posts.
Repeating time after time how it's " Insanely Insanely INSANELY difficult" to date hot woman, in more than 1000+ posts, is insane.

the advice here is for guys in this community

have you ever talked to people in general public? very very very very few men are even capable of a semi decent cold approach so how do they ever date?

 

[Igetit!]

You guys want me to ask these ladies out even when they are obviously repulsed by me...

Women are "repulsed" by you?

Guess that answers my question about you having confidence,lol.

as if getting rejected 500 times is gonna be good for my psyche

Well......if you approached,you'd at least have a chance.

I mean,it's not like your "psyche" is RIGHT NOW at the highest it's ever been,and in such grand condition.


So you think women are repulsed by you. Wait a second......

Looks - check
Body - check
fashion sense/style - check
Money - check
intelligence - check
character/morals - quadruple check.

Isn't that YOUR post? You have amnesia?

What happened to...."Looks,check. Body,check. Fashion sense,check. Money,check. Morals,check."????

If you're telling the truth and you indeed have all that....where's the repulsion?

You have the looks,have the body,have the money,have the smarts,have the morals. Correct?

Well where does the repulsion come in?

If it's not your looks,money,body,sense of style,character or intelligence,then what EXACTLY is it you think they're repulsed by???

 

[The Diver]

the advice here is for guys in this community

Yes, and this community already gave you the answer to this same question you asking 1000+ time, but you just ignoring all of them.
And I still think repeating 1000+ this BS "insanely difficult to date hot woman" is Huge negative brainwash you doing here without even noticing. This sh*it have to stop.

 

[bigdave17]

Yes, and this community already gave you the answer to this same question you asking 1000+ time, but you just ignoring all of them.
And I still think repeating 1000+ this BS "insanely difficult to date hot woman" is Huge negative brainwash you doing here without even noticing. This sh*it have to stop.

you're not answering the question at all dude

 

[The Diver]

you're not answering the question at all dude

Jessuse christ , REREAD THE FU*CKING ANSWERS GIVEN TO YOU TO THIS SAME QUESTION IN YOUR 1000+ POSTS.

 

[Paradiddle]

women don't ever approach unless they're old (over 30), chubby, have kids or not cute

are you drunk? you think a cute 25 year old fitness type is ever gonna approach a man? she is gonna have a boyfriend in 90% of scenarios and be seeing 50 guys through her social circle in the other 10% of scenarios. Most decent quality women like that are beating the men off with a stick.

Women don't approach until they're 30? Hahahaha. Dude, which planet are you from? If you have never been approached despite all the things that you mentioned you have, you must be ugly af.

 

[bigdave17]

Women don't approach until they're 30? Hahahaha. Dude, which planet are you from? If you have never been approached despite all the things that you mentioned you have, you must be ugly af.

I've been approached tons of times

by *****s, fat chicks, old broads, single moms, etc... never by anybody anywhere near my league

 

[zekko]

all I did was walk up and started tooling the trash guy that was moving trash bins to his truck right outside the patio/smoking section her and her friend were kicking it. I think I said something along the lines of "omg, dream job right there.." "I'd kill to have that job, sexy trash guys get laid like a mouthafuka (;" girls are in college really cute and laughed at my retardedness..

when she left with her friends she kept looking toward me because she was attracted to my stupid lame vibe.

bigdave17, did you see the above post from page one?
Read that and tell me again how you believe that women will only respond to the top .001% of guys.

 

[bigdave17]

bigdave17, did you see the above post from page one?
Read that and tell me again how you believe that women will only respond to the top .001% of guys.

from what I gather, he is referring to a 5-6/10 who is a smoker (yuk)

no thanks, I would rather masturbate

 

[Soflobro#2]

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from what I gather, he is referring to a 5-6/10 who is a smoker (yuk)

no thanks, I would rather masturbate

You have a self defeating mindset. This is your problem. It's not complicated at all. All this analyzing is not helping you.

 

[Soflobro#2]

And you want it handed to you on a silver platter. Not gonna happen.